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Leam-in- g to Live Alone Without women alone They need someone to talk to, to share with, to eare about Too often these women find such loveless affairs and empty marriages unsatisfying, even degrading "Women should understand," she continues, "that there is another source of companionship best-sellin- g (Double-day- Being Lonely" get It. Caine went home, and as she tells in the book, told her aunt who warned her, "Don't to , $K 5hi one She believe reason women are afraid of friend .hips with other women is the old cultural taboo "Dont ever trust another woman " Caine still remembers the first tune she heard that. She was 14 and wanted a green Angora sweater she saw in a store window. 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