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Show Betrothal April is month of disappointments Suzanne Elizale!h Roden WARNER, N H Mr md Mrs George Lincoln Roden announce the engagement and forthcoming marriage of their By Dr Alice Ginot whicS,y-v- Lcgan The couple is planning m wedding The bride-elec- t The prospective wS'8' . Having taken the necessary exams, filled out complicated and sometimes confusing applications, visited schools, subjected themselves to interviews, they wait patiently while other people decide where and whether they are going to Elizabeth Boden, to Paul Harm, son of Dr and Mrs Lonn E Hams 3 rPle throuRhout ve heen 0ut daughter, Suzanne 3 July Warner The - pursue their studies For some, the fateful letter x may start with We are happy to inform you and there Dr Ginott will be much rejoicing Many, not so fortunate, will suffer hurt and iisappomtment For most vmingst rejection is traumatic U graduated from Franklm ( ollege, Franklin, Ind . bridegroom graduated Irom Utah State Unlvei sitv wish there were something I could do to help " It s not advisable to look back, pointing out what a ctuid could have and should have done, making statements such as "I bet now you wish you had studied more1 What did you expect with the scores you had1 Why onto t you spend more time filling out your application" Such comments enrage without changing or improving the situation Blessing in Disguise Sometimes what may seem like a misfortune can be a blessing in disgmse After all, an applicant does not really know wha, college is best suited to his needs Being accepted, like being married, is just the beginning It does not insure happiness or success Some youngsters get themselves rejected because they are fearful of leaving home They may be ready intellectually, and may have excellent grades, but they are too emotionally immature to separate from their parents Without being aware of if, they often sabotage their own efforts, making a poor impression when interv leued or tested makes them feel unwanted, and therefore, undesirable They are convinced that their not being accepted is a negative reflection on them, that they are not bright or competent enough As a result, the letter of rejection makes them feel diminished The cry and become angry and depressed They feel they have exposed themselves to hurt by letting others judge their worth Parents don't have an easy time of it either Because they are unhappy when a child suffers they try to ease the pain They are unaware that it is as important to experience disappointment as It .s to relish success It takes time to get over unhappiness While a child should not be talked, bribed or compensated out of it, be or she should be consoled Acknowledge Hurt It is helpful when parents acknowledge their child's hurt, letting him known that they understand How disappouitmg for you, a parent his feelings can begin You put in so rriuefi ettort, titling out the application, going for the interview, being tested You had your heart set on this school You were so and then to get rejected How awful for you 1 sure fait tjlc Trftwme, Smaiiiv, April ,VL A - Ar4L NTS c arleR - K 4 13 30452 1412-26- 1j sPORTcfAfi 17, 1977 TV FASHION 262-923- peat jp q t NGE'E ClOtmes i, etHOLS MbU FUCE 1 Wedding news a Ball-L- o Proudly Invites All Montanesi, Salt Lake attended the Um-ersity of I tah Monldnesi-Whil- c HUMMEL COLLECTORS TO JOIN City, and Richard S White were married April 9 at Lake Tahoe, Nev A reception was given Goebel Collectors' Club from Voldasta State University, Voldasta, Ga Hyatt Lake Tahoe, was setting for a wedding breakfast The bride, daughter of Arthur Mr. and Mrs $10 INCLUDES it Ceromic membership plaques Walkinrv-Ketch- One year subscription to Goebel Collector's News (published quarterly) Good vinyl binder for Newsletters Advance mailings on new items Opportunity to purchase Exclusive, Members Only Hummel figurine No 387 "Valentine Gift" $45 00 Retail it Discounted trips to Germany VIP tours of Goebel factory Coll regarding membership applications ZCMI Center 176 ie Debbie Lynn Watkins and Henry Louis Ketchie Jr were married Saturday in Our Saviours Lutheran Church A reception was given after the ceremony Log Haven was setting for the wedding breakfast The bride, a daughter of Mr and Mrs Richard V Watkins, Fayetteville, A.k , attended the University of Puget Sound, Tacoma, Wash , and Utah State University The bridegroom, a son of Mr and Mrs Henry Louis Ketchie, Salt Lake City, graduated from USU with a degree In forest management and forest recreation of Merry Wanderer ir Personalized membership card Main Street Aisle Suite v The hi ldegroom, son of Mr and Mrs Leo White, Napa, Calif , graduated at The Saturday House, Shalamar. 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