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Show I' Respect the Rig-fats of Your Owe Family Ii A husband has no right to open bis wife's mall, even though he mav be suspicious sus-picious of Its contents, according to ruling recently given In the Court of Domestic Do-mestic Relation, do not observe lhc rulings of this not-muzh-taJkcd-about Court of Domestic Relations as punctiliously as we should hence the bickerings and sometimes bitter quarrels in homes that mar what should be nlcarant family .intercourse-fnf .intercourse-fnf henrs " mothers reproving children wh?'o Company is nrcstnt for rudencrs that are only a reflection of their own lack of maintaining a code of good manner? among the Immediate members of the household. It docs not nay to drift into habit? of laxncfR in politeness if one expects ex-pects one's children to observe with ay naturalness and ea?c of manner the ameni-tln ameni-tln of social gracrj; and customs Women anj so prone to strain at the -nat or email punctilios of polite deeorum while at the name lime calmly swallowing unkempt camels of gross failure '.n observance observ-ance thaL though rhv mav seem minor oneR tn thotn. nevertheless stamp lhlr attempts at-tempts tn appear dlstlnui4 in well br"d society as futile itid Wholly absurd, .k- . I.- . i I Domestic Relations. . -fifntl.' nnoflfntntlnup confnrmll4' to J voeial e'tiquelte or the hlghepi type, is the. remit of correct bearing in the. h'pme and tntcard one'p everyday, constant surround- , ings. ennmatlm Irom and Instilled bv In- Tate finery?ps of fllnc for thn wishes of "thers and reasonable conformity to new ideas and viewpoint?. Tbe. child that 5 allowed to dispute and argue unjustifiably:, to rush unannounced J Into guests' rooms or neighbors' homes, or ; to make of itself a nul.anco In banking ; nlahoe.' doore. &L, is vrv liable to becqmc '' later a veritable bull of rudencrs in the ' vfrv dellcalo china Ghop of true good breeding. Children suffer much rtjirjnc the period of -adolescencR from, being leaped about thlngp'that should be held as inviolate and lp as much respect as matters we mistakenly mis-takenly imagine to be of greater moment-Parents moment-Parents can much more successfully curb the youthful Impulpe to "court" and write letters to perhaps undesirable companions by' bending their cnerclea toward supplying supply-ing their children with interesting dlver- arousing bitter antagonlrrns an'd attempting attempt-ing to quell those inherent Impulses in all children that can only be wisely directed, not rulhlecsly trampled upon. Snatching the treasured letter surreptitiously surrep-titiously received ferreted out by possibly gross, 'deceit "and" prying on tho part of v parents and reading It aloud with derisive mlrth.and sneers Is hardening and confirming confirm-ing In dnngcrou? trails. Wisely rjiake vour3elf and your child's environment ro beautiful and attractive that it will na.ru-rally na.ru-rally finally come to a. sense of dlscrlm-inatlpp. dlscrlm-inatlpp. Tho Father of Mis Country. It Is said In history. dljd.aipcd to let a servant show cr eater politeness than himself. Some of th? code and daughters of our land are to-day being reared with' the Idea that lei-rants, dally associates and mere, parents par-ents should receive only th spent defer-enccand defer-enccand pollteneaaJcft over from what ts .If.vlehTed prodigally upon outside soclecy. : ; ft. Criticism va. Kindness. i, . There are more reprehensible wqyp of violating dorncatlc rclallona t"haij tho txltc, crude ;nrnE- of 'pater'a pocljetz of small -VwaVajfl th'a abaorbeiJ rtadlns.oC nee' M pap?rs at breakfast tables. Mother's curl paper? and dowdy morning gpwn. even, are not quite so prolific of pernicious refills re-fills a.s her listless ignoring of lhc small, vital' malt-rrs of half-e?,bn?ssed and shylv broached hope-!; nd aspi.a tlons of ler M'-J M'-J brood, thoughtlessly brushed aside for concenlratlon upon the day's yocial cp-gaixcmcnls cp-gaixcmcnls or the : latest scandal of the town. Thre should be less criticism end more good example of the kind poetically expressed by Strickland Gllllland: "llothcr is a Parnate who will always treat me kln'fllv- Playmai- -ric will vidd me what true happiness demands. ' I She will never let my feet stray into brambles blindly Mother's Juft a bigger little girl who understands." I The Innu'sUlve aunt ha habit of trto-Dlns trto-Dlns lightly inio one's hiime. ?xpet'liu)tly hoping to discover some Bluebeard slt'c ton of family disagreement or lax housekeeping. house-keeping. Ambltloup' but Inartlstlr relatives rela-tives bore figurative bnlcs with their evei Into one'" houeohold furnishings, hoping to aro'iire the faculty of harmonious blondJng and arrangement of 'are? and penat.es, Aspiring, wo.uld-be authors secretly se-cretly keep one tyc upon their writer-hostess' writer-hostess' bookshelves while they prattle ot inconsequential matters. |