| Show r I J f rf r. r 1 c f. f Y 1 a i t r 4 S' S f rm It ti saB f t r Y r w j Y V H 1 i r I I h IS I t ti r y t f. it y Jit l a yeast J j L t d i 1 e I r. r J f r t p i r 1 I r f-r ir- ir i V T p C. C c j fM S ft t i 4 I t f S h Itil c r t 0 l ti r 1 r Ir f d f I 1 iti L 4 r r- r k ANY A WOMAN C C CAN AN GE GET GET T H. H MAN HE-MAN HER ER ERM t 1 M MAN A. A N 1 fT r li 7 t l r 4 E i i it tr i- i ii r i I h 1 i c. c 1 e 4 A r r 1 v 1 r I r. r t. t r rag 4 i l x I rr I S S Sl Vw- Vw a fw fj r l k r t i 1 rf c f vr Y t t Il r S y i ill J v I fr a oF 0 I u J Jf f i I IJ i a 1 i 4 Ji ra T yo 5 SuL f's I AL n J w JJ J B. B 4 r F 1 Pp rev fJ i I w f A f- f Sr r ra rj 3 ft t a j Y Yi y r i iy 1 v i if S b L Lj 1 ro r tp r j r. r j a rJ fr f ir ii T r 1 r. r t rl r f T I l r fe V J f 1 r r k r. r r r. r r 1 I. I r an w a A m mW YI If Fo You Love Him and and v W 7 nl lOUISI ISE b f Like Him Him Grab Grab Him Hinz But But- After You Get Him You Have to o Know How r 1 to Hold Him to for r When y Wives Begin to Take o w r r 1 v r y l H Husbands u n s for r Granted r s Its It's Suicide to a Happiness a mess i. i r r By Alice L. L Tildesley f ANY NY woman can get her man acc rd- rd ing to t-o Louise Fazenda well-known well a screen comedienne t Dont lose hope if it you are over the 32 freezing point line advises Louise f for fo o r the D minute nute you begin to be discouraged discouraged dis dis- discouraged and desperate youre you're beaten Its It's a game that calls for poise and pa patience pa- pa pa- pa patience I tience some soma subtlety and several old- old fashioned virtues But t it can be done i. i When a girl is very young her youth t and prettiness may be a great aid But today there are so many interesting c things for tor girls giris to do that a good many of them f dont don't consider matrimony until ten years after their grandmothers had the first t baby Then they wake up and think Lets see is this my or or or I birthday Dear dear Id I'd better do something something something some some- I thing quick It seems to me that after 35 most men become comfortable and most women an anxious ous Getting anxious about catching carolling a a. man is fatal I know a dozen women who are of off possible f husbands by this same anxiety The Instant instant in- in stant they meet a man they almost fall fal on his neck They call him by his first name before they've known him bim half an all hour they laugh too loudly they l look ok at him Wm greedily they dress too blatantly that blatantly that is 15 everything they wear is put 0 01 oa 1 to ro be noticed to call attention to themselves r. r I and their sex sex and and they seem forever to tobe tobe tobe tor be exposing a little too roo much a of their r anatomy Other anxious would be brides get too possessive the minute a man is attracted to them They begin to direct him Inthis in inthis inthis this to stop him at that to counsel him himIn himIn In the other The upshot t of it is that he backs off In a hurry thanking his stars that he hadn't gone as far as the altar TEN T EN are very wary They arent aren't attracted attracted attracted at- at to who flaunts a girl sex at them Most mer want something finer They are looking for Jor gentleness sweetness tenderness and all the things they dream of ot about women whether they ever admit It or not For a man likes to believe that women are good and true and lovely or at least that the tte woman who ge gels geU him is like th that tI t. t I I think If I I were a girl of ot say 23 29 to 35 worrying myself sick about getting married Id I'd stop looking anxious pick out a 80 certain definite man and set to work Picking out the man is one ol of the duet chiet reasons that so many girls ls dont don't marry Listening to confidences of ot single girls I realize reaUze that most mast of them think they mustI must b I have a man with money I I wouldn't look at a man who didn't have a n good car they tell me or Ther Theman The Theman r man Id I'd marry will have to live in Beverly Hills HUls and belong to all the best clubs or orI orI orI I couldn't be bothered with that chapI chap chap- chap chap- I dont don't want to have to stew about the cost of things when I x get married Talking TaU about m money ney a and d making a aJan aman man Jan spend a lot on you when he takes 1 I h i. i er fk r you ou out Is Ls a good way to lose him If he ne isn't wealthy When I met Hal Wallis my husband he had a little flivver with a broken door He was working hard and I was making more money But fortunately I never gave a thought to what he had hador or r whether he had anything I 1 liked him hinl We Ve had more fun tun in that little car with the catch that wouldn't shut than thann most people have in a luxurious limousine The liThe trouble is that some girls are arc not looking at the man but at his possessions and 1 if they get him him which which isn't often oHen- they suddenly discover that they have haye married a stranger whom they dont don't like Uke much less love But mostly they miss marriage altogether because the man they might have had who was was right under their noses didn't own a flock of cars or have money to take them to expensive restaurants restaurants rants or priced nigh shows Id pl pick l. l out a possible man and use my imagination to appeal to him Im not pretty and never never was but I always had plenty of at beaux even when raving beauties were acting the wall wall- flower r. r I claim that this that this w was s not because I was attractive but because I 1 made it a a. point to treat the themen men the way you a are e told that women like to be treated You can can let the man see iee that you admire admire admire ad ad- mire him without t falling all over him Youre You're the looking best-looking man in this room makes a m man 1 fe fet quite as happy as his sister feels under similar compliments Take the trouble to notice his efforts to look we well You have the finest taste in ties Nobody else would have thought of ot choosing that shade and its it's exactly right Hell He'll probably y say Stop kidding kidding kidding kid kid- kid kid- ding but hell he'll love itI itI it tI t. t I really feel that wa way about my hus hus- band The minute he comes Into the room all the r rest t of the men begin to look sort fort of at feeble beside him and you may be sure I dont don't keep that t to myself slot Of course dont don't get sickly over it Use discrimination He may sheer off thinking thinking think think- ing lug you you- are hunting him and a a mans man's most cherished prerogative is pursuit All Allmen men like the Uie excitement of the the chase they want to ro be the hunter That's all allright allright allright right with me me Ill I'll run just as fast and just as long as the pu pursuer likes to chase me I made up my mind to marry Hal years before he had any idea I was going t to do it but I didn't let him guess I let letl l him m keep pursuing handing out a a. smith smith- ereen a of hope n now w and then and dashing dashIng dash dash- Ing on N Naturally you must pay attention to your personal appearance Never let down and arid slump slump- as you so often feel like doing Look as well as you possibly can and nd act as if you were terribly Interested In what hat interests him him whether you ou are or not not Above all you must b be sincere but ut 1 it r really That That sounds contradictory i 4 SI k 1 i y y y r rId rIdA i A. dF a at s t rF r a X- X f M 4 c Get Go Him Get Tips a ALL A LL men like the excitement excitement 3 s 9 of the chase The They want to be the hunter a y Most of them J I prefer refer a at J ti yin t rJ r- r woman to b be e unexpected and elusive f Dont Don't boss your our sweetheart i or husband If you m must at have f l your own way vay get et it subtly t Remember Remember the things thins your man likes likes likes-it it flatters him and 4 do doesn't t ta take ke kes an any more time time s r rr Men like to be lords of r a.- a. r kf i creation Never show your our superiority in in bridge golf or business L Don Don't t t sl slump nip in x in your personal personal personal per per- appearance Y Y Ab Above all be sincere sincere sincere- sincere sincere-be be bc yourself y sa v T y 1 f i e vr u n Louise Fazenda in the doorway of her home her home in where she practices tices her doctrine of how bow to hold a husband Even when you are sort of fooling him n along for his own good you have to tobe tobe be sincere or it wont won't get over The sIncerity sincerity sincerity sin sIn- comes In beca because Se you sincerely want him to be h happy you ou sincerely love him and nd ou sincerely Intend you ld to get him IT TT T IS a poor Idea dea to show your superiority suJ superiorIty su- su J- J in any sport profession or businessMen businessMen business Men like to ro be lords of at creation and they certainly dont don't admire a girl who can do anything ing better if it you drive better better better bet bet- bet bet- ter than your husband does doeS Or or better than the man you intend to have as as a husband never husband never let him know Never criticize him at the wh wheel el or suggest that hed he'd better put It in second or r make his signal or slow up for this crossing You might might as y your ur throat 1611 x ell u him r f instead how safe how safe Bate you feel fecI hen hea driving when I. I I. I L rr r- r 1 r t C C i Io I iA When a a. man is in love with a woman he may discover that she is is' isa a wizard at golf gol or the piano or vor that she swims like Annette K Kellermann or sings like Uke Marion Marlon Talley or runs a real-estate real office When Then you'd oud think nobody ever did dId a thing like that before hes he's hesso so proud of at her Hes He's continually telling the world about it and making her show off But she must be careful to behave as if her accomplishments accomplishments accomplish accomplish- ments were s something she did to his glory She can play playa a crack game of tennis but 1 if he plays at all it will be well to ask his advice ad about a drive or consult him about a rule or let him teach her something My wife is 15 a a. tennis champion champion cham cham- pion yo you you can call see yo yourself that it sounds like a big big h husky sky sort of person not feminine at at allA all After A youre you're married you you have nave to keep on oa working at it 4 S i ii i iii l li i j j z I f I f 01 dt rr k Vii p f pf frY frYs s i J c f Hal ha Wallis Vallis the husband Louise Fazenda isn't going to lose loso while she's conscious t Men liMen nearly always take their wives wives' for granted which is too bad but when women begin to take their husbands for granted its it's suicide to happiness Never let him see you when you look the way you feel after a bad day Last night I was caught looking a a. a perfect wreck Id I'd been at our beach cottage fixing it up up- and Hal came home early I hadn't expected him for an hour I couldn't bear it until I escaped to the bathtub and came out in in black silk pajamas with ith a violet silk scarf becomingly becomingly becomingly becom becom- wrapped around my uncurled hair Another thing never wait walt to curl your hair when your husbands husband's hungry t REMEMBER T tl the e things your husband t likes It flatters him and lt doesn't take any more time Hal and I have a big studio bedroom but do you think Id I'd dream dream of taking the most comfortable chair when Hal Halls Is home No Every husband has a right to ro a adeep deep deep cushioned chair his slippers sUppers and whatever ehe he smokes beside it and he has a a. right to to find it in a a good light and not moved around If It he were le conscious that you were giving him the nicest chair hed he'd pr probably probably bably b- b ably offer it to you and sit somewhere else but never let him think you ou want It Make l him lm comfortable if you ou care to keep romance within shouting dis dis- tance And OlAnd right here I rise to insist that romance is as much alive live as it ever was Yo You cant can't keep anything blooming If you never wat water r it but with the slightest care you ou needn't worry Im nn Tm told that you nev never r can cnn tell about men men 1 know that anything can happen in Holl Hollywood wood and that men have been lost by better w women men than I am am but its it's not going to ro happen while Im I'm conscious conscious con con- scions I Louises Louise's ready laughter filled the room the red of ot her becoming hat shown bright against the Ch Chinese tapestry her gray gray- green green eyes dancing Though Im I'm frightfully old-fashioned old about men and believe in coddling them and keeping them pleased ed with themselves themselves themselves them them- selves Im I'm modern a about out women having their own Jobs she confessed presently Hal and I are arc financially independent of one another Neither ot of us has to stay with the other because we Wouldn't Couldn't I earn our keep separately We stay together together together to- to gether because e were we're happy together We like Uke each other tremendously as well as love each other and believe me theresa theres there's a 0 difference My Iy mother tells me me of how women I r r 1 L t we I 14 ir o d th r rc 1 f t t II C yd 1 c rn r h r f r 1 1 7 r. r used ed to have to work the way they once nce f rs F made mado candles candIes and soap cooked baked k i. i cleaned and gar ga gardened d ned sewed ewed every stitch R r j of clot clothes es that the he whole fa family had ad to i wear year kept the garments mended washed Hand H besides that cared for forthe the may and Ironed and that cared chIld children en taught the younger ones and I 1 watched their manners wiped their noses neus' t. t L and so on endlessly In those days daya a t j- j woman who took a nap in the daytime wasn't considered quite nice to Si t I ca can quite understand that the woman f who ho talked of ot going out t t to earn cam her living living then was crazy If she wasn't earning reaming r J f- f her her living her living nobody was i But now that everything is done for tor us WI J labor s saving labor ving devices do all but breathe breath 1 t for us us unless there are children what children what IB is Y there to do at home A woman is ls happier I J r. r with a definite Job If m my husband became more and more r. r 1 successful as it seems highly probable he t will do and the picture motion-picture business that threw me completely corn corn- 1 had suet another her spasm spam com com- out into the cold I believe I would 5 A line of business r go into some other z f f ONT r ONT boss either your sweetheart or orL DONT L' L i yo your husbandMen husband r 1 7 Men UMen like to pretend that they are henpecked hen hen- pe pecked ked to complain in public that they cant can't can t call their souls soWs their own but no t woman ever got anywhere if she delIberately deliberately l atey dominated the household If yo you rat r y must have your own own way get It subtly r male think its it's h his ideal Let the lo lordly JI J. J I know t three ee highly desirable men who ji keep bachelor quarters together They lr W i have fi fine e cars a delightful h house us full of 1 j most excellent excelle t furniture and incomes incomes- 3 J i that would gladden the heart of the most Al mercenary husban husband s Yr Why dont don't you get married I aak ask I- I t t. t them How can you b be e. e so unkind unbind as to to to do some som nice girls out of at three splendid J t i homes J i r f But they only laugh augh and nd say they like r Ji their freedom No girl is going to tie them l f 1 i down t to doing as she says coming when I- I J tr she orders and never going unless s she t 1 f permits it r t f Thais an illustration of the way the ii 3 1 modern man feels about abou domin domination Its It's a serious thing for tor all wives and wo would would-be d-be d t S wives to ponder too Let him feel free l Y Never meet him with a stern stem Where Wherein |
