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Show Kathleen Norris Says: The Alimony Rachel Bell Syndicate. WNU Features. j She will have her love affair and her freedom; the will feel herself in-finitely in-finitely superior to the quiet girl who sticks to her bargain. By KATHLEEN NORRIS THERE was a smartly-dressed, smartly-dressed, beautifully-groomed beautifully-groomed young woman on the train with me a few weeks ago; we played gin-rummy gin-rummy together. At Reno she was to leave the train. "For the usual reason, I suppose?" I said. "For a divorce," she answered, an-swered, with a sudden tightening tight-ening of her lips. And resentfully resent-fully she added, "I gave him two of the best years of my life, and now he'll pay me $500 a month for the rest of his! " It made me consider afresh what I often have thought of alimony; that alimony Is essentially unfair, and that men, who make and change laws so easily, are rather stupid that they don't regularize this one. The childless woman I quote above was about 28. It is possible pos-sible that "he," whoever he is, will be paying her $6,000 a year for more than 40 years. A quarter of a million dollars for the 24 months she spent in disillusioning him and breaking his heart. Such a woman, if I judged her rightly, will not re-marry while this golden river is rolling in. She will have her love affairs and her freedom; free-dom; she will feel herself infinitely superior to the quiet girl who sticks to her bargain, keeps her man happy hap-py and secure, and raises children. And the tragedy of it is that sometimes some-times she will succeed in making the quiet home woman wonder if perhaps the girl who was going to Reno wasn't the smarter, after aU. For Three Years Only. Alimony ought to be adjusted first with the safety of the children in view. If there are no children, it should be arranged on a vanishing scale. Five hundred a month for one year, then 300 for perhaps three years. Then stop. It should not be left to smart lawyers to arrange, there should be a special court of domctic adjustment, in which all the factors are considered. If a marriage has existed for anything over 20 years, or if the wife is old and delicate, then certainly there should be no question of the man's duty in supporting her with a monthly check, or making a prop-erty prop-erty settlement that will insure her independence. But that these frivolous, shallow girls are able to draw large incomes in-comes from the men they perhaps neglected, hurt and failed in the first place, is an clement that makes for divorce. If she felt that her fat income would only last for a few years, a woman would look about her for some way of making herself useful; she would prepare for the time when she must be self-supporting self-supporting again. As it Is, there is a certain apartment apart-ment house in a California city and of course in all our other cities there are similar ones that is given over to triumphantly divorced young women. The rents run from $2,000 to $4,500 a year. A beauty parlor and drug-store and a smart little restaurant with a bar occupy the first floor. Upstairs these pretty, idle, confident creatures flit to and fro, entertain men friends, sleep late in the mornings, make their movie and beauty parlor en- He want freedom at any cost. LIMITED PAYMENTS Most people agree that a divorced woman is entitled to support from her former husband hus-band for a considerable time after the separation. The question ques-tion of how long and how much is generally left to the discretion of the court. There is often a property settlement agreed upon by the two attorneys attor-neys representing the parties. Where there are children, the ex-wife generally receives an allowance for their care. If she remarries, the alimony payments terminate. These wise and just laws, however, have been made the basis for a well known racket -the ali mony racket. As Miss I Norris says in today's article, many women are living on the i bounty of their former hits- j bands in luxurious ease. They will not remarry, for that would end the easy money. They form a little colony of ' drones or leeches, giving noth- I ing to anyone, enjoying life without work or worries. Some women who spent a troubled year or two as wives of wealthy men now have incomes in-comes of a thousand dollars a month and more, as long as 1 the. men live. This, Miss S'or- , ris believes, is all wrong. gagements and await the inevitable inevita-ble alimony every month. Those who have been successful In extorting large alimonies naturally natur-ally pity the less successful, who must struggle along on a few hundred hun-dred a month. That they are all leeches, fungus growths on the social so-cial order, never enters their crisply crisp-ly curled heads. Now Ready to Marry. "Denise will marry Len, now," said one such woman to me thoughtfully, thought-fully, in discussing a friend whose magnificent alimony had had them all jealous for a dozen years. "Oh, she's finally decided that she loves him?" "Well, no, she likes it better this way, just having him take her to dinner and buy her flowers. But you see, Paul is quite sick. He's had a stroke, and they don't think he'll live very long." Paul was the man paying the thousand-dollar alimony. When a woman makes a man thoroughly miserable he wants freedom, free-dom, and in his eagerness to get it he rarely splits hairs when making mak-ing the financial arrangement. She may have been a cold wife, she may have flirted with his friends, wasted his money, neglected his comfort and dignity in every possible possi-ble way. But with the weapon of her sex, and the claim of her child, she can wreck all the rest of his life if he dares to want to get free. In another 10 years he may be ideally married, he may have two or three children to support, but that inexorable check must go ev-ery ev-ery 30 days to pretty carefree Jean, who is flitting about from one pleas-ure pleas-ure resort to another, driving a smart car. playing cards, dancing, taking on such lovers as she fancies. It seems to me men aren't very smart about alimony. |