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Show Suncun Cynthia Coer to Wed Elaine Anderson Will AAichael D. Pulsipher Marry James Richard CynUua Ami Coer wiU marry Michael Dean a ceremony to be Pulsipher performed the Provo LDS Temple Ai, open house mil honTthe couple that evening at the home of the Mr and Mrs Guy Anderson Seattle Wash announce the engagement and approaching marriage of their daughter Elaine to James David Richard New York rWk bridegroom s Mr and Mrs parenu. Elwm D Provo Friends and relatives are invited Puisipner to attend Parents of the bride-eleare Mr and Mrs Raymond E Coer Waterbury, Conn The couple will marry on Friday in the Provo I DS Temple An house will be open given bv the bride s grand parents, Mr and Mrs Hermans 'Richards Provo in the Edgemont Third Ward Relief Society Room The open house is slated Friday from 7 to 9 p m nST11 radualed fr Timpview High and Seminary and was a member of A Cappelia Ihoir She is employed in Provo Mr Pulsipher is a 'graduate of Orem High and LDS Seminary and served an LDS Mission in the Georgia Atlanta LDS Mission He is attending Brieham Voting I Diversity with a double in communications and militarv science major The couple will reside in Provo following their marriage Also attending as special guests will be the bride s other grandparents. Mr and Mrs Fred Anderson Provo The has attended Brigham Young University and been employed in Provo After their marriage the couple will reside in Seat- ELAINE ANDERSON bride-to-b- e Love... By Karen Blaker, Ph.D. DEAR DR BLAKER My boyfriend and I just Drone up alter uvin together for five years. am very upset' I let my other friendships lapse during those years to show him he was the most important person in my life As a result, there has been no one to help me through this crisis i hope you will print this letter to iZC ttW!l 1VI V.. 'M 1 warn other women against making my mistake. DEAR READER I am printing your letter as - warning to other women and men not to make your mistake When your lover is also your best friend, you are treading on dangerous ground Not only are you a best friend - same-se- x who, ex- perts agree, gives a special kind of closeness and understanding but you are running the risk of being alone during the process. Peter Mc Williams' poem, breaking-u- p "How to Survive the Loss of a Love," captures this frustration : All I need is someone to talk to About you. But you are the only person I can really talk to. Trapped. DEAR DR. BLAKER My fiancee was killed in a car crash six months ago. Since then, I haven't been able to work, I can't eat or sleep well, and I am generally miserable. About a week I ago, started seeing her around the neighborhood. I call her name and run to her, but she never stops. She only smiles and drives away. Sometimes I know it's all in my imagination. But, at other times, the image is so vivid I wonder if she is really dead. Am I going crazy? DEAR READER -Losing a loved one can be one of the most psychologically devastating experiences of one's life. Each person reacts to the crisis in his or her own way, but experts have some guidelines to determine who might need help with the grieving process. A person probably does not need help if he or she experiences sighing, especially when discussing grief, lack of strength; exhaustion; fL H disgestive problems; feelings of guilt and anger; preoccupation with the image of the deceased, or a loss for up to several months of normal patterns of conduct These are normal symptoms of grief. In your case, however, there seem to be two signs that you should seek professional counseling First, your lack of normal functioning has been severe and has lasted a long time. Second, you are struggling to remind yourself that your finance is really dead. Seeing your fiancee and running toward her are causes for alarm. Because Honeycomb Knows the way You Live, They use visa' Honeycomb makes dresses for today's woman to live in. So naturally they make them of VISA polyester fabric. VISA is cooler and more comfortable because it breathes, and it stays looking truly bright. A. Mauve floral print with banded yoke smock, $44. B. 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