Salt Lake Herald-Republican | 1912-09-15 | Page 30 | Love and Jealousy

Love an and Jealousy OVE and Jealousy arc are supposed to togo toto LOVE pro to hand In hand But as a n. matter matter matter mat mat- ter of ot fact perfect love lovo casts out all Jealousy jealous On tho the other hand there are very vory few fow pert perfect ct Individuals In this world and Yer very few Id Ideal al love affairs so 50 that when the average man and woman fall tall In love the they must prepare to meet Jealousy Who Vho are those thole who suffer most from this dread disease for Cor Jealousy jealous may bo be characterized as such And what are the most frequent causes of at Jealousy's pangs CAUSE OP OF JEALOUSY Women romen who are indolent about tho the preservation of ot their charms who take little pains to Improve their minds are often the tho victims of or tho the worst form of or jealousy Too lazy to keep In step with the progress of oC their sweethearts theart or husbands the they demand an allegiance which after atter a a. time timo must become per per- In Jn their hearts the they know that other women are more admirable than the they and Instead of ot trying trying- to Improve Improve improve Im Im- im- im prove their own faults as well us as th their lr figures they desire that their admirers shall bo be blind and cover their fallings tailinGs with a a. mantle of at charity There are other women hO however ver who having lost nothing nothing- of the fascinations fascinations fascinations of at girlhood lack confidence In themselves and Imagine that their power pow pow- er to attract Such woman women wornon wom worn en on are aro always Vas sensitively lY looking fo for r trouble Any failure In devotion or tenderness Is Imme Immediately seized upon I IThe as an Indication that love is fe waning The misery which results from men uell suspicion is ie almost beyond belief bellet t TILE THE ONLY OXLY CURE CunE Tho only cure In such a ea case cale e is Js to rise e Eto I E Ito to the dignified hol height ht of ot faith In ones one's I tell fellow ow creatures Men are aro really not no so fickle as we have been taught to be be- be lIe lieve They are not held hold to women J merely b because of at beauty or brains brain The They arc are held by tho the ties of at mutual In interest In- In I terest and the woman who complains I You iou do not love lovo ovo me mo did I as you OU pursues pursues pursues pur pur- sues an unwise policy polley Men are not analytical but such a question forces an Issue which Is better left alone A clever woman advises advisee one wife thus Never ler le r let your our husband get to the tho Interrogation point If It you OU suggest sug sug- gest that he really does docs not love Jove you as heartily as In tho the first days of at marriage mar mar- riago o he will believe It If It you s seem m to take it Jt for tor gr granted that his love Jove will never neer fall you rou he will nHI be proud of oC your trust and tr try to live up to It The Tho woman who makes an nn effort to meet a n. mans man's Ideals will have little cause for Jealousy She who can give companionship patience and torb forbearance forbearance forbear forbear- ar- ar ance anee will so 80 fill a mans man's life Ufe that th there ro roWill will bo be no place for the germ of ot sue sus suspicion which may develop Into the dread disease of Jealousy