Show HE 7 Come eRTS eRT'S to- to HA HAVEN VEN With wilh Ben Belt Blair ONLY will b be discussed nd problems Attain Affairs of ot the beart heart and In n this department bi b. addressed I to and nd requests COt rOI adVice Letters s. questions TEl SALT LAKE JUSS BETTY BLAIR 8 HAVEN Write legibly only one side of the paper upon append the n ome me and out ut It La b necessary that you theae will be beld m strict confidence and and will by no co means appear In u print Letters requiring personal reply mut be accompanied b by tamped elf elf-addres ed envelopes Ed Ed W EX RETURNS Dear lUl Ma 5 Blair Fifteen years a ago o while living In Ina Ina a distant state from here In my husband husband hus hus- band suddenly disappeared We hadn't been getting along niong any too well together torether and so ao when he didn't come back I knew he be had bad deserted me rue and I obtained a divorce Shortly after that I 1 came to Utah and rented a large lare house houst to to take in roomers I Iwas Iwa's Iwas Iwas was wa's along very well until the depression came and even en then have managed to g get t b by In all this time I had not heard from my husband and often oUen won I dered Just what had become 0 of him I didn't know whether he was vas dead or alive Three weeks ago o when I vent went to answer the doorbell who should stand there looking as prosperous pros pros- as you please but my former husband lie He ha has bought the property I J am renting and had come to see sec me about a new settlement for rents Wo We were both very much surprised to see e ea each other He Re came caine here about the same sam time Ime I did though neither of ot us us knew it before He lie has been to I see sec me several times since and wants us to get Id things fIx fixed d up and get ret married again I told him it isn't so easy to forgive a deserter But he says he I didn't c love him and he leI didn't want any fuss and bother 0 to he be thought that was the easiest Way to give ghe me inc my freedom I What do do- you think about U It it Miss 1 Blair Do you ou think I am taking I chances on marrying him again lIe He has Iia work worked d' d hard bard and s saved sed ed and acts as 5 though hc really lov loves byes s me rue I think I have always ahva'S loved him only I hate to admit it after the way wa he treated treat treat- L ed eel me e. e IN DOUBT Perhaps the separation has taught both husband and wife lessons that will make living together in happiness happiness happiness happi happi- ness possible You have had time to sift silt values you ou know each others other's best characteristics and time has hasa a way of mellowing ones one's disposition and of rooting out the defects if you give it il but half a chance The Thc fact that your husband still loves you and that in spite o of what you consider his mistreatment of you OU you still love him has more than an anything anything any any- thing else lse to do with the solution of your problem Love cannot be gainsaid gainsaid gainsaid gain gain- said by a o. afew few d differ differences er of opinion opinio nor even by suspected wrongs unless you havea have a very stubborn disposition In the latter event I advise you not notto notto notto to marry your former fonner husband again S BLEACHING LOTION Dear Miss 1 BI Blair lr Will you please give i e me mea a good rood formula for Cor- mula f for r a 3 bleaching pack for my hands bands Thank you MELL A pack to be left on m overnight is made as follows Two tablespoons of cornmeal six drops tincture of benzoin benzoin ben ben- zain one one and one half teaspoons pe peroxide peroxide pe- pe two teaspoons lemon juice Thin with olive oU oil Old gloves should be worn during durin the night to keep the mixture on The treatment should be given every night for a week andi and i less ss frequently ther thereafter after after- BRIDES BRIDE'S FATHER Dear Deu Miss 1 Blair What would you do In a c case e of 01 this kind My lr father and mother arc i divorced My mother has remarried I am now to be married and I want my real father to give Ive me tway wa How can this be done without a general I am to be married in church Thank r you JUSTINE I This can all be very nicely arranged arranged ar are ar- ar ranged Justine Justin Your father CO cones for you at an appointed time and waits walts outside in the motor for you He alights from the me car carand and helps you in Immediately after you start forthe for forthe the thc church by a circuitous route your mother leaves the house with your stepfather and takes a direct route to the church in order to be seated be before ore the processional be begins ins You go up the aisle on the arm of or your father he gives you away and immediately retires to a pew two or three rows back of the one occupied b by your mother All very simple Your stepfather ma may decide to stay aw away from the ceremony Fastidiously Fastidious Fastidious- ly Iy he would doso but if be between tween all of you have been casually adjusted he may wish to be there and you may wish to have him there If It so so it is considered perfectly proper nowadays HAIR AIR MODES Dear Miss Blair I think If I could learn to do my hair in a a. becoming way war it would improve im prove my looks I am not really homely bomely but it II seems that I lean rean can never do my b hair lr to look neat Sometimes I think I will try having it cut cul boys boy's style to brush off my ray forehead and back of my ears cars Ive I've tried nearl nearly every way but that and didn't think any of ot the styles Improved my looks I am 18 and have hase quite a hl high h forehead forehead fore fore- head and straight nose Thank you ouI ou I EMILY LY There are man many women who have had a hairbreadth escape from mediocrity mediocrity me me- in appearance But they learned what to do with their hair and it saved them There are are few tew women who arc are beautiful enough to wear their hair in a severe forehead the away away- the from Sit down and look at yourself Inthe in inthe inthe the mirror Take the pins away from your hair Drape it around your face tace Sometimes the effect will make you look as smart as a silhouetted figure on a theater program At other times you ou will have of pf Keep on until you ou find the effect that is you If It your hair is is' too short to permit any attempts at change and you OU dislike dis like the way you are wearing it let it grow crow until it is long enough for you to mold it into int a more arnore interesting coi coiffure fure Curls have been returning lately Clusters of ringlets at the nape of the neck are in keeping with the thc puffed purred sleeves and flowered organdies that have made women so glamorous ag again in B But t if your you curls curls' give the thc appearance appearance ap ap- ap of having been pinned on instead ad of having grown tight to your scalp dont don't wear them You must look natural above everything There are a few simple rules to remember remember remember re re- re- re member in planning a new coiffure If It your face is as round as an apple c curl rl your hair and fluff it a little on your cheeks and let your forehead show Accentuate your roundness If your our nose is big dont don't pull your our hair back over your our ears cars Bring your our hair down on your forehead and watch your our nose recede Wisps curls or a side bang all aU help Choose the theone theone theone one that looks best If your face is long and thin a longer b bob b will be beneficial in softening softening soft soft- ening its angles If one side of your face is prettier than the other part your hair on the side that is less perfect Necks also tell you what to do about hair Whether they arc are short hort and plump or long and slender will help you ou decide But sit down and look in the mir Frame your face as becomingly as you can It will receive more than thana a second glance C. 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