| Show 4DA The Salt Lake Tribune 10 Wednesday May for By-La- ws Ann Landers' column appears daily in the Salt Lake Tribune's Lifestyle section Dear Ann Landers: Here are some excellent commandments for inlaws And please Ann feel free to add to this list As one who has been through the mill I can tell you there are many young married couples who need all the help they can get for 1 Don't feel that you are entitled to know everything about your married children's lives (who they entertain what they do every night how much money they make what their friends are up to etc) 2 Don't complain that visits with your children and grandchildren are too infrequent If your son takes you to lunch don't tell him it should be every month and then call him to make sure that it is Be content with whatever time he can give you 3 Don't try to force your married children to spend time with their married siblings We are old enough to arrange our time together (My In-La- By-La- section A appears daily in The Tribune's classified section Arts Tribune's The Sunday theme crossword is also published in The crossword puzzle 11 1988 — and All Parents In-La- ws cost-of-livi- is constantly suggesting that we should entertain my brother and his wife every week We love them but neither of us has the time money or desire to do so) 4 Don't correct your grandchildren constantly nor should you expect perfection Enjoy them Raising them is not your job 5 Don't ask to be included when your married children tell you of some special plans If they want to include you they will 6 Don't criticize your child in front of his or her spouse and don't criticize the spouse Neither one appreciates this 7 Don't phone every day unless you are asked to do so 8 Don't drop in unexpectedly Ever 9 Do develop your own friendships and your own hobbies Your children should not be made to feel responsible for entertaining you 10 Do compliment your child's spouse and say thank you when thanks are due instead of behaving as if a thoughtful gesture took little time and no effort Ann Landers Please print this You could save a lot of marriages — Love 'Em but They're Driving Me Crazy in Kansas Dear Crazy in Kansas: Great list I can think of nothing to add I do feel however that these should not be targeted exclusively for inlaws Parents could profit from following them as well Dear Ann Landers: This is in regard to your comment to "Cautious Mom" whose child was burned on the eyelid by her cigarette You said "I'm surprised that this doesn't happen more often" Well I can tell you Ann it does My nephew ran into his aunt's cigarette recently and got a nasty blister on his cheek We were all thankful that it wasn't his eye by-la- The proposed $286 million budget is very "conservative and contains no bad news" Mr Hardy told the council It contains no property or franchise tax increase and fees for water electricity and sanitation will remain constant "This will be the eighth year in which property taxes have stayed at or below the current level" Mr Hardy added If the budget is approved city employees would receive their first increase since 1986 when the council approved a 2 percent pay raise Earlier in the year council members said they would be in favor of pay increase as long as it did not require a tax hike "Any kind of pay raise would have to come from the cost-of-livi- portant aspects of bicycle safety In conjunction with American Bike Month in May the National Safety Council recommends the following tips for cyclists to improve visibility: — Never assume another driver can see you — even in daylight Drive your bicycle defensively and expect the unexpected — Wear conspicuous clothing whenever you ride your bicycle In the daytime wear bright or flores-cecolors and at night wear retro- - 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I couldn't believe it No need to print this I just had to unload — Longview Wash Dear Longview: Glad you unloaded here Your letter deserves to be seen by all those smokers who are waiting for the right time to stop The time is NOW For Safety on Bicycles Visibility Is Essential In 1987 1200 bicyclists were killed in collisions with motor vehicles according to the National Safety Council More than half a million other cyclists suffered injuries from all types of accidents Despite cyclists' best efforts to drive their bikes safely many motorists fail to spot bicycles until it's too late Bicyclists should never assume that the driver of a car truck or other bicycle can see them clearly Being seen is one of the most im 3 ACROSS mother-in-la- Bountiful Budget Includes 3 By Katherine Kapos Tribune Staff Writer BOUNTIFUL — The City Council has approved a tentative budget for the upcoming fiscal year that calls raise for a 3 percent for city employees and a $3 increase in monthly sewer bills The budget which was reviewed by the council during a recent meeting is subject to change before it is adopted in June according to City Manager Tom Hardy A public hearing on the budget has been scheduled June 8 at 7:30 pm in the City Council Chambers 790 S 100 East Copies will be available for citizens to review beginning May 25 in the City Recorder's Office by THOMAS JOSEPH 11 11 11 11 1C1 "X i " i t |
