Show MARRIAGE SHATTERS ROMANCE ClA CLAIM M P 0 a a a 0 0 0 4 4 0 4 d 0 4 0 4 0 4 v O 0 0 a 4 a NEWLYWEDS ADViSED TO BE TOLERANT YOU 1 wOr 7 oU Au E E M bl PLEASE Marriage 1 is a game of oC PRe exe ase CUTE give and take and both M u-nie u r t 1 A D participants must make compromises it il Is de he b Glared Reformation and 7 adjustment must be made madeo o t El not singly but in double harness Thero There Is noth noth- nothIng nothing a ing jug liko compromise and for efficacious r diplomacy ern f i domestic reform says sas Judge Jude N. N H. H Tanner I rJ f. f r T err To ri e E A BC RF iii Yai DANCE OANce YOURSELF J FIEND A Boh MAKE S Asserted A That Trouble F Fol FolA Following Following Fol- Fol 01 lowing Matrimony Is Due to Actions in Courtship Days By Marguerite Case The awakening after marriage Is in in- evitable common sense revolts and amI I throws off oft tho avalanche of romantic roman I tic dreaming and with which the hero horo worship of young oung love has buri buried d it If the Jolt is too I severe tho marital ship is thrown out of or its course Gigantic reforms and I readjustments are attempted Sometimes Sometimes Some Some- times failure ensues And then your cou counsel sel is sought the sought the matrimonial arbiter arbiter ar are arel l biter iter comes into his own I sententiously told former City Judge N. N H H. Tanner But began Judge Tanner deprecatingly depre depre- ca Please do o not demur You assuredly assur assure assuredly edly have gathered a multitude of or marital confidences during your service service ser ser- vice as Salt Lake district court clerk and while practicing law said I be be- se If If there must be reformation after marriage it should be Joint reforma reforma- tion The wife wire has no monopoly on the business of or re reo form Priggishness stiff stIft n necked Intolerance anco aneo bad temper tempel moral pomposity pomposity- I Th t ta a J r 1 common common faults of oC so called good women women are are as likel likely to wreck marriage marriage mar mar- ria e as the more dramatic masculine failings Callings Are they not I interposed Exactly If H the husband and wife would woul ani only be diplomatic and employ sugary sugar phrases for lor unpleasant requests requests re re- quests much friction would be hated Marriage is a n. game of give giveand giveand gh e and take and both participants must make compromises Vcr Very often the tho cause of domestic unhappIness was In the halcyon courtship courtship courtship court court- ship days the yer very thing which drew the lovers loyers together Before Defore marriage the wife was a beautiful enthusiastic dancer and at that blissful stage the lover layer thought of or her as a charmingly graceful girl After the p husband condemns his spouse for be being ing dance crazy and a n. social butterfly butterfly butter hutter fl fly forgetting that this was one ono of her traits which he lie formerly admired He excuses himself by saying that he thought she would settle down Gown He expects too much I In this case mutual reformation I honeyed words a 11 self denial will HI cause causo the tho marital storms to dis dis- ap appear car wh while lo Just rust a n little coldness a lew ow Marsh harsh words v. and the tho situation becomes too complicated for any attempt at at- tempt at peace There Thore is is nothing like like- compromise I and diplomacy for efficacious domestic domes domes- tic reform f rm But ut the the reform should i begin hogin i before marriage Too roo many on en people o are arc sadly Hadly unaware of or their woeful state tate of or matrimonial un un- preparedness |