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Show 4W The Salt Lake Tribun?, Sunday, July 19, 1979 0 Your Attitudes During Pregnancy Have Big Impact On Childs Life j By Beime Moss Tribune Staff Writer Generally when a baby is conceived it is a very healthy tiling. circumstances However, surrounding the pregnancy are great determining factors r 9 X 1 . V f child later the how on becomes involved in a family relationship and society , said Mr Corme Bndgewaters, social worker, Department of Social Work, University of Utah Medical Center. How a person feels about one's self, the spouse and even the family and society will have an influence on the pregnancy and the child, she said. IQ, Corine Bridgewater That Baby Business f Check Here For New Novelty Aid By Judy Kulstad Associated Press Writer CHICAGO Housewares, beauty and grooming aids and novelties were on display at Jwo housewares shows to em- hasize new variations on an fId theme making things easier lor the housewife. e 1 A grater from Vernon Products, Inc. of hunt Vernon, N.Y., operates ith a turn of the wrist, and ts makers promise that ftn-r- s need never come in con-c- t with the cutting edge. Wrinkle Remover There are many children conceived for the wrong reasons, not only outside of marriage but also within the legal bounds of marriage. This is also true among planned children as well as surprise packages " Meaning of Children In an unplanned pregnancy the parents have not had the chance to think about the meaning of children, noted Mrs. They Bridgewaters. have not had, or probably taken the opportunity to think about the responsibility involved, both physically and emotionally. And many don't know what children are all about. Some parentr feel that when they are married they don't need to be concerned one way or the other about planning a family. They dont seem to worry or care. These people are generally less articulate and resourceful than parents who plan. Another group might not will keep her m her desig-nate- d want children but are too lazy place: at home as a to practice birtn control. wife and mother and out of Then there is the misintemptation's reach. formed group. These are peoreasons harmful These to who scare listen ple every only demonstrate the persons lactic about The Pill, intraudevices and other own inadequacies and insecuterine rities. The child becomes a meihods of birth control. Thee people should seek tool to use again, each medical advice from a doctor, other. not from fnends or neigAssure Marriage hbor." She aKo commented on the Pointing out that more and unmarried woman who may more people today are plandate a fellow for some time Mrs. ning their families, and then intentionally get People Bridgewaters said, pregnant in order to assure have become more economthat he will marry her. She ically oriented to what It is often In the middle or upper takes to rear a child. They class of society where the are feeling less from family and pofrom their religion and feel pressure sition has a good deal of sway less inhibited about speaking in the decision making. Out on what they believe in. TTien there are parents, Depends on Motive especially a father, who wants Even though they are to perpetuate a self image and planned and thought about, perhaps give a child all those some of these pregnancies things he himself never had. can be just as disastrous as In a way, this person is some unplanned pregnanremolding his life through his cies, she said. "It depends .child. He may want a child, on the motive and circumnot for the child's sake, but to stances involved. carry on the family name, Many couples think a baby she said. will help a troubled marriage These expectations and that the baby will bring pressures are often so great them closer together. But that the .child frequently then the child may just bebecomes insecure and thinks come a cover up for awhile himself a failure w'hen trying until the original problem to live up to the image that arises again. After that, the was created for him. Mrs. Bridgewaters, who is a baby is probably an additional member of the Academy of complication unless the problem is worked out. Certified Social Workers, acSome women think that if knowledged that society has they have a child, they can done its part to put pressure hold their husband, that he on a couple to have children. wont stray because of the If a couple is married very child, she said. long without having a child In the same sense a husthey are thought to be selfish band may pressure his wife to and irresponsible, she said. have a baby thinking the child Society seems to think it is a red ... By Lydia Lane HOLLYWOOD -- 1 met Barbara Eden before she was married. Now, 12 years later, the mother of a son and the J An electric wrinkle remover heats ordinary tap water to fteam and .. takes out the creases in drapes, curtains, slipcovers and clothing. Its lnanufacturer, General Electric, calls it a traveling valet. J special plastic face keeps unit from the hand-siz- e Scorching or burning fabrics. A San Dimas, Calif., firm, eative Decorative Co., Inc., showing a rlap covering to brighten ip shades, waste cans and kitchen cabinet doors. M Ja t Actress Barbara Eden gives thoughtful explanation of how' to accumulate birthdays. Utahn to Attend Club Meet White Obrav, Margaret will represent the Logan, Utah Federation of Business and Women's Professional repair service. J A water filter designed with ftontipollution in mind attaches the faucet and removes purities, dirt, detergents and odors from tap water. A product of Bentley G'fts, Inc , Bellmore, N.Y., the filter is charged with activated N.H. (UPI) -lettuce isnt just an j. Iceberg economical buy now, but thanks to vacuum cooling and jet age transportation from sfhere it' grown, it also adds ; DURHAM, color to the table. I H. Marple, nutrition specialist with the University of New Hampshire Extension Service, called ice-- I berg lettuce an gummer meal bnghtener. In addition to tearing it into Site-siz- e pieces, she suggests fqur other ways of serving it? Wedges with the bead of lettuce cut in half and then easy-goin- r Cites Beliet I was brought up to believe in a universal plan that one could rely on end on the importance of turning in to this unseen help. -- duty and obligation to produce a child, to procreate in order to keep the human species alive. Hopefully, with all the emphasis on the population explosion now, that pressure will ease. If what you are doing makes you unhappy, that is the signal that you're out of Barbara tune, explained. Make an honest evaluation of your potentialities and seek to develop them. Try to do the this job as well as you can will lead to success. When I first came to I was told Id . Hollywood never make it by the same man who later offered me a contract, she mused. I was grateful to my family for a belief in myself, so what others told me did not depress me. The teens are turbulent times, and every young person striving to become an adult needs direction and a working faith. Body, Too Next to emotional stability, Barbara places a healthy bodv. They really go together. The destruction of one will pull the other down. My appreciation of the part food plays in feeling well has been deepened by woricing in a series, which is an enormous drain on energy. I used to love so many fattening things that my weight was always fluctuating, but fortunately I went to a good doctor who explained that crash diets are a shock to the system and the reducing pills Then there is the male or female who may feel that proof must be g'ven to peers or family of masculinity or femininity. The birth of a child is the most obvious way they see to do this. have dangerous not fully explored. He said when you go against nature in any form you pay for it I changed my pattern of my eating and sense of taste, Barbara revealed. We serve wholesome, nutritional food now, and when I eat something that is not first-rat- e it sits in my stomach like a brick. Thinking about age ages you. I love birthdays, but I dont count them and I don't measure an image of mvself in terms of when I was bom. Every time of life has its rewards. In conclusion, Barbara stat side-effec- ts g B t Haiti! A couples parents also can be great contributors to the pressure to have children. They believe that having grandchildren will rekindle an interest in life for them. When the child himself becomes a terribly important consideration, he Is often the very last to be considered . . . except as a pawn between parents, Mrs. Bridgewaters said. And used as a pawn the child becomes the implement for emotional and often physical child abuse. ed: Acceptance of your fate, whether it is oriented for tame or prolonged youth, is the key to fulfillment. The youth formula demands that you check yourself to avoid and conflicts accumulating tensions. Dont get closed m with selfishness, and strive to give your body what it needs in the form of food, exercise and rest. Submit a Picture Before Wedding The great increase in the number of weddings in our area makes it possible for The Tribune to publish only the engagement or wedding photograph, but not both. To assure publication, photographs for use with wedding announcements in The Tribune should be in the office of g the Women's Dept., Room 201, Tribune Bldg., at least one week before day of the wedding ceremony. The $5.00 charged tor wedding photographs is to cover engraving costs. Because of the volume of photographs handled, The Tribune can assume no responsibility for pictures submitted. Park Free et Main Parking Mall. Enter ct 26 W. Broadway. It's so convenient! NOW IN PROGRESS WALK-OW- S tele-visi- Bruce Obray, was selected Utah winner at the state convention in June in Roosevelt. Purpose of the contest is to and recognize plishments their abilities and service to business and community. Mrs. Obray was an honor graduate Clubs, as its Young Career Woman, at the natonal co- nvent l o n Sunday Thursday in Honolulu. Mrs. Obray, wife through of D. Liven Up Lettuce Use Sylvia r I& business recognize young women and to laud accom- u Mrs. J t I" Twico-Ycar-ly rin Also on display is a plastic polling pm which prevents pastries from sticking when it (s filled with cold water or Ire. It was created by Flam-beaPlastics Corp. of Bara-oo- . Wis. Shetland Lew.t, a division $f Smith Corona Machines Corp., showed a canister vacuum cleaner with lift-ocomponent parts for s g star of a TV series, she looks as young as she did then. I asked her formula for not aging, It is not any one thing, Barbara replied. "The first two words that come to mind are direction and contentment. You have to know what you want and how to accomplish it in a way that will make you happy. Success measured in material terms does not mean contentment if you go against your true self. hard-workin- v Rolling iwj LCyJia Slush Mug ; IV Barbara Edens Keyed In to a Winning Formula cheese-nut-spic- For the children. Glacier-tare Inc. of Clinton, Conn., Offers a dishwasher-saf- e plastic slush mug. A nontoxic capsule is activated by the freezer section of the refrigerator and turns soft drinks into ice slush that can e eaten with a spoon. J A home alarm lock that can be installed on any door founds a buzzer alarm if an intruder tampers with the attached chain lock. The alarm, Jnanufactured by Leigh Product!, Inc. of Coopers ville, tyich., runs on two midget lotteries. n am m Jed Utah State Qd c, I can't Precious furs This past year she has been teaching history and contemporary problems at Logan High School. She is the daughter of Mr. and Mr. Barnard R. White, stand the heat. 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