Show reRo ETTY and questions for the department be addressed to Miss tr Hearts Heart's Haven Salt Lake Lak Telegram only on one one side sid pir ir It Ts ri necessary to append your name and address but these confidence and will not be published Lost and found notices published In the column b bro ro YOUR RISK c Blair C-Blair lair k know a what on earth earth- I I Iff come ome to to you rouble t bl I feel I must un h Ij havy avy avy heart some lome way wiy pending on n y you u for some id I. I My problem is il isom rom om most mOlt I am married two o y years ar tall and slen slen- quit a large arge wom woman n Jire ed d dt i very ery proud a and d' d con con- of m ine me He HI kly about t two weeks week wo we e were dr dressing he h he nI ault that that I made madeI I I a neat nat well fitting eH fittin if edress-if drell If you were WIre any ny wouldn't have arty any use un for t can yoU yOLI im ITT ails alla soul hw forgotten but the thel think l reached the end Ind vt We were at t on one of l an ing ha had hd f He u used ed t to be crazy idt he considers consider him himself a ir r. r Th There The were were about two lies I. I on an the floor several leveral s some me our our ages most moat J s and boys I said aid dance ce It Its It's ab about ut f four urI ur I CV f have d danced d He Hi Hito HeH Hete H te to want to to- to but the mu- mu f fascinating f ici I I. I was w. he ho said d No uNo lit lets thor there a r are morl more people on on fv Will Well that was was al reason reason- H fj i too oo until he laid get gt anybody use else on on the tho flo with floor you iz laid th the you youir you lir ir thAt that spelled finish fo k keep p thi tears tear back ind went to to our our car and andlen len on en he hs cam came and w e excuses i turn d into n a mip man i I m made d an an awful jt t e. e before my yC chi ven truck ck him jn In hi the theS S I I not t hiding id g. g any y l to ap r myself It Its It's Im I'm you yeu was with us usand and she he irei ready redy for th the insane What 4 do yo you y think I have l lost my head h bLIt t I would be ready j JI ni if jJ l fl t h have e sense ISs I. I how he Ii treats treat me m. ment ment nt it it You kno know know- the th old IL H hath no I fury like a tried t ir do do- o you think k there thre i. i is a happiness in in this thi trie this ni man Wh What t ahal ahall I do fo I ha have two o I girls who are twins and everything Jy t to me e He so i oo Io lon p A ashe a ii h he can cn them But he Ii makes inferior to to e everyone ryon one else elac if fine to W Weare re i nest at hope and desire js l. for home kom is not p uia ui- ui tooth's a stId thi with a mm man man who Appearances a Pt I admire rod minded character iY mere IT good looks ok h Thank if f for or- or anything r. r y you u can cO is very viry v UNHAPPY I li t 4 P 1 I gr with happy agree e you youw or any woman w for fr that fi tOn ng o to lose los her h-e h hea head d df 1 pf f c tJ To make a pt-Amder pt t. t any circum- circum i the tho desired end nd nd 6 rl bt too in o. o ln re resenting nUng ind's bd attitude though I that you ou our r raged g dit It or t f thit you ou le a. a big h wo WO- WO rell I p. p IC while he ft Blender er hn lit Ht- t- t th tour but aty u h havO ve aU allowed w d. d this Sri o r. r mind to the point feels sorry sorry for you O has baa hasIb hus' hus husI I Ib wWi h feeding his ts o oWn on n y u J to t II you never never let let- him fed feeT ji u g good Od advice th that t ap pul r writer r ter iy y- wo nr do d you cu see ee who 6 C and aid dJ distinction lon D Ose these 1 b nd ds talk Ik to t thorn them eJr In ours lurs does to you It Itry sary ry J to Jo wear cit eri lye Mer to o acquire arid and andr ri n r I It depends ri nir er In which whIcK 1 the t mind fy u did your husband to i suit Bult it of cl thes o t youra yourself lf with made Ve-made t ade dress No do doubt bt e rJ n an act of of i buti but nt I would say ay that l' l t t f pure p r stupidity You ou own after atter having after having ha ni ill lJ these years years that that t caliber IJ er yo would ld take tak ot t Wh vard til appear appear- should VO have havo nf kind of nobility In- In l es r bY r re- re the In favor t lYo have o merely conW con W ed d th flame of at his Van Van- n the of the smolder ascended avo ascend d to high wh on th the t Fi ri f feed leed ed another r kind of ot that tho t y mn c. c him and t. t o and less o of him him- J raade madean maclean an end tJ If b ng ell dressed a means means to t the tend rend l r respect spert for yoU l your your- trade ta a a J new fleW dr dress dras ss can can moet despond despondent woman mUil n. n Once tat lat feeling oi ot w well being It a a a. certain dIg dignity a respect respect- from dJ ibor's diOrs' rs' rs and others with c co m nio In contact t. t HoW Q joK tod Such j-bc- j tt ITh se and antt the r.-en r. eh are the v very f ou IOU ui p On such Ar s J coming your o r way also your youK your husband will i el ela a pride In you b ba a Cheap way v y to ta win winbur bur you ou cant can't t kno knock kl a t Itt dead by lecturing J Jo JoIn p by ht race I In n lb the first place c ce I It Itri t lens len's 11 I ri k te n not the mans fl aman man r pr k Q 4 a f f t II t that risk Tf f mIJ r. r Don pon t tv t j. j v Y r rl y V forever go on oh placing yo your on the he wron wrong hors horse Dignity of ot mind and nd spirit and outward appearance the ability to and mako make the world laugh with you ou are always winners In in tho long ong run t I. I ETIQUETTE OF TOASTS Dea Dear Miss MI Blai Blair I I wonder if if you could give me any ny fly information in ir regard re-gard to to the Ij Etiquette Toasts I cannot find anything g b blaring bearing aHr on the subject In Emily Posts Post's or or kindred books and ad none C of my friends frienda lee seem to to know anything d definite finite They scratch their ther heads look ook wise finally conf confess con con- f fess fesa they dont don't nt know and all say ay Ask Alk Betty Blair so 10 dear Miss Misa Blair DIah I I Im I'm am m m appealing to you as the I Court Couri of Last Lait Resort and if f you youcan I can elp help me out I shall greatly appreciate ap ap- ap- ap it What I want to know is When a bride and nd groom are toasted at elthena formal or Informs Informal I dinner ainner upon returning from their honeymoon honeymoon honeymoon honey honey- moon or at any my do the tha ladies all rise rill as aswell well as the tho gentlemen gentler gentle men Do the bride and groom rise rile or remain seated Does Don the groom respond 7 Do ladies ever rise rilo when a a toast is given givin t On ordinary occasions when a toast to an h honored nored guest is i. given d db does s the guest rise Should he if standing immediately immediate immediate- ly 11 respond or or may he ha sit down dow and respond a few minutes later Iter If he does doOl not riot rise rile to to the toast tout may my he wait a few minutes before must lust he rise at once If there is i. any other information that you have hayo in relation relation to toasts will you kindly include it in your rep repy 1 The last rut question Is t. not intended to apply to the Bachelor din dinner er given jut just prior to the wedding Trusting you may be able to en enlighten enlighten en- en lighten lightn me PUZZLED In proposing a toast to a a. a bride and nd groom all aU of ot the guests both ladles ladies and gentlemen arise The b bride a and d. d groom remain seated When arises to re re- re pond the guests guests' may pr or may may- ay not Dot notarise arise again momentarily momentarily- as a matter matter matter mat mat- ter of at courtesy courtes before he begins begins' his speech They ar are seated during the speech When a toast to an honor guest guestIs Is given all of ot the guests except the guest of ot honor arise When the honor g guest est arises to respond theother tho the other g guests ests may or may not arise again momentarily as a matt matter r of courtesy and According to of ot that particular club or assembly If It the honor guest h happens to b be Standing stI when the toast Is proposed this this would occur occur only very mally nallY ho he may mayor or may not sit and stand again before belore responding g. g according according ac ac- cording to the precedence nce established established by th that t particular assembly If It no precedent has hns been established Ush d ho n may do as ns he pleases inthis In jn this matter though certainly ho would unless the theother other guests sat Such a at t cust wo would also bo be short and InformaL In organizations organ organ- or club Banquets banquets' a a. toastmaster toastmaster toastmaster toast- toast master Is ils master of ot ceremonies whose hose duty It is Ia to call for o the toasts and the responses re according to the arran arrangements of Jf o 0 d program LU LUTHER HER BURBANK Dear Dur Miss Mii Blair i Will you please tell me mft something something some some- thing about Luther Burbank when hen he h. w. w was born when married when did he die di Allo were some lame of h his gre greatest achievements in the ho horticultural i w world Thank you for this favor AG evad to give you o othe the information you youre you're i lre you re require Ag Burbank w was wa's s' s born lAncaster In aster Mas Mass on 7 March 1840 On December 21 1916 he hc was as m married t to Elizabeth Ellzabeth J t Waters of at t Hastings Mich He lIe was the originator of at the tile Burbank tato 0 of the Gold n Apple October Chal Chalco o America A Santa SantaROsa SantaROsa ROsa Formosa Beauty Beautt Eldorado a and d Climax plums of ot the Giant PI Splendor Sugar Standard and Ston Je Q prunes s a a. ri fl hew fruit the Burbank and Abundance cherrIe iW Burbank and Santa ant Rosa Ros roses gigantic forms Corms p of lUst tho o Shasta daisy callas cal cal- las Ins lasand and and- parlous new apples peaches each I nuts ie a td valUable valuable valuable val val- val val- trees fruits fruits' lowers grasses grains v vegetables bles Come again LEi LEG EXERCISES Dear Miss Mis Blair 11 toI have been bien reading your our column every night and nd I find it most in interesting iq- iq and nd helpful My qU question is this Cn you tell till me some lame ex exercises ex- ex for the legs that will make them firm firmand irm and md shapely haply I am just juat justa a little ittle bit knock knock kneed Also how can can a person person who hal a long neck dr dress or or what can n th they thOy y do to make it rook Took shorter Thanks for the ad ad ad- vice KID KIDDO K It DO 1 Here Herb tare are ar some exercises for you ou Kiddo With arms arms held out at kick a aa na possible possible pos pos- pos poe sible without straining eight times tImet with each t f o pt Repent Repeat the high kicking to each side Now w swing awing bach too resting on floor loor Give long kicks forward and ard and back back- ward from this starting position With each leg reg M An ex exercise especially esp cape for the to o p place e feet about on one foot toot apart pointing out as far asp so that tho the feet fett arc are arc In a a. straight line Bend rind and att- att Straighten 8 eight times s In th tho b bends I iJ the tho whole side of of tho the feet teet on the fl or or hecks Took look Long may be bc m made e to shorter by being wi- wi wreathed v In n sey- sey ral nI 8 strands strands-o r tinted p pearls pearls' ls' ls or i other oth oth- be beads dS A void Avoid er Jewelry Jewel ver ry that 15 8 suggestive of- of the V neck as to lengthen n the tho neck- neck ir much in ln vogue ar arc especially worn well by women omen with long ne ks' ks If It tied on onor 9 or gr e side Summer furs fura shorten th the CO contour tour of t n neck k A Avoid wearing g vertical vertical ver ver- Ueal tucki or pl ats or lop long y vest st I effects In the blou blouse c of ot f your our gown sown j also long narrow ribbon ties You are always aIwas welcome H HUCKLEBERRY CKLEBERRY BOWL Dear Miss Miss' Bla Blar Blair r Will it bo be too much trouble for you to get for me me a a recipe called Huckleberry Bowl It is made with a combination of huckleberries and co and is a recipe my y i mother used to make in tho the long ago Thank Think you E Z Was It a a. dish that you ou ate for your br breakfast E B Z It If so I think I have found the tho old f recipe for or which you ou ai are are- looking The ingredients are me Two cups of ot white or yellow cornmeal 8 cups boiling water 1 teaspoon salt BaIt salt salt-or or or more more- 1 quart of of- fine huckleberries huck 1 or 2 quarts of ot milk 1 half hal pint cream eream optional Heat the boiling beHlIng water In the double boiler top directly over the Add dd tho the salt and directly sUrIn stir sUr In the cornmeal A HUe litle meal at a time w well ll blended with the liquid results in a smooth meal Heat a little water In the lower part of at the boner boiler Cover and let lct steam in gently for tor an hour hour without disturbing Cool and place over o night In tho the refrigerator Look over the berries arid and also chill over night In n the toe morning reheat the meal In Inthe Inthe inthe the double boiler wash the berries gently dish a portion of the hot cereal al Into each breakfast bowl and surround with the berries Serve with sugar and creamy milk STAINS O ON WOOD Dear Miss Blair I have a lovely walnut dining table that I lam nm afraid I have ruined I Iset I Iset set a a. a hot dish on it that has left a White stain Oh I do hope you can cani cantell cantell tell me of something that will re remove remove re move this ugly mark IN TEARS Wipe 1 your tears away awny chile A trusty Crusty housewife sends us her own experience in removing the stains caused from hot dishes She made madea a a- thin paste of salad d' d doil oil and salt saIt and spread it over the stain slain leaving It there for an hour or more Then p It-p rubbed it off ort with a soft sort cloth The Thc stain was was gone Worth orth knowIng knowIng know- know Ing what WAS IT A MISTAKE Dear Miss Blair At last I have caught you You are not infallible In answer to Anxious to to Know you say A calorie is the amount of heat necessary sary to raise one pound of water fo four r degrees Fahrenheit This did not sound familiar to me so I looked it up This is what I found A calorie IS is the tho amount of heat necessary to raise one gram of water one degree Centigrade A ABr Br British tish thermal therma unit known as a aB aB aB B T U is the amount of heat necessary sary Bary to raise one pound of water one degree Fahrenheit I Hope I have not not offended you and I wish you the best best bast of of luck In in supplying information in the f future ture A WOULD BE SCIENTIST We Wc appreciate the kind o of Interest you have shown W Would uld Be Scientist tat put but we aro ro constrained to call your attention to the fact tact that your definition n not of ot calorie expressed In terms of ot grams i and nd Centigrade may not differ from the one we gave from Dr Lulu tulu Hunt Peters A A. A B. B Ml M. r D. D book o on Diet and Health With Key ley to the Calories Thc The two d definitions are arc merely expressed In Indifferent Indifferent different t terms terms' There are ro 3 35 Sf inches In one ono yard Th There re are re also three feet teet In Inn Ina n yard ard ard One statement does doesn n not t contradict t the other We make no no claims of at bel being g a a. scientist Scientists are are or are or or should bould be bc good be good m c. c Work out your own definition of or calorie In terms of Fahrenheit and see Aeo what you get The B 13 T r uS U Is is' not the equivalent of ofa a n. calorie We e heartily with Ith fl that In- In your statement we are not rint Alls All's Como again D DOES ES HE LIKE HER D Dear Deir ar Miss Blair Biair I 1 have visited your cozy corner before and I r can say I wa was wa satis sats with my answer I think nuite a bit of one of my boy friends I Id d dont don't nt know w whether he likes me mu or or not 1 |