Salt Lake Herald-Republican | 1912-09-15 | Page 18 | A Woman's Observations

o I A WOMANS WOMAN'S OBSERVATIONS BY BT EDNA K WOOLEY 0 SHE STILL W WANTS ANTS HIM TO TOGO TOGO GO INTO SPASMS SPASM S T VO 0 you think a a. wife is holding D I her husbands husband's love when ho he only shows love for her when leaving and returning from the office We have Ih been married married mar mar- ried ton years and ho says he loves mo me as ns much as he ever did But oh how hungry any wife would be beto to be beloved loved the way he loved her before betom marriage matTlage I My MT husband Is kindness Itself to me and never leaves me alono alone at night Do you think thAt the fact that my husband hus hue band is quiet has hns anything to do with fL 1 The above Is s part of a ft letter which reached me the other day It is published pub pub- it contains the same sentiment that exists in the hearts of ot otso so man many wives This woman has a a. good rood husband a l husband who who loves os her who Is 19 kind to her But because he doesn't act up to her notion of ot romantic love lovo she Is discontented dis- dis contented and wonders If it ho r really aU loves h her r any more The Tho S surest st test of ot an any mans man's love is the practical ono of ot providing well for her needs and being Johnn spot Johnny the spot wherever she is concerned There are husbands who are good i kissers and h 1 huggers Sers but mighty poor providers But some somo women omen dont don't seem to realize that kisses get mighty stale and hu hugs s mighty tiresome If It there isn isn't t something something- substantial behind them A man cant can't slop Alop over all the time And he ho gets mighty tired of a 0 woman who expects It of ot him In the tho courtship stage both men and wom women n are In an abnormal state They couldn't keep up tho the strain all their lives and remain saner sane Nobody finishes a meal with tho the samel same l keen en appetite with which he ha began It U. No sensible person expects to exist ina In Ina a 3 continual l ecstasy ecstasy It it would soon cease to be an ecstasy and become a bore When a 0 man mon has been bean a a. husband for far forten forten ten years year especially if It ho he- heIs Is of ot a quiet disposition as in tho tho tiro Instance quoted ho bo Is lenons none the les loss less a lover In his heart If It he ho has married the right woman and any extraordinary Instance would rouse him into showing it ft but life Uto Isn't made UD up of ot extraordinary Instances Its It's full tun of ot just jest days das and ordinary happenings like lUto meals and business and such such such- things that dont key leey one up to romantic romantic romantic roman roman- tic heights So the tho average husband of ot often often otten ten years or more finds his hie happiness in a heartfelt surety that the ono woman woman woman wom wom- an in the world is la his that he doesn't have to go Into spasms to hold her love or make her think ho loves her hert that she Bho knows the devotion covered by bv his perfunctory morning and evening k kiss ss and so he rests content without any of ot those yearnings soul In which somo some wives Indulge even when they are old enough to know better k ic c When a man shows that he Is contented contented contented con con- tented In his homo home when whon he gives a satisfied sl sigh h after a meal when his whole air proclaims that ho Is a n. husband husband hus hus- husband band and a householder a wire wife may be sure that she aho is secure In his heart no matter how now undemonstrative he may b be in a lo way The fact tact Is that his bill lovo love then is far more mora substantial and worth possessing than It was In n Its py PT newness before marriage for foa Its It's stood the he test