Show jr 4 l i lidl dl SPENDING N. N DJ No G rr JOINT ACCOUNT CAUSES AUSES MISTRUST f t 4 81 By BE Y BL BLAIR BLAIRs m cje J U d s are re special features young people should should in each each- other before re m marriage occurs These I more than anything a i else may combine to weave a pattern of of marital happiness ir crio break ak the web asunder t Dear Dear Miss Blair I I am writing you to ret et t hn rin n answer r to tot t i problem that I m. m very Import Important i tant tait t 0 o oJUe me I am deeply In In love with A Owl pui f courtship has bas II bee beena heena 1 I ng ne and happy one and our uz mart marriage age date la Is 1 I fast Mt a approachIng approach approach- Ing f A I have c one fault r to find wyth th A NA He Ho HeIs b Is far tar too with I his monc money mone 5 I I. I know j that eco economY l mY will be III Il necessary I u 1 our marI married mar mar- I N ned ried life be trouble l' l Is 18 that i he be 1 18 to given to toI H w sac and is Always aya ready to Investor Invest I I or lend money moreY without with with- d out being Il str U of ot a ar r- r return The last Iut has haa come conie j st one from Gur Z te have just found Just found out that he has hu ex the balance or or a bank account In ms hIS control which contained our J He Invested this mone V In a Q get scheme which 11 r went on the rocks My father thinks T I should end everything between tween us He a ss It Isn't the los loss of the money that cattelS cat natters natters nat nat- tel'S so 50 much asit is the fact tha he will 11 continue t to be reckless later laur on on and we will be living in absolute p V verty v- v erty of his lack of at t. t Of course I 1 MO seo judgment In I 1 iby by fathers father's words but my love iove for tor j V VIs Is 11 an Irresistible force I have l- l I ered my future from tram every angle an a. a truly it wm vU willbe be very hard to give u my InY one cne and sad only love Will you please i itell tell me what to do Thank Think you 4 TRO TROUBLED LED You say you found out about your fiance investing a mutual sav say savIngs savings ings lags account Does this mean he didn't tell ten you or in any anyway anyway anyway way offer to make restitution of your our portion If not I. I I should be bevery bevery very much Inclined to think your father was absolutely right about the young mans man's lack of judgment judg-I judg judg judg- ment In fact I should be strongly strong strong- ly Jy tempted to call it by a much such stronger name Now of ot course one can make mistakes and profit by them but if it is a characteristic thing for this young man to listen to fly by night schemes to be reckless with his money money to have no restraining impulse when hen it comes to matters of ot spending and investing this is la isa a matter that you should take se seriously se- se to heart You must make up your mind whether or oL 21 not t it is possible to have an understanding with him before marriage that nothing be bedone bedone bedone done in a money spending or in investing investing investing in- in vesting cause that doesn't have your joint sanction In fact I should m make ke this a part of the marriage bargain It is serious enough that it can entirely wreck your our happiness His act in taking your mone money without your our consent I was wrong and love Jove doesn't long exist when respect flies files out of the window Previous PrevIous' to marriage much of your attraction to him is combined combined com corn with the physical part of 2 Jove love to such an extent it is hard to separate that which we term spiritual love from rom the physical Spiritual love has to do with all those fine qualities of character with common ideals and interests that two must have when romance takes a sudden turn after marriage to concern itself mostly with with the the reali realities ies of two people living in peace and harmony together Without Without Without With With- out this phase of love any marriage marriage marriage mar mar- goes on the rocks And so if you value peace and harmony mutual respect and hap hap happiness in married life you OU must have a complete understanding with your our fiance concerning money matters before you marry him It will vill be too late to talk about these matters after marriage And as a matter of ot fact to be sure he will turn over a new leaf your marriage marriage mar mar- marriage date should be postponed and man be given a probationary probation probation- ary period in which to show his determination determination determination de de- de- de termination to control his impulses to s spend en money unwisely NOTE TO MARGUERITE l Kindly contact program directors of tf radio stations on your problem It will vill be necessary to show the quality of your work vork to th these se dire directors tonJ COPYRIGHT LAWS Dear Miss Blair Will wm you please give me rae some Information In Information In- In formation concerning copyright laws for tor words to songs Thank you M DELYLE Songs or the words to songs Bongs must be published before a copyright may be obtained on them If It youcan you youcan youcan can find a magazine or newspaper that will accept your verse for J F 1 letter question and 1 request for lor advice should hould h. h addressed to MISS BETTY BlAIR BLAIK HEART UA HAVEN VEN THE TE TELEGRAM LEG RAM SALT SAIT LAKE LARE CITY QT Write I legibly upon upon only one tide side Id of the tho paper i It Is Ii necessary that you append the tho right namo name and address address- but these thee will mil be held In strict confidence de dence ce and will III not appear In print Questions involving invoicing advertising d C information Uon cannot be answered I I publication you may send a c copy py I of the published verse to the Copyright Copyright Copy Copy- right Department nt Washington D.C. 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C and apply for fora a copyright WrUthe Write the Jie department at W Washington for lor Information concerning costs of ot copyright CUTS OF BEEF BEEF- Dear Miss Blair I I wonder 1 If you would help me with witha a problem you may not think It a heart henrt but It is I am a bride of ot less Jess than II a year and must do my part to keep down exp expenses to meet our out budget And If It that isn't a Q heart problem I dont don't know what Is One of or in m ml greatest Is 15 to know what kind of ot beef beet to ask t for when I 1 go to the butcher shop I must have less expensive cuts than I have been petting gettIng I have hare been taking what the butche sells selb me me with my only guide the l looks of the cuts cuta as they appear in the glass case Please tell me t some come names of ot inexpensive cuts cuta of ox meat And thanks a IL million DEFICIT I agree with you heartily that to toJ toI 1 J now t-now how and what to order in fn the f thod bod line is vastly important to tot toe tote toti t ti te e e h heart art and hearth problem of th the tIa home borne The less tender cuts of be beV pt are chuck plate beef brisket and neck rump roast I nd Dd steak flank heel of ot the and shank Chuck rump and h heel eI of the tho ro round nd make good pot roasts ts Brown the meat first for rich flavor flavor- lavor then cook slowly in hi a close closeY ty Y y covered pot with a little about half halt a cup to start the st at tarn tam that softens the connective connective connective tive ii hue and makes tough meat tender Round RoUn d steak fl flank and chuck make g g pod Dod Swiss steak braised with more abided liquid than the pot roast 0 Ot t any of ot these less tender beef cu cuts ts make excellent brown stew by browning meat after cutting cutting cut cut- ting In mall pieces A lid Ud of ot mashed potatoes 1 or rich biscuit dough a stew with vegetables added to tile tie meat makes makes' a meat pie Pl Plate tel and brisket are arc most often used for boiling meat and andare andare andare I are generally used by the butcher for making corned beef I |