Show Debutante Is a tyrantS tyrant-S I S jl t S I t W I T I = 1 5 7 4 q Yi 1 M V jSL = rLE Vr N4 S I kJ L s If j i dk 7 The debutante daughter tOday is a tyrant and an extravagance To such a point of splendor have the introduction introduc-tion teas for young girls arrived that except the most gorgeous wedding receptions 0 ceptions they stand alone for sumptu 0 P ir b IIIS liii 11 The First Stage of Her Coming Out Gown ous beauty and royal liberality of appointments ap-pointments As far as cost goes there is little to dIstinguish them from bridal functions Every thing that a bride has or needs with the exception solely of a husband is supplied the sweet but Insatiable bud To begin with her trousseau Down to the last handkerchief and paper of pins It must be prepared before her tea for after that grand entertainment so fast and thIck do the invitations fall around her she will have neither time nor energyto spend in shops and dressmakers establishments The Iebu w e2 4 4I S iL 4i gg Il Tr1 r S The Ugly Ducklings Mother Looking For Bouquets tante gown is a costume as complete and costly as a wedding dress and to ever one of the girl friends asked to receive with her 11 souvenir gift with boquets must be given by the ilebu tane The daughter will Expect from her father a necklace a ring or a fan from her mother a brooch or some ornament or-nament that will look well with her whit coming nut gown ith less ortly articles tom other members of the family Having toed the mark on S all these points the selfrespecting relatives t must not stint in floral decorations for the drawing rooms they must have one or two bands of music and they will be I ter allY a ndunpensan Uytalked about In1helrsociil round fthe ladder if j Sc Ii 1 Ui U IJ V A PROmSING BUD they set forth any less sumptuous refreshments re-freshments than are regarded as orthodox ortho-dox for debutante teas and champagne is theon proper beverage to be poured There Is no going behind the rule regarding debutantes bouquets and here we come very often upon a pathetic path-etic skeleton In the loset of an ambitious ambi-tious but not too pretty or too popular social bud Having issued her cards bought her tine gOwns and ordered her delicate wines and viands she and her mother sits with palpitating heart to watch her bouQuets arrive Th friends of her family and the young men in the society she Is entering ar supposed to rend them and to appear to proper advantage it is obligatory that she recleve wJth not one or two but a dozen huge nosegas about her So obligatory In leed is this feature of the coming out that not one girl In a dozen ever receives from her admirers ad-mirers half the 110Iquets she appears with on her recepon day but stands etnbowered in the Dosles ordered up from the florist by her diplomatic parents par-ents However society enjoys Its self deceptions and tosuch an extent has the bOuquet fad grown that this winter win-ter SCOres Qf young girls have stood to recelv their friends beside tables oheaped with as many as thIrty bunches of the costliest roses and staggering helDleSs under the burden of posies in their arms S Then the comln out tea Is over then Ui debutante enter really on her but terny SOtsdh of brillltnc and power 51f she is to do 1U1 family credit like a high strung race horse or prima donna her health and spirits must be maintained at concert pitch The fam ily carriage is put at her command or she must be given a good margin of credit at the livery stable the freedom of the drawing room the luxury of breakfast in bed the comfort and stimulus I stim-ulus of a masseuse a manicure and hair dresser and first claim on all the opera theater and concert seats trIO yielded up to her Having invested a large sum of money In the making of a fashionable daughter the wise parents give her every opportunity and three months in which to prove the value of theIr Investments Of course this Is aU very well with parents whose inComes will guarantee the enormous expenditure entailed by a complete single campaign but the extravagant demands of the ambitious buds today have forced the merey well to do families Into combinations for mutual protettlon against the enormous enor-mous expenses of the initial tea Two three or even five buds will appear together at a single recep lon held In some hosts private drawing room their mothers bearing each a portion o the costs and thus the effect of a thousand dollar entertainment is secured at a third of that sum I |