Show 1 Come Conic to toE to- to A YEN VEN E EAR ARTS ART'S R T S HA With Bell Betty Belly Blair the heart hrut and kindred problems ONLY will be discussed ff r of ot 1 B II this Oil s 's department and 1 for tor advice be bc addressed to f t sETTY n BLAIR HEARTS HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE UKE S upon UDon only one side aide of the tue paper W lis legibly that jou rou OU append the rl right ht name and address but butwill 1 p J 5 wUl will Is b bei be Held m lii strict confidence and will by no means appear b c- c NEXT VACATION TIO C lJ vacation I IIa summers summer's lost s mf L wonderful boy bor We e went Ii Ia most hiked rode horsed horse horse- under the shady trees frees read d l k Ideal vacation This bo boy boyI I pJ corresponded ever er since I I vc to write about beginning I is he be w lie He wants to tot toi lied vacation t i In the same ume place again to do things same not riot written of or an anything j thing It ehaS MS than wanting to repeat re serious but I times we WC had bad together P good fOod l hard bard to read rud ad between the Ii 11 not told me so much of or has haa Its tJ lie He lie He Is a hard letters letter L elf U In his SJ and thrifty and I j looking when he Jie will wilt bc ic e day j the ard rd 10 lIe He has told me In ine ly of his hi letters that he thinks e his met Ibe be girl he be cants to j meet me to toke sure sure that I Im Am m the girl iske ke more that I want wantI sure now ot SO 50 not 1 Gt I lam I him again pin It was a wonder wonder- i summer Jammer lamer and 1011 a romantic antic flutter ii 1 orld orId that hUt after all i ls 1st unreal to o I a existence I dally daily to r my Sf enjoyed his letters but hut they e Snot not ot thrilled me I have felt all nil allEar Te liTe Ear that thai I g was wa up for Inspection Hi 1 that lust If I m meet l hIm this summer cr Mu 11 be still more so Jehu ehu a kind of cocksureness a about out as s If Ir any girl Kr should be glad r rUl rui the dance chance to accept him As ts a aI I Lutr atLer of fact bet Im I'm not so sure I would there Is another boy ire Iff whom If fl he hc said the word I told n P BP P so 50 quickly It u would Ike bU head swim lie He doesn't In iii love lo with desperately am I dont don't intend that he until I am more sure of or ward toward me mc sh 11 J spend m my vacation at the 4 resort with m my corresponding this year Or shall I just tell him I have he other plant plans gj Si 10 probably end my vacation end lp I am to take my mr vaca- vaca sa en la in July or August i AT SEA SC t I The Theold old adage Distance lends en en- has an exception in your As matter of fact fact act eAt At Sea a his has in La most cases where love ove i is You dont don't fall in love with eman man in China or if you were once lore Jove with him you rou fall faU out again agai be recaptured by the love and md se sed sex d youth whose proximity you feel Distance may lend enchantment to and other green creen pastures I t when ben it comes to love it is th the thein in m w who o is there in person to woo WOOL o 0 wins ond time just to be sure what the influence influence in fluence luence of his direct personality willbe will willbe willbe be But I advise that you do not riot go to the same place The will have departed from the place you visit twice There will be bc a different different dif dif- ferent sort of reaction reaction reaction-it it may be bc one of disappointment and and you may attribute this disappointment to his personality instead of to the environ environ- merit ment Dont Don't be afraid to find out the thc truth for yourself But much can happen between now and August Augusi The spring has rea really just begun and a young oung mans man's fanc fancy can take great flights in the space of a very short time You and the boy who is here may have come to toa toa toa a definite decision regarding each other by that time BOY NEGLECTS EGLE PROPRIETIES Dear Miss Blair A certain boy has bas been coming to tomy tomy tomy my home every Sunday Sundar and some sonic times limes durin during the week eek for almost two Iwo years ears Only once during this time has he lie taken me rae any place He lie always stays stas until he is asked for dinner and after dinner he runs along home I never ne have ha the nerve to tell him himo J to o go IO home If Ie we arc lre going oin an anywhere any any- 1 where in the car while lie he is there I I feel compelled to ask him to go 0 with us and invariably he goes This boy seems nice enough h hut but he just seems to be too dumb to know that he be should return a favor I am not Scotch about having this boy eat cat in m my home I dont don't begrudge him the food rood but he seems to carry earn the Idea that he be is bestowing bestowIng bestow bestow- ing a great favor on me to come here and accept our hospitality time after aftertime aftertime aftertime time and that nothing is expected of or him in return I Many a time have I asked a bojo boy boj boyto borto to o m my home for tor refreshments after a ashow ashow show how in iii order to save C on his hb pocket pocket- boo book ook so I think nobody can accuse me mc of or begrudging hospitality What Wha shall hall I do a about out this boy ho sho bo ex cx peels eels me to do all the entertaining MILLY There might be bc many ways ays for a ajoy boy joy to return hospitality without takIng taking tak tak- Ing ng a girl out Many a bo boy is sought sough for or his company He talks so well wel welland and nd is such a good entertainer that the ic family he visits always welcomes him um He has so 1 little spending money while he hc is going to school that he finds it impossible to pay for any sort ort of entertainment nt whatever Yet ac according to the values that the famy fam farn- ily y he visits places on things he feels justified in accepting the invitations Perhaps in irs his heart he feels that tha he ic owes them a good deal for their then kindness and hopes some day to reay repay re re- rc- rc pay ay them in ways other than being affable and companionable By al aU all aUthe the he rules of society such a boy would be e justified in accepting invitation after invitation from the same friends But the thc boy who calls repeatedly without an invitation who makes hi his calls alls at t meal times who could return favors and doesn't is simply a boor unacquainted with Ith the proprieties I You ou should plan delicately to leave leavean leaven an n book open at the right place where he could see sec it ft on one of f his calls and leave him alone fo for a few minutes in the hope that he would read it Or if it you consider his us friendship not worth s saving ving by teaching caching him some of the finer graces say ay to him laughingly that in m your you family amily only those who work can ea eat and nd take him into the garden offer offe him um a spade and anti good se set him ilm to work vork to dig a plot for your you favorite l flowers lowers A few repetitions repetition of this would doubtless make him think twice before he called at th the dinner hour Washing windows might be e a good substitute for gardening II If f you would catch a goose you ou mus mu must t play fox TOO YOU YOUNG G I Dear Miss Mis Blair I am 14 Hand and go O to junior high school chool All MI the girls of my crowd go 10 to parties and shows with boys bos hut tut DJ my mother says a 8 I am too young Dont Don't you think It would be bc all aU right for or me mc to go to these places with nice nic boys bos from school ANNETTE NETTE I think 14 is much too loo young fo for boys and g girls to pair off for parties I and shows Why not go in groups 1 and have the party or the movie over early enough that everybody could get set home safely There arc are so many years left leU for lor boys and girls in the later adolescent years to go together You dont don't want the experiment to grow crow stale before the right time has arrIved for you to try it out COLORS FOR BABY BAllY Dear Miss Blair Will Wilt you OU please settle an argument and tell me mc what Is b the correct color for a baby boy borZ My l friend says pink pinkI I 1 say uy blue BABS nABS The various colored accessories for tor fora tora a baby boy arc supposed to be blue those for a girl pink However the wise vise mother chooses the color that tha looks best besl on her baby have brought about much discord discord dis dis- cord in regard to this question as some of ot them make pink accessories I for the boy and blue for the girl and some vice versa NOTE TO J 3 R. 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