| Show r lr 1 DOROTHY DIX TALKS I I R 1 nIX DIX the World Worlds Paid hid Woman Writes I AND WORK FOR FORA FORA FOA WHEN A MAN BEGINS TO ROLL UP HIS SLEEVES THAN A CABARET CAB BETTER LOOKS A GIRL WHEN A FIRESIDE ARET WHEN HE DOESN'T WANT HER TO DO AND SAY A MILLION THINGS HE ENCOURAGES OTHERS GIRLS TO THEN DO-THEN DO THEN HES HE'S IN LOV LOVE FOR KEEPS each of ot which tf he heart attacks A YOUNG man alan who has had many A AYOUNG to be only 1 a believed at the time to be fatal tatal but which proved the next lace face ta tahe I mild case o of chills and thrills that was as cured by pretty he lie encountered asks me how he can distinguish nea neap love from real love and tell ien en Cupid ha has dealt him a mortal blow n blo Alas son I know knew not No woman has haa able to assay auay a mans man's man love ever yet been if vows and determine what was pure gold and ande e what dross dress In them Still less leu can she ahe tell beforehand whether she ahe Is I a passing fancy does not notI or a grand passion Even matrimony solve the problem for the majority of wives spend their lives guessing as to whether their w husbands regard them as lady loves or useful 4 kitchen utensil utensils S 'S unable to deter dete men themselves es appear to be EVEN IL whether they are In love for keeps or just jus pro tem tern as It witnessed v by the fact tact that thousands their sentimental sentiment at symptoms wrongly lU VU of ot and men even diagnose go to the extent ot of appl Ing the drastic what hat they believe to be sickness lovesickness only only- to toI to of ot marriage I remedy thought to be an M undying afE affection was mere menly I rind find out that what they Science friends call c ll an error of ot mortal mind what our Christian ly Iy all did not have It after and that they that man can apply to his emo- emo em Whether there Is no acid add test a i the real i genuine blown i-i i In tb the the- hether they are out w lions to find uncorked for tor years or whether It Is Ia bottle kind OI ot of rover love tove that linn sill 1111 keep ira vT stale and become becom stuff sturt that will grow flat and the overnight made m only But Dut at any rate a man Is wise da I do not know day unpalatable In a the to toI ho he takes journey before line ot of hIs 0 own n heart to w try iry w to got tu a a i vi wu things and alimony is ish lads lad lad for divorces are messy the altar with any ny than b hay hay- ha haIng more on Y your yur nerves I And nothing gets h bard rd money to pay taste whom you have bave lost your Ing jog to live with Ith a life partner for tor Speaking by and large and not by the card I should say ly In his hll detect love that a man can that the first sign of real If It she ehe speeds himS him girl girt Is the desire to work for some system him down he Is la not he Is In love with her If she ahe slow up S If she ehe he makes make him roll roil up his sleeves and set et hi his teeth and goat go goat goat at his hla Job with more energy and pep than he ever did before If when he thinks of her at st night he gets get up and sets aeh his hla hi alarm clock for ten minutes earlier than It Is la love woman he be doesn't take It out ou 1 in loves a Olt when a man Dlan really JT FOR FOlt F pOR mooning around and writing sonnets to her eyebrows He lie gets out and hustles bustles so as to bring that vine wreathed cottage nearer nE and that leads Work Isn't a drudgery any more It Is the magic pathway to her and he be Is trying to find a short cutto cut to It The next symptom of real love u when a man becomes obsessed by the desire to pay a woman a bills bill's bill when he actual actual- actually actually ly Iy looks look forward with pleasure to doing without the things he wants In order to give her food and clothes clothe shudders at the thought of ot the high cost of ot living f fA S LONG as a man and arid gets cold feet ei e ery time he passes a millinery store he be beIs heis hiIs Is sate But when nhen hen he begins to figure out that two can live tive as cheaply of or bungalow aprons he be wants as one and every time he sees a display to go In and buy the whole lot he hs had better watch his hi step tor for h hs he hes s on his way to the marriage license bureau Then T t there ere Is the settling dow test teat True love rejuvenates the old but it ages the young The minute a man falls in love he wants to quit playing and begin the serious business of life He feels feela suddenly old and sober seber and responsible A fireside looks better to him than a cabaret and a qu quiet t talk than Jazzing it IC a girl Is just a playfellow It if he be thinks ot of o her only onty T THEREFORE In terms of o gay parties and believes that they are predestined mates matea because they are such good dance partners he be does doe well to distrust di trust his affection for tor her n no no matter how much touch she mav maY fascinate him That sOil Boil of lo e doesn t last You either hae have to settle down or settle BelUe up when ben ou get married And those who have to settle up pay a price that bankrupts them Another test of real lo love Is a mans man's attitude toward a girl Men have two standards standard of conduct for women women-a women a very lib liberal eral oral one for the women they care nothing about and a very I rigid one for the women they love r A S LONG as you think It Is all right for tor a girl to go on wild parties rAlS ft and drink out of ot mens men's flasks and skylark with the boys and say and do risky things iou ou dont don't 10 love lose e her even It If ou do like her tremendously tremendously and find her a good pal and think that matrimony wouldn't beauch besuch be beuch such auch uch a pill pili with a d good sport wife Ire like that a When You find the one girl you will want her to wear enough cloth clothes to cover her decently and you will want her to tobe be gentle and ladylike and sweet and pure and Innocent You dont don't want her to do da a million things that you encourage other girls to do pOR OR you will be thinking of her as your wife with our name and FOR F honor In her hands and you will want her to measure up to the standard that the late Mr Caesar set Bet up U for tor good wives wives- The final test of love Is la when you dont don't care a rap whether a girl gir is II I pretty or homely or stylish or dowdy or brilliant or ordinary or whether she comes up to your Ideals Ideala Ideal or break breaks them Into smithereens but you know she Just juat looks good to you You Youdon don dont don't t know why you have out but you have She She's IT There Is II Just something about her that has haa got you and when you are with her you are peaceful and happy and satis satisfied fled fied and you know beyond all peradventure that she I Is your woman it ND that's the love lo that lasts A C DOROTHY DIX Copyright 1924 by Public Ledger Company b |
