Show PERIODICAL EXHIBIT OF VICIOUS TEMPER L SUGGESTS ILLNESS Girl V rhin s Reform Would ouId Have Come in Marriage V Miladys Milady's Unselfishness in V Giving Up Girl Girly By y BETTY BL BLAIR IR IRA A bad disposition may come as a result of physical or I mental Illness or it may be the exhibition or of a very bad habit Whichever it be the he cause should be examined and treatment treatment treat treat- ment given in the cause 1 Dear MISS Blair I am very happily married to toa toa a man who is good and true and who tries to be kind and j st st. N e v e er In fh fhe there S sometimes I 1 II a arise r 1 s e between r B R us differences R. R as vL A I I suppose occur I JV f in every married II I- I couples couple's 1 i 1 f e. e N S 0 m e c times he hejl II jl I bIrI N will keep thIngs L to himself for ti I-ti days and I wont won't I II II 1 have the slightest Ill idea ide what is the matter with him He will go around not exactly sulking ng but mor quiet than usual I cant can't try to find out what is the or it looks as asif Jl if I knew k or suspected what was the matter when as n a matter of oC fact I lm am usually in total isn ignorance igno- igno rance as to what is eating him I The trouble is that he goes Around like thi for or a week or more then over some little thing that irritates him he will explode and then I get the whole works Usually it is a most unjust accusation based on some thoughtless V thing I have said or done and the wrong meaning attached to it If I try to defend himself I am all wrong It I try to explain th the exact truth of the situation from rom my point ot of view he accuses me of offering alibis These wreck me for days My whole nervous system gets so up up- et t I cant can't be natural As a mat ter of fact I want to crawl off aU offIn in some hole and stop living It seems to me that these terrible terri tern ble scenes cenes are somehow a are requirement re- re of his nature That he has bas to boll boil over ever every so orten i I sometimes thInk he gets relief from them but they certainly pIa play hob bob with me It is this that worries me If nothing has re TeI- TeI l. l ly h. happened t to cause cau a blowup lie be invents thIngs out of whole cloth or Of from the most trivial circumstances I hope I have made myself plain Do you ou think anything will change this terrible part ot of his hi nature It makes me sear eu for the future when otherwise otherwise other other- wise we could be so happy FEARSOME These periodical scenes of spleen or whatever they are may be the ex- ex cx- cx of a 8 sadistic tendency in your husband If so you OU should induce in- in duce him to see a good psychiatrist There may be inhibitions going on inside him in order that he shall appear appear ap- ap pear as the Just kind and true husband husband hus- hus band you suggest he really is that d demand mand these occasional outbreaks ot of tyranny as a safety valve A good psychiatrist would probe to the bot bot- torn tom ot of the case and offer olter treatment u as adjustment Or the cause may be entirely cal It used to be thou thought ht formerly that when a mans man spleen didn't tion properly it showed Itself in his disposition There may be more truth than fiction in the idea Or it may be trouble with the digestive tr tract ct or liver If you know ot of any ailment your our husband has you should induce him to have hav a thorough orough diagnosIs by a competent physician or physicians Of course some dispositions are arc in in- In case your husbands husband's is r Letters questions and requests requests re- re quests for advice should be addressed ad ad- dressed to MISS BET BETTY T i BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LA LAKE K Eo Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It L j necessary that you ap pend the right name and address ad- ad dress but these will be held Ia strict confIdence and will nit nt appear In fn print Qu Questions Involving Involving In- In advertising information annot be answered on of that sort ort you need to put on fighting armor and declare war against It H The exhibition of oC n a bad temper can be trained to keep within respectable bounds md and when he realizes real real- lizes izes he has a turbulent virago to deal with every time he spills over the spilling may relegate itself itsell to limbo WAITS FOR REFORM REI Dear l Ii Miss Blair Two years cars ago I wrote you ou ask ask- in lag for advice I was then going with a young oung man who was drinking drinkins drink drink- ins ing heavily He e was begging me meto meto to marry him and had promised to give Up tip drinking if iC I did so Your advice to me mc was to wait until he reformed himself before belore I married hIm I think every thing would have gone fine if prohibitIon hadn't be been n repealed He was drInking less and less and saving his money Now that he can go anywhere and get a drink without having the law on his he ls he shows no restraint He has lost interest in saving his money mony He seems also to have lost interest in me mc Sometimes I thInk if I had mar mar- ned him then I could have helped to reform him and have held him Now he is going coins from bad to worse Is there anything I Ican Ican can do to bring him back DISCOURAGED r I tink n f DIscouraged I concede con con- cede the fact act that I may have been wrong in my to you Your casc may have been the exception to the rule But experience and the fact that you haven't been able to work the you had hoped for leads me strongly to suspect you would have been tied to a drunkard had you married him That would have been tragedy compared to your our present unhappiness You couldn't know just what depths of degrada tion you be dragged through without actually having the ence I wish you knew others who had gone through the mill so you OU might to a certain degree prom profit b by their experience But after all you must live your our own life md and make your our own deci deci- Reform however comes from within and not from outside persuasion per per- suasion Have you tried giving up all claim to this young man to see what effect that may have on him LADIES FIRST Dear Miss Blair you please help to settle an argument as to which a gentleman lights first his own c his lady companions companion's Thanks IN DOUBT If a lights his his' own fIrst it is because he wishes to take the sUlphur fumes that come from the match when first lighted Usage however has established the procedure that most men allow the match to burn an Instant until the sulphur fumes have vanished then the they light their companions companion's before their own CONSIDER ALl A ANGLES Dear Miss Blair I have been gOing steady with witha a girl for six months There are arc two other boys crazy about her herand herand and they keep asking her for tor dates She telLs teUs me about this and this makes rite me think she would like to stop going goinS st steady dy I am pretty sure I like her better than she does me Do you thInk I should suggest to her that I want her to be perfectly happy and it If it her happier to stop going stead steady and go out with these other boys I am willing she should do so Or do you think I should wait until she tells me she no lon longer er wants to go steady BIMBO When she tells teUs you ou about the other boys asking her for dates ask her hershe if she wants to accept them I think that will ill take care caro of the matter For you ou to suggest that you stop going steady would imply you ou no longer cared to do so Rather should you have the courage to hold on to what you ou have Dont Don't throw your happi ness to someone else who may elate It less than you ou If it isn't the girls girl's happiness to continue going goin with you she should have the courage courage cour- cour age to say so g You ma may wish to be entirely un un- se in the matter but standing could so easily creep in were you to offer to turn her over to other admirers NOTE TO MOST INDIGNANT Kindly look for your our letter In the Peoples People's Corner COtner |