| Show Conic Come toTI to- to A VENI H TI 4 HA r Ili EAR T I S With Betty Blair Affairs of or the heart hearL and kindred problems ONLY will Ill bo be discussed In this department Letters questions Question and requests tor for leo d should be addressed In tn MISS Ansa BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE LAIE Write legibly upon only one side of at tho the paper It t. t Is 11 necessary thet you ou nd the right name and address but these will bo be held In strict confidence and will by no co means appear In print print Ed SELF-CONSCIOUS SELF Dear Miss Blair I am considered attractive by m my friends and people seem to o like me but they the leave me mc out of or parties s and other activities hIeb I like very ery much The girls seem to like me inc and talk t. to me but bat as u soon a as their friends come along they leave Ica Tho The boys dont don't pa pay much attention to me I cant can't get over o bring being self conscious with them Will you ou help me Thank you LEFT OUT If It you ou were taking a part in a drama would learn lines lines- would you ou your our you Oll speak them distinctly you OU would come cometo to the front of the stage so that you could be both seen een and heard It would be bc a very insignificant part indeed that would require you to remain remain re re- main in the background of or the stage and mumble your our lines Jines Yet that is exactly what you are arc doing with the part that has been given iven you oU in lifes life's drama dramn You are arc arel your our part You are arc not making it a positive c vibrant radiating radiating radiating ing role People leave lea you and go goto goto goto to talk to others simply because y u are Overacting ma may have the same results re re- suits It ma may drive people from you ou yet for lor a time you ou may need to overact overact over over- act to get used to the idea ide l of playing up to your our part Stand before beCore a mirror mir mire 0 and spout your ideas or sing or dance to an nn imaginary listening listening listen listen- ing fog world Learn to a c cum I ate ideas and be willIng willing will- will 1 ing to stand by d them if you believe in them Learn in inthis inthis this wa way also to toI I use small talk eff ef- ef I f fee e c ti lively vel The world v 0 1 1 d c cant can't a n t be wei weighted down with serious ideas ideas- All 11 the time The comedy corned interest must enter into the play to give gi it relief relic Lets Let's see now how much of oC ofa oCa ofa a real actor you OU can become IT TAKES WILL POWER rOWER Dear Dearl Miss l ss Blair i I cant can't remain outside this discussion discus discus- slon sion on drinking and smoking an any longer I simply lImply have hue 1 to sa say my piece along with the rest of or them therm I certainly certainly think that smoking and drinking drinking drink drink- ing and neck necking In are not the tho best kind kindo o of entertainment but I dont don't think that those who do those things arc are arcas arcas areas as bad as they are thought to be There Is no excuse for a girl Irl to Indulge In in- in these things thins just to be with the crowd or not to be dubbed chicken I think its it's Cowardly to todo todo todo do it because she Is afraid of or what the tan gang will vill say I If she And I know the gang will respect her much macli more If she refuses though the they may not let her know It For the last six months I have been going oln with Uh a fellow lellow who belongs to a agan gang gan that has been together for over oer two years ears I knew that both the girls iris and the boys of his crowd drank and andI 1 I started going oln with them just to see I if I bad had backbone enough to refuse when It was WS so easy to get Even Een though I never ne have ha tasted liquor or smoked I would like to try once just to see lice what it Is like and then f If I could leave lu it alone I would have e reason to look down on those who sho ho cant But it Is a against my any religion so I hope I never will Did the gang TAU inc e for or not do doing In what the they all Uhf uld Id The They did not Perhaps they do think I am old fashioned but the they have never let me rue know it I At frt first they ur urged cd me mc to take some I but now they very try seldom offer me mean an any because the they know what the answer answer an an- awer will be But they hey arc are all very nice In spite of or smokes and drinks and nd they never ne go to extremes That's ts why h hyl I have ha continued to go 0 with them Miss Blair may mar I come and see you OU some ome afternoon after school Thank you ou so much BOBBY How utterly foolish it would be for any of us to try to force our ideas of entertainment on anybody who was not in accord with them That Thatis is s as true of those who smoke and drink as of at those who do not favor that method of Indoor sport port Call me Inc on the telephone for an appointment appoint ment meni Bobble Bobbie I shall be happy to see you Ou W WHERE ERE DO THE PERFECT DWELL Dear Miss lIss Blair I would like to know where herc you youcan youcan ou can cm find anybody that is perfect perfect- whether man or woman Women who say there are no decent men left simply Imply haven't had the good fortune to meet med them that Is s all aU It IL is b the same with 1 the men who complain about there not being any nice girls I wish to say to Beauty Lover Loverl that I have the same love lo for the things of life me that she has lias and I am only 20 II H B. B They say there Is Is- Isa a place where the perfect dwell But none have ever returned to tell us about it Why not make the place we have as perfect pet perfectas as ns we can and trust to the powers that be to take care of our future ANSWERS BO-BO BO Dear Miss Blair Here lIere Is m my any answer to Bo Do One day cay one of m my friends had a r. r very ery u l. l nice girl Irl She was pleasant to talk to and nd they liked each other nr very much The They w were ere always ah seeing each other I lie He had a bo boy friend who liked his I girl also The friend would sometImes sometimes some some- times put his Isis arm around the girls girl's neck as they walked alon along together I but this bo boy didn't mind that as he thought it was all In friendliness and this was his friend But one day the lie friend told lold the boy that he didn't think his girl Irl was vcr very good and wasn't the kind ol or girl for him to go 0 with So the bo boy dropped her and left Idt her alone The reason the bo boy friend told the theother theother theother other boy the girl wasn't good enough h for Tor him was because he was jealous Put nut he continued going to see seo the girl Now Xo- Bo-Bo Bo wh why dont don't you ou be a i little independent and think higher I than this bo- bo who left leH you jou OU docs does Wh Why not not cultivate a 1 little pride even eel pass him on the street as he be did you ou lie He HeIs lieIs lieIs Is Is better belter than and md no you ou probably not Dot as good BILL I Lovers' Lovers quarrels are difficult to patch The story of your our friend sounds like a parable it parable it may be only a a parallel to Bos Bo case and therefore therefore there there- fore valuable if lC she can profit by it NOTE TO AMBITIOUS See Sec Margery Wilsons Wilson's book on Charm In the public library Other books covering the charm subjects are listed there too Get a Bo Boy BoyScout Scout book for or first aid and call the theoffice theoffice theoffice office to which you jou ou refer concerning use of or its library TENDER TE-DER SKIN Dear Miss Blair My 1 skin is er very tender and the sun sunburns sunburns sunburns burns it to blisters before beCore Im I'm hard hardly I outside an hour I dont don't want to use anything to make it tan as aJ I am ani very verj er blonde and the combination would not look ery very well Please give he me a r. r remedy to stop slop sunburn without harm Thank olf TOOTS Our circular on sunburn will vill give you ou the information you need to protect pro pro- your tender skin Kindly send senda a stamped self addressed envelope for it PART rAnT PERSIAN KITTENS S Two black all part Persian kittens would like new homes Further Information Information In In- formation concerning them ma may be had b by calling Was |
