| Show Come Conz-c rne to to- to ff A I VEN 17 A VM H aA ri J A T S 'S B EAR Hi A it 1 O A JL i Jf Belt Betty Blair air Affairs of ot the tie heart and kindred problems problem ONLY will wUl bo be discussed cussed In this department Letters Letter questions question and requests for advice should b be addressed to MISS BETTY nErr BLAIR BLAIK HEARTS HEART'S ARrS IlA HAVEN VEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write 1 legibly upon only ono one side of the tho paper It Is necessary that you append tho the right narno nomo and address but these will be held In strict confidence and will by no means appear In print Letters requiring personal reply must be accompanied by stamped cl self addressed cd envelopes Ed A TIGHT PLACE De Dear r Miss l Blair Arent Aren't people funn funny The They RC gel el themselves In tight light places and User ther yell for somebody else to come an pull pall them through Im I'm no from the rest Ive I've been going stead ste months Athe A Al Althe with a 1 fellow for five the same time I have h been also ac ax accepting dates with another boy occa The first boy Is a good steady dy re reliable reliable reliable liable fellow rellow who would make snake an girl Irl a good husband lIe Ho Is very Cry sen senous serJ ous oos with me and It Is practically understood un an that we we arc are engaged to caci other The boy with whom I have occa dates Is a 1 restless fly fly-b good Rood looking boy who lio expects to conquer con quer the world and make a big for fortune fortune tune some day yet et who cant can't sta ta with one Job lon long enough to save sac a t nickel Yet I like him best In fact I am In love with him He e is a dream cr nothing more Yet he Is a thriller and all the girls arc crazy about himI him I cant can't Imagine why he ever looks almo at al atme atme me mo at all The first boy has found out that I Ibave have bave been going out with the other fellow and it hurts harts him terribly In fact after I have been out with the theother theother theother other boy I am so In Indifferent to the thenice thenice thenice nice slow friend I can hardt hardly be decent de dc cent to him The Thc latter has s money mone In the bank hangs onto his Job and andis andIs andis is due for a promotion When he gets gels It I am sure he be will want to get mar mar- tied I want VIVant to get married too and have ha havea haea a little apartment to keep nice and clean But when I think of having havinga a home of m my any own It Is alwa always s 's the good looking good for nothing boy boj with whom I see sec myself sharing it But Dut the steady boy friend insists insist that I give the other up altogether Shall I 11 UNDECIDED Which would you ou r rattier rather that you V give up the more glamorous less substantial substantial sub sub- affair with ith the no count lad ad now or that you wait wail until he gives you ou up One On or the other is inevitable The sort of feeling you have for him does docs not presuppose all that is necessary for marriage Perhaps Per Pcr Perhaps haps your our feeling for the nice bo boy doesn't either cither but we think you would be happier with him if you ou were ere t to discontinue seeing the occasional occasional occasional occa bo boy altogether One On cannot live on the kind of froth that the character and ability of the second boy indicates would decorate any kind of dish he might be able oble to offer you The froth would soon be whisked away and when you came to look for the more substantial edible beneath you would discover that what remained was nothing but the remnants of froth I Dont Don't be foolish Love is indeed a rare fare qU quality l ty and its byproducts of home famil family income trust permanency perma nency are natural and to be expected One need never l look ok for these in an an Infatuation that takes into account only good looks and superficial thrills If it is marriage you arc are looking lor br select in your mate those qualities es that will help to make a success of or your choice S BASHFUL BOY Dear Miss 1 Blair I have ha only taken out one girl In my life lire but bot she quit me for another fellow Now Noc there Is another girl I would like to go with She is a stunning girl Irl and has plenty plent of fellows fellows fel fel- fel lows and friends but she looks at me mea a l lot t at dances and I would sure like to get acquainted with her I dont don't have any difficulty getting acquainted with other girls in the dances but I 1 get a feeling like m my blood Is all leaving leaving leav leav- ing m my body and rm Im getting all stove up when I think of meeting this girl Jirl Nobody else has ever affected affected af af- af me like this Im I'm bashful all alt right but bat I manage manar-ej to o get by How lIow shall I meet this gl girl without acting like liko a 1 fool I dont don't dontI t I want her to kno know kno right off olf the ba bat batS batI S I that Im I'm dippy over her but I might I get tongue tied Just at the wrong moment mol moI mo mo- l I ment and not even cven b be able to ask he her H r for a dance EX t l It sounds as I if you'd been roped a aright all right and that by the gal youve you've never met But banish your fears fear The meeting will not jolt you ou half hall s so much as some of those broncho V youve you've been riding Get it over with wit and you'll feel fine Have one of the boys who knows know I her tell her there is an ex cowboy i ithe In Inthe Inthe the crowd who would like to know kno I her He can vouch for you ou b by telling her youre you're a pretty decent sort o of chap and we wager wa er she wont won't refuse refus to accept the introduction Keep o on V familiar ground with her when i it V comes to conversation Dont Don't try t to talk about the opera when its it's th the V range and the roundup and the bron bron- cho busting that's on the tip of your you ton tongue ue Shell She'll be far more interested in knowing the real you than an imaginary person in a role you cant can't just justify y DOWN AT THE TilE MOUTH Dear Miss Blair There is a certain member of ou our family amily who simply luxuriates In sorrow sorrow sor sore row and lOd tragedy She sees the sai sad and the bad side to life She picks pick out the saddest book the weepiest play the most tearful movie in pre ence em-ence to the funny one every time And nd for her friends she chooses people people peo peo- plc who arc always bent under a a. pack of or troubles As s a a. result of all aU this she is devel a sag sagging Ing mouth that positively ruins runs her expression Isn't there something we can do about this lem em especially about the mouth Thank you oa RELATED This particular beauty problem hats has ha its ts origin deep down in ones one's ion Hon Local treatments of the mouth mout muscles will help of course but i if the he correction is to be both thorough and speedy speed there must be a complete overhauling of or the point of view Without making it too apparent there here is method in m your madness surround surround surround sur sur- round her with friends of your own ow-n choosing invite her to your choice of f a movie do a oral orRl reviewing of f the less gloomy books you choose for or yourself to intrigue her Interest As a local corrective smart patting of f the fingertips is good for these lazy azy mouth muscles and if the pat ting ing is supplemented by coating this part art of the face with the white of an egg gg a pick up effect will be benot not noticed ced GUEST ETIQUETTE Dear Miss l Blair Recently I was a ga guest st In En a home for or several days I was not a little embarrassed on several evenings because be be- cause I didn't know whether I should ay y goodnight first to my hostess or I wait until she said goodnight to me mc I Consequently both of or us sat until late laten in n the evening c on these occasions Im I'm sure she was tired and so was L LI I thought as 35 soon as I came back to Salt Lake I would have this difficult problem settled Can you help MRS T. T It is the guests guest's place to say goodnight good good- night ight to the hostess at any time she wishes She She need need not wait for a late hour jour and it is always in order for her hero herto herto to o sa say that she is tired or that she wishes to rise early or to give any reason eason she may have or no rio reason at t all for going to bed earl early If you think hink that going to bed early requires some ome sort of explanation you may give ive it NOTE TO JEAN Our circulars on Freckles and Treatment of or Sunburn will vill help you with your our problem Kindly send a stamped tamped self addressed envelope for hem |
