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Salt Lake Telegram | 1934-07-05 | Page 12 | Woman Thinks Wives Should Retaliate If Husbands Are Untrue

Type issue
Date 1934-07-05
Paper Salt Lake Telegram
Language eng
City Salt Lake City
County Salt Lake
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Article Title Woman Thinks Wives Should Retaliate If Husbands Are Untrue
Type article
Date 1934-07-05
Paper Salt Lake Telegram
Language eng
City Salt Lake City
County Salt Lake
Page 12
OCR Text WOMAN THINKS WIVES WIVES' SHOULD RET RETALIATE ALIA TE IF HUSBANDS ARE UNTRUE Girls in Need of Club Name Conversation Shy G Girl rl Has lias J Y Yet ct Personality That Counts Bo Boy Is Blue for Fourth By Br BETTY BLAIR If it in the estimation of a wife a husband is engaged in doubtful pleasures or vice versa time spent in copying oiin or oi orIn or orIn In being revengeful for retal retaliation would be more than wast wast- ed It would be about as effective as involving the world Ina Ina in ina a war to stop war i 1 I Dear Miss Blair I surel surely feel sorry for lor Optimist because se I get the same kind of oC a deal I think all men are born steppers I have two children under four years of age I After I discovered that my husband husband hus band had been out with another woman he refused to live lie with me inC said He-said I had no right to follow him around and spy on him He supports the children and me rue but he doesn't want a divorce The reason why these men Inen dont don't want a divorce Is so they can come home when they let jet tired of oC the other women My husband has stepped out outOn outon on an me for five years That's as asIong long Iong as we wc have hae been married We are arc all in the same boat Pes and do dothe dothe dothe Optimist i-Optimist so cheer up the same thing that your husband husband husband hus hus- band is doing Maybe though you are like me I cant can't enjoy myself my my- self lieU with other men os the they all aU want to neck BLUE There is ver very very doubtful pleasure honor or lasting sati satisfaction to be had from the doctrine of retaliation or ar beating the other fellow at his own awn game in a revengeful mood Particularly Par is this true in the marriage ma relation If It husbands will be philanderers philanderers philan philan- they weave the pattern of their own cloth arid and the color with which the threads is dyed is feeble kable It n is the mantle In which they must be draped and which they cannot entirely shed to the end of at their days das Why should a l woman who has no taste for that particular pattern choose to clothe cloth herself in It H Why not choose a 3 pattern and a dye de that conform to her own tastes and ambitions ambitions am am- One that will be a joy to wear in any company compan One that will not entangle her in its loose and Irregular Irregular Ir Ir- Ir regular meshes Men who look for physical satisfaction satis saUs faction alone in a wife must choose th that t kind of woman or give ive her a adeal adeal deal in marriage that may prejudice ce her against that institution forever Women with spiritual as well as physical gifts to bring to the marrIage marriage mar mar- mar mar- altar have one si sine siBe e of themselves them them- selves elves entirely starved if it either cither one or the other of these gifts is neglect neglect- ed The happy balanced normal marriage marriage mar tak takes into consideration the whole person and all nIl the attributes Until these are discovered neither person to th the marriage contract can be entirely happy n If-n husband nor wife cares enough to make the complete discovery cry ery of the others other's attributes then th they y and not the institution of marriage marriage marriage mar mar- ar are failures People People men men and women women women-go go Into business and learn every intricate detail detail detail de de- de- de tail of ot its workings to try to make it lu succeed But they go 0 into marriage which is infinitely more complex and Ind nd expect the details to take care of themselves There isn't a business combine in the world that could be berun berun berun run run successfully with the casual attention attention at at- to details that in many cases is spent on the marriage combine And yet yet- et marriage and the monogamous InOUS family hive have been the strongest factors in the evolution e of oC civilization Oh well here we are lre becoming preachy again Yet we ve often oHen wonder why some people were given brains at atall all ince their animal anmol instincts and not their reasoning faculties rule their lives DIFFERENT N NAME Pear Miss Blair The girls in our neighborhood want a sewing club but we dont don't want to call cal it a sewing club as there are are already too many of at them b by that name There are between seven and ten of us us and w we would like a short and snappy name Can you help belp us Thank you BILLY B B. B Club names are arc much better thought of b by the members of the thel Letters questions questions' and arid requests re rc quests for advice should be addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT L LAKE A K E. E Write legibly upon only one tide clde of oC the paper It lt is necessary that you append append ap append ap- ap pend the right name and address address ad ad- dress but these will be held in strict confidence and will not noL appear in print Questions involving in in- advertising information Lion Hon cannot be answered club than by one who knows nothing of ol the inner attributes There are arc many words sugg suggestive of sewing or at least of ot energy being expended and enjoyment being derived there there- from Needle thimble stitches jolly yarn pep pcp busy ten up and coming cornIng com corn ing a stitch In time flying fingers fingers- the possibilities are numerous But the thing to do is to put your seven heads together and adopt the name that will be particularly yours I IDear CONVERSATION SHY SUY Dear Miss Blair I am a young young oung girl 21 years old attractive and not bad looking but I am kinda shy and it is hard for me to carry carryon on a conversation conversation con con- with people This em em- me ver very much How can canI I o. o overcome it The other night I was with a aboy aboy aboy boy who was quiet himself We had quite a quiet evening and it embarrassed me so much that I was glad when it was over But before he left he said You have what it takes What did he mean b by this BASHFUL Instead of oC saying that you have haveIt haveIt haveIt It meaning personality the young oung people now say You have what it takes akes You can be sure therefore that through your shyness shyness' and the themore themore themore more or less silent evening silent evening there was wasa a personality that asserted itself To overcome your shyness make a alist alist list of all aU the subjects in which you OU are interested and which you oU knoy something about Then The find out exactly exactly ex ex- acty how much you ou do know about them that is accurate knowledge and not the fact that you are ate or are not inte intensely ely interested in them hem See how many accurate and Interesting statements for example you can make about a certain movie you h have ve seen about the players in I it it the direction of oC it and so on Tr Try the same plan pIan on ever every topic that does Joes interest you and add new subJects subjects subjects sub sub- to your our list that heretofore you had not thought of bothering your mind about The ability to converse is to do dothe dothe dothe the actual conversing but first of ol all there must be something in the mind of actual ammunition before the conversational conversational con con- onal gun can hit the mark NO DATE FOR FOE FOURTH Dear Miss Blair I asked my girl for tor a date for forthe forthe forthe the Fourth of Jul July but she said she he would much rather go with her family They are going somewhere somewhere some rome where with other cars of oC people She didn't ask me to go alon along though I have taken her many places I felt squelched and thought maybe there was another fellow going in the I crowd that she would rather be with than me I Shall I ask her for any more dates PEEVED Usually when f families go on PICnics picnics pic pie flies the car is so crowded with children children chil chil- dren and adults adults' and picnic hampers belonging to the family that room for or another person couldn't even cven be found Cound on on the running board Have Havea a good me with oU other er friends on the Fourth and dont don't consider that it was yas a personal affront not to be be invited to go with your our friends friend's family lam fam il ily Families who are very eQ close to I each other have a feeling that a It big gap appears in their plans when every member isn't present Who knows maybe if it you keep on asking this girl for d dates you may sometime sometime sometime some some- time belong to this united family and you may be able to drive the car that will hold the lot of you KITTENS FOR FOn- GIFT TWO cunning canning kittens whose whole mother is part Persian need med new homes Call Was W or see them at K street
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