| Show n Heart Interest t Health Women and the Home Flonie Recipes es M Menus n Your ell Children f First Run Rin Fiction J HEARTS HEART'S HA HAVEN VEN VENI I Conducted by BETTY BLAIR I II Letters Questions and requests for advice should be addressed to ro MISS ISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HA HAVEN VEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon only one side or of the paper paperS S 4 It Is necessary that you append the right ht name and address but these will bo held in strict confidence and will wUl not appear in print Questions Involving advertising Information cannot carmot b be answered answered an an- Letters requiring personal reply must be accompanied by stamped self-addressed self envelopes Ed WEDDING ANNIVERSARY Dear Miss Mias Blair Soon I will vIlI be celebrating my tw n. n ty ty-fUth wedding anniversary so o I thought I would call on you for a n tIe little help I would like Uke to know what to do for entertainment am and what to ler serve e. e How flow shall I be dressed Shall I assist with the serving sen-Ing and the games ames or what shall I do I am to entertain in a recreation hallI hall hail I am to acm send lend invitations How Bow shall they be worded I thank you for your help MRS IRS B. B Idaho The twenty fifth is the silver wedding wedding wed ding anniversary and no celebration allows a lovelier s setting tUng If It possible have bave your invitations printed in silver They must bear the your OU wedding wed ding as well as of ot the present tion Only int intimate I friends and relatives rela rela- tires tives are invited to any anniversary party since are supposed to send presents If you write your Invitations instead of having them printed they may be worded very informally and mIght read as follows D Dear lar Rose and Albert Henry and I are celebrating our twenty fifth wedding anniversary on Wednesday September 20 and it would make us very happy if it you ou could come We will meet In the N. N A. A B. B hall at about 9 o'clock and hope to see you among the other close friends and relatives If It you are arc fort fott fortunate to have your wedding dress saved and can wedge into it by all means wear it Otherwise Otherwise Other Other- wise vise i If una unaccustomed to wearing an evening gown wear your very loveliest loveli lovell- est semiformal or afternoon dress Anniversary parties usually mean just the giving of congratulations and talk about old days das and news interspersed interspersed in in- with appropriate music As a rule that is all the entertainment one need plan That and md some simple refreshments ts I At a silver sliver wedding anniversary the cake is the thing It is placed before the bride in all aU the glory of oC its silver decorations She cuts the first piece as she did 25 years before and divides divides di die vides this pic piece e with the groom After Arter this each guest may cut himself himself him him- self a piece or there may be gift pieces already prepared in silver paper covered coy cov ered cred boxes Ask some of your own younger friends or friends of ot your son or daughter or relatives to help serve but do not assist in the serving or in seeing that the program is carried out This Thi should all aU be provided for before before- hand The fact thai that you are to have haveIt It in a haIl hall suggests that there is to tobe tobe tobe be dancing Have everything In the hands of f those who will assist a It is your part to look lovely and to receive congratulations on that evening nothing nothing nothing noth noth- ing more A buffet supper consisting of fruit salad some light dessert small cakes and biscuits tea or coffee or punch and the wedding cake would be suitable suitable suit suit- able refreshments Th Thc table on which the supper Is spread ma may be appropriately decorate cd ed with candles in silver candlesticks and a silver bowl filled with white flowers and maiden hair fern Silver Sliver bells leaves and tinsel may be used to decorate the hall hail if it you ou wish or or you may have a profusion of white flowers tied with sliver silver tulle in baskets baskets bas bas- around the hall FA FAULT IN DRESS Dear Miss Blair I have been going with a 3 boy for seven months who Is all a girl could ask with the exception of one fault that worries me lie He meets me in his bis shirt sleeves without his coat lie He e often asks me rae to meet him Wm uptown up up- town if U I am going shopping and we wc have lunch together or go to a show v. I have often remarked remark that I didn't like ike to see sec boys bors or men without coats I have ha been awfully embarrassed at these times and have lately b been en refusing refusing re re- refusing fusing fusing- his invitations Would you advise me to say something something some some- thin thing more to him about it and if so what could I say Maybe Im I'm too p particular but I cant can't help it Many thanks for your ad advice now and Inthe in inthe inthe the past PARTICULAR It Is Li the most mOt delicate matter for any my of us to essay to correct the manners even of those nearest and dearest to us It would be bc even more so X to do this tills when the one needing the he correction was in the role of sweetheart sweet sweet- heart But with the change in the weather your friend cant can't continue much longer to go coatless And then probably by very subtle methods of ot discussing fashions for formen formen men nen while you are in the heat of or a about the freedom of fashIons fash fash- I Ions ons for women you can suggest that you wish fashions for men would 1 Change so that men might be comfortable com corn in summer as well as winter without having to overstep the rules of of good propriety in dress As a matter of fact light weight summer materials for mens men's summer suits are now quite the thing but men though the greatest creators of fashions for women are re rc very slow slown I in n adopting an any radical changes in inthe inthe the he vogue of ot their own clothes S PANDORA'S BOX Dear Deu Miss 1 Blair S SI I ha have haa a very cry curious nature always al a- a ways wanting to 10 know the whys and wherefores of everything Sometimes Sometimes Some Some- times my curiosity leads me to ask ver very personal questions which I usually regret doing Recently a a. friend whom I have liked for a a. long time made the remark in a laughing manner man nero ncr though I know she meant 11 seriously seri serf that I had more curiosity than Pandora andora with her box This has sunk deep I dont don't even know who Pandora Pandora Pan Pan- dora was C Can Cin you OU tell lell me CURIOUS Pandora was a beautiful maiden fashioned by the gods who came came to earth bearing a box for dowry which she was forbidden to open until the appointed time In a moment of curiosity curiosity curi curio she opened the box and md out flew flew- all the ills that have since e beset mankind That according to Greek mythology is responsible for tor all our ills We hope the story will help to cure you of or the kind o of curiosity that gives you urge to delve into the personal personal per per- affairs of others Let your curiosity curl curio be satisfied in the byways of knowledge that will be useful to yourself yourself your your- self sel and the world INTRODUCTION TO TORTE Dear Miss liss Blair Please tell me the difference between be- be tween tortes and tarts Kindly give me inc some recipes es for the former Thank you ou IG There seems to be more general confusion over the name torte than your one question suggests Some claim it is really torten and that the d dish h is of or German origin others say it t is tort from the French As a matter of fact whatever the origin it t is different from tarts different from cake and from pudding but a combination of all three Probably the he most famous torte is date torte so o popularly appearing as a delicious relish elish anywhere from home dinners to o fancy parties The recipe follows One half One cup flour fc S teaspoon salt I 1 teaspoon baking powder 1 package pasteurized dates 1 cup of nuts 2 eggs cup cup sugar teaspoon va Va- nilla Sift flour salt and baking powder into a mixing bowl Mix pitted and sliced dates and coarsely chopped nuts luts through the flour with fingertips Beat eggs add vanilla beat in sugar gradually stir in the flour dates and nut mixture Bake in a well oiled shallow hallow pan In a slow oven F for 45 5 to tb 60 minutes Remove from pan cool cut in squares and serve with whipped or ice cream Or cut in bubes cubes and pile in glasses topped with whIpped cream or ice cream Makes from irom rom nine to 12 servings Of this same torte there are many variations |
