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Salt Lake Telegram | 1933-06-24 | Page 6 | Heart's Haven

Type issue
Date 1933-06-24
Paper Salt Lake Telegram
Language eng
City Salt Lake City
County Salt Lake
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Publisher Digitized by J. Willard Marriott Library, University of Utah
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Article Title Heart's Haven
Type article
Date 1933-06-24
Paper Salt Lake Telegram
Language eng
City Salt Lake City
County Salt Lake
Page 6
OCR Text I 1 HEARTS HEART'S HA VEN yEN f Conducted by BETTY BLAIR Letters qu Questions and requests Tor for advice should be c addressed to MISS BETTY DETTY BLAIR HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly ly upon OW oni one side sidEr ol oX the pa paper r It is nece necessary ary that you asp append pend the right name and address addres but but these will be held in strict confidence and will not appear in print Questions involving advertising Information cannot be an- an sere s ered Letters Letters' requiring personal reply must be accompanied by stamped self addressed envelopes Ed ABSENCE BRINGS SEPARATION Dear Miss l Blair I am Lm In a Ii fre great dilemma The boy boyto boyto to whom I have been engaged enraged for four tour years ears has hu Just returned returned from an eastern college from which he hc has bas l been een graduated and he Is so changed chang I hardly know him lie no not only speaks a a. different language altogether alto gether ether but he acts differently He ile ilet treats me as If I were a little girl with no mind or sense or-sense sense of my own Then too he ho wants to be petting with me all 11 the time He lie Is six years jels older than I and I Iwas was as Just a mere child of 17 years when we wo first swore to love each other forever lie De wanted me to marry him when he be went away wa to school but In my parents refused to give their consent because of m my age are I was wu era crazy about him at that time but now now I am am ver very doubtful about wanting 1 to marry him lie De makes me terr terribly bly uncomfortable with the eastern east east- em ern dialect dialed he has acquired with his intelligentsia airs and his possessor ship of me inc I feel as if I was being smothered I worry a good food deal about this as my mother thinks I am perfectly silly to bring up such objections She of course thinks he be Is the most wonderful wonder wonder- ful young man in the world and that I have ha no reason to feel as I do about him Please tell tel ell me what hat to do as is I feel very unhappy about the whole situation situa altus- tl tion n and nd dont don't want to get Id married while I am feeling the way I do DILEMMA And you should by rby no means enter into the marriage contract with a man whose attentions are repulsive to toyo yo you However it is my opinion the reasons you give arc are superfluous Your fiance has acquired certain mannerisms mannerisms man man- since he has been away that annoy yo you because your attention isso is isso isso so frequently called to the fact that here is something quite different from anything you have previously k known own in him It seems quite foreign foreign for for- eign to you but it is a minor thing so long as the real character of the theman theman man has not acquired qualities that are und undesirable J He Is doubtless filled d quite naturally ally with a a great hun hunger er for love and with a desire to expend it on you the girl of his choice but so long longas as he outwardly remains this foreigner foreigner for for- eigner you want none of it il itI I think your marriage ge should by byall byall all means be delayed until you have had time to get acquainted all over again with your fiance Try to deI determine determine de de- de- de I termine how much yo your r objections have to do with merely external things like mannerisms mannerisms' or traits trails that have to do with his particular choice of edu education Uon There Js no doubt but that a young man n freshly home from college must feel a a little the importance import ance of ot his education What college bred young man or woman did not emerge from his alma lIma mater ready to set the world on fire with his ideas Give him a little time to make adjustments adjust ments meats between his ideas and and the practical world Dont Don't be too hasty in your judgment judg judge ment Let him prove himself As for the idea you can cope with that by maintaining your own Independent will wilt and action so far ar as it is necessary and by learn ing mg to cooperate and compromise where the will is merely an asser ti tion m of WILFULNESS ULNESS without regard to the good of either cither ROUND BOUND T TABLE BLE ETIQUETTE Dear Miss Blair When serving a luncheon at a around around round table with three honor guests 1 and a other er guests as well how should I II I t the he honor guests be s seated Is 15 It a all ll right to place one of the bon honor r guests at the opposite end of th the t table ble f from rom the hostess lU Many ny thanks E B B. B The hostess must decide hicl h porion portion por pore t tion ion of of the round dining table is to tobe tobe tobe be used as the head of the table She s sits its at the head of the table with the first f guest of honor at her right the second s guest of honor honorat at at h her r left and t the he third guest of hon honor ron on the right of the firs guest There is r really eally no foot of the table where a round table is Is' used unless there Isa Isa is isa a host to occupy the place opposite t the he hostess U- U EYES HAVE DARK CIRCLES CHICLES Dear Miss Blair lr This Is Li the first time Ume I II have come cometo cometo t to o you OU Please tell teU me what to to-do to do to to get rd ride of the dark circles under my I e yes eyes The They make me me look so old andam and andI I am not old yet Nervousness internal disorders d dissipation and late hours arc are among t the he causes for dark circles under the e eyes yes and c repel ike lines on the lids First of all if you are losing sl sleep ep make an effort to get your normal quota of sleep every night and seef see i if f the dark circles do not riot disappear If It I f you are arc indulging in any any- other f form Corm orm of dissipation and care enough a about bout keeping your youthfulness youthfulness' to f forego it do so by all means If the dark circles persist be sure to see your doctor You may be suffering f from rom some nervous or organic dis disorder o order that needs correction Any extra physical or mental strain f for Cor or which ones one's strength is inadequate made made- quate also shows around the eyes Thus underweight and general poor health must in many cases be remedied rem e died before the discolored rings and arid wrinkles can be banished Besides making internal adjustments adjust ments that will gradually eliminate t the he cause of these dark circles there ther a are arc re simple external aids that will assist as s nature In the first place the delicate skin eyes must b be e cleansed thoroughly every very night with a good cleansing cr cream am Then pat paton on an astringent and after atter that thata a skin food to feed the aging tissues Mix peroxide with the food cream Inthe in inthe t the he proportions of four drops of the f former ormer to one tc teaspoonful of the latter lat lat- l' l t ter er Leave this this' on overnight Next I morning after alter washing the face in cold water pat a a little of the following follow I in ing ng lotion ov over r the eye eye wrinkles Thirty grains grams tannic acid 2 ounces glycerin The TOe tannic tannie acid is i an astringent astringent astrin astrin- gent and will help tighten the loose skin S COIN PROBLEM Dear Miss Miss' Bi Blair ir Will you please tell me mc If there is a premium on a dime made In 1887 Also Is there one on a n penny made in 1863 which has 13 stars on it U Thanking Thanking- you PAT Premiums are not listed on either cither of these coins S P PART MALTESE KITTENS Two part Maltese kittens will be given to families offering protection and good g h homes mes They are arc ver very cunning cunning cun cun- ning and well vell mannered about 2 months old Call CaU Hyland 2733 S NOTE TO ME l MEI I shall be glad to publish re recipes lpes that hat have v formerly appeared in The Telegram or Tribune If you will be sure to tell me in which pap paper r they appeared d and give me the date on which h they were first lint published However space apace cannot be spared to repeat in the column things that have recently appeared
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