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S JA Conic R to- to T S 'S H JJ JJ With A h YEN VEN Betty Blair t iS n rs of ot the tho heart hurt and kindred problems ONLY will be discussed department Dt t ten tars r questions and requests for tor advice nd should mould be addressed Sed to BETTY BErry BLAIR BIAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM r SALT LAKE upon only one aide side of the paper I Is ls necessary that you ap append nd the right name Dame and aDd address but butI butwill will bo be held In strict confidence and aDd will by no DO means appear I If- If Ed L 1 EXPERIENCE Blair f keen been watching your column rest est eu lately and have enjoyed lon lion immensely I am a aI I and bave have traveled ex exten n. n t all aU of or my travels I have with with numerous fellows The Them I whom whom m I have gono gone in other I i talk on Interesting Interesting- subjects dined Here lIere however the wanted to drink vc C e met have these things s arc are disgusting if If drinks were sold In sauld sa- sa uld girls go o in No but degrade derade themselves b by goe gohe go- go he ie e night clubs clubs' and speak id d snaking making Idiots of ot jes es Cs girls will say after r reading 11 I am ant a 2 snob and probably ve ye dates I have plenty plent to toAI AI tl had an Interesting long ago I had been going I with a young man for some time when a a. friend of his came me to town and my sister was asked to go along The Theother Theother Theother other fellow suggested d that we go and get some drinks My friend knew I disliked such things and vetoed the suggestion but the other chap became be came very er Insulting about it and fi finally Il fl nally went to the home of a friend who always al had It O on hand My es cs u I cort refused a Do glass and so did my sister and I. I The visiting visiting- chap clup went back to his home borne and wrote us that he admired any girl Irl who had enough h gumption and will power to refuse such things I was In the cast east a few lew weeks ago o and while there went with numerous fellows Not one of them drank and only a few of ot them smoked I would much rather go o hiking hiking- or swimming or engage in other outdoor sports than to indulge in the indoor sport of ot drinking drinking- and petting When one is enjoying the out doors these other things are locked in the closet The They should be kept there EXPERIENCE Our Utah young youn men and women who do not indulge In drinking drinkin who are busy following ideas Ideas and and there arc many such will such will resent your comparison com corn parison between eastern young men and western They will doubtless tell teU you ou that all varieties are arc to be found wherever you ou go co and md that if circumstances circumstances circum circum- stances have brought you ou into the wrong crowds that is scarcely their fault There are arc many no doubt to whom the comparison applies but comparisons at best as Mark Twain said are odorous things All of ot ofus ofus otus us need to be more tolerant VISITOR OFFERS VIEWS Dear Miss Blair May a visitor enter your our corner I disagree with some of or the writers that just because you ou pick up a 3 girl on the street you OU should suggest anything anything anything any- any thing that Isn't right If It a 3 boys boy's mind were all it should be picking up a girl shouldn't lower her any Because Because Be Be- e- e cause she smokes or drinks is no reason reason rea rca son wh why she cant can't be good Ill I'll bet that if It Not a. Not Beast Beast made some rash suggestions to pickups even those who drink and smoke he has received many a nice slap Isn't Isn It a safe sate bet that just as many women as men can smoke and drink within reason and still be good Im I'm sure that all the men who smoke and drink arent aren't so lets let's give the women an even break Girls who can smoke and drink within reason and understanding will still remain moral it if f they are decent girls I find too that some somo of or these girls who claim around home borne that the they dont don't neck when they get out out out-oh oh bo boy arc are they mushy Ill I'll sa say too that UI if U I cant can't take a girl out at least once a week I dont don't Intend to decorate her parlor larlor every night If It I do Ill I'll at least cast buy bay a nickels nickel's worth of day all-day suckers to help pass the time awa away I dont don't expect girl Irl to blow me for tor too oo much much but but at least one good show a week and a nice treat at after r. r I think Happy is fine tine sticking to o her bo boy friend but I dont don't approve approve approve ap ap- ap- ap prove of her giving g him money So many of ot us men arc are out of ot work If our girl friends will just stick b by us usand usand and nd help us to hold our pride er e every every- thing bins will be o. o k k Cant Can't the girl friend buy a good g book ook that we could read together Or r the good outdoors always affords tree free ree hiking Im I'm a hundred per cent for women's rights A CALIF VISITOR Opposites s attract each other This law aw of popularity holds good in more ways than one It is usually the man who vho has seen all types of women who seeks out the unsophisticated naive laive girl on whom to shower his admiration and most genuine tion ion Then too our behavior patterns pat pat- terns are constructed largely along the he lines of our environment Those who have developed different be be- javior baylor patterns sit in judgment on each cach other It has been this way since the world began GET WHAT THEY TilEY LOOK FOR FOIt Dear Miss l Blair If It girls g looked in the n right ht places for or decent fellows they'd find them n It t is the girl Irl who Is not fussy about the he kind of fellow rellow she goes ith sIth Hh before before be be- fore rore marriage who finds disappointment disappoint disappoint- ment In marriage The They get just what they look forIm forIm forIm for Im I'm not throwing bouquets at myself myself my my- self but Ive I've never yet et let a girl pay m my wa way to anything nor buy gas for formy formy my crate If I dont don't have the mone money I dont don't ask for tor a date Ive I've found round that sometimes a girl likes to togo togo togo go for tor a walk or go o to church Theres There's more nore to life lite than dancing and necking neck neck- Ing Ing- IngA I A fellow cant can't think much of himself him bim- self to accept money from a girl for forgas forgas gas ilS and nn any girl who buys gas to go out with a fellow must be hard up for or one I hope this helps a few of the Romeos and the Babes and Other Babes Arent Aren't we all too prone to blame an unkind Fate or Providence for the blows that our own acts shower upon our heads At least if we dont don't get gel what were we're looking for we get what whal weve we've prepared ourselves for often with compound interest WEIGHT Dear Miss Blair How much should I weigh I am 20 years ears old 5 feet teet 2 3 2 1 Inches tall PUZZLED You should weigh about pounds The weight of men differs cUtters from that thai of women according to the age height schedule USE OF MASCARA Dear Miss Blair Will sili you lOU ou please tell me mc how to use mascara so 80 it will III go on smooth and not in a lumpy lump fashion Thank you ou SALLY Perhaps you ou use too much water That makes the mascara smear The brush shouldn't be dampened at all Put a drop of water on the cake of mascara itself and use a D dry brush Then you wont won't use too much mascara and it will go on evenly NOTE TO PAULINE Send a stamped self addressed envelope en en- for our circular on sun tan hm It will tell you ou how to achieve a nice even tan without getting sunburned a |
