| Show 51 COME TO 1 i HEARTS HEART'S HA VEN i With BETTY BETY BLAIR BLAIR- Affairs of ot tho heart and kin kindred rc problems ONLY will wI be In this department Letters questions and requests for tor advice should bo ho addressed ed to toMIS MISS MIS BETTY BE BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT L LAKE KE Write legibly upon only ono one side of ot the paper It I Is necessary nry that you append the tho right name name and but these thee will bo he held In strict confidence and will by no mC means 1 appear In In print Ed INTERESTED IN IDE IDEAS S Dear Miss Blair Mine Is not the tile usual type of unpopularity unpopularity un un- un- un popularity problem I have never wanted for friends but bot somehow v I dont don't seem seem to attract the kind of oC friends my ideals picture for me I Ihle have always alws been interested In ideas What I really realy like is to talk to men and women tomen older than tun myself about serious subjects subject like philosophy or socialism But even some older people people peo peo- pie arc not interested in these thes sub sub- But instead of finding young people with wih whom I might occasionally tal talk on serious subjects subject I always find myself myself my my- my- my self sel in a group where I am compelled to o throw a wicked line In order t to keep up with wih the rest ret of them Am And Anc when the time evening e is over I groan oan and andy say y to myself One more evening shot to blazes It I seems such a aW W waste st st. of life le What hat can cn I do to attract atrat friends friend after my own heart This appeal appeal I I is like throwing out the the life le line lne Is there here any hope Thanking Thanking you ou BORED nORED I The wicked line you choose to I throw may attract passing pasing at attention but it will wi not attract lasting lastig inter Inter- est Real intelligence Is a great geat gift git that hat grows as one grows older Why dont don't you try with wih the most mot Intelligent intelligent Intel Intel- intelli Intelli- gent boy by or girl of or your group coup talk talk- lag ing ng about abut the most interesting idea you have ever thought about Not No about yourself nor your toUr neighbors but ut a real idea such as you have thought hought about in philosophy or so- so or even the ton of f souls soul Unless you have chosen your our companion in the experiment badly adly you ou will wl find nd the boy as ns eager cager to o rest ret his mind from trivialities as you ou yourself youself have been I have l known many Instances where here both boys and girls gil pretending they hey were bored with anything high high- highbrow highbrow brow irow found themselves themselves far more interested in conversation about real thIngs hinss when someone somene had the cour- cour cou- cou ag age gc to ru break g through r the J pretense i Naturally the right I time and place e should shoud be chosen for such conversa conversa- ion Hon I once heard of a girl who tried to t discuss discus the immortality of the soul soult at t a bridge table much to the disgust of f other players plyers Silence lightness whimsicality serious mindedness s sal all al 11 have ha their values at the proper time ime tie and place No one cares to be serious all al the time Ume Too much wit and ad humor all al at once if i not natural natural natu- natu ral al is i heavy handed handed and boring The qualities that bring to one the most lasting phase of popularity are vitality sincerity and the power to toive give ive pleasure to others through accomplishment ac- ac others or unselfish effort to G GIFT IF TO SWEETHEART Dear Miss Blair Bai I have been going with wiLls a fellow felon for or seven sc months and his birthday birthdays Is s coming up in about three weeks Would rould it i be proper for me to give hIma him a present and if i so what would you suggest est sug He isn't the type of fellow to t o shower a girl gin with presents present Please Pease help hep me mc with ith my problem WONDERING Do D not embarrass embarrass the boy who for reasons of his h own does not shower a girl gil with gifts by presenting him hi with wih anything that has attached to it ithe the he suggestion of intrinsic value A box ox of made home-made confections silk sik handkerchiefs made and initialed by hand and an invitation to your our home to dinner inner on the te night of his hi birthday birthday- any ny of these attempts to show re remembrance re- re and a appreciation wot would d be e more appropriate than the display of f a gift that suggested an amount of f money gf and would woud be more considerate con- con o of his feelings in i the matter USE O OF OP PERFUMES Dear ear Miss Blair Bair I am very fond of perfumes but a er friend frend of or mine told me that I used I too oo much much I hate the odor of strong perfumes on other people and I have been jeen around women who carried with them hem the faintest fragrance and this I should like Ike to COP copy Please tell teU me meow how ow I may do so Many thanks MARG There Is I a right way and a a wrong wong way ay to use ue perfumes perfume Among the don'ts in the of two dont don't u. u use ue perfumes T u. u T stana ana out ous OUt StronglY iney aimey are uon t tour pour our perfume from the bottle bote upon your our you dainty handl handkerchiefs or under under- things Perfume applied In this maner manner man- man ncr ner er is i not lasting and when first apPlied ap- ap Plied pled is overpowering and unpleasant to o those near you Dont Don't touch perfumery per- per fuer to your jour gown own In the first place ace it i may stain But worse than this his a daintily gowned owed woman with wih a sufficient amount of perfumery perfumer to toast last ast several hours I is a contradiction The he pungent odor belies beles her good taste aste in her gown There are arc several rules governing he the right usage of perfumes Ater After a luxurIant bath and brisk rubdown spray pray your you body lightly with your you fa- fa scent sent Toilet wat water r of the same brand as your you perfumery is the best for or this Then apply a few drops of your our perfume t to the lobes of your ou ears and to your temples with wih either a or 01 your our fingertips As Asa a final linal charm touch your our lips with wih a tiny drop with the Your lacy undergarments and your gown on you ou will wi now find that you jOU exhale this thi elusive fragrance that Isso Isso is isso so pleasing to t yourself ant and others Keep little tufted silk sm bags heavily perfumed in i your boxes of handkerchiefs handkerchiefs handkerchiefs chiefs gloves and lingerie Even the linings of your ou hats may have these warmly scented bags placed Inside I each time tie you put them away These Thee simple rules rles arc are in the art of perfuming It I is always alway better riot not to have hare enough scent about abou abut you than to have too to much Con Con- for others oters in the te art o of applying perfume is i as a necessary as a Inan in an any other act in l life e. e I I S FOOD ETIQUETTE Dear Miss Blair Will Wi you jOU please tell tel me mr the proper way wy to eat a baked potato You see people doln doing It In different tay ways d d dI dI I am always a little embarrassed P a i Invited to a a dinner where baked o i-o- arc are served sered as a I dont don't know what Is the proper method Thanking Thanking Thanking Thank Thank- ing you EZRA Baked potato either white while or sweet Is properly eaten by breaking the potato in half hal with wih the f fingers ingers figers scooping scooping scoop scoop- ing out the inside onto ont the plate with witha a fork and then mixing in the salt sal pepper and butter buter with wih the fork fork fork- never with wih a knife knie Another correct method metho is i to break the he potato in half with wih the fingers lay both halves skin down on the plate mix mL a little butter with the fork on a portion porton of the half hail haf sprinkle salt and pepper on 01 and cat it from the shell shel with the fork You prepare only as much at one time with wih the butter buter salt and pepper as may maybe be eaten caten at atone atone atone one time If I as many people do you prefer to eat the skin of the baked potato you cut the two halves through with the he knife knIe and fork cut them again Into nto int pieces piece of eatable size and butter the pieces with wih the fork alone TWO KITTENS FOR GIFTS Two cunning kittens may maj be had hadly by ly anyone offering them kindness and a good home Interested people may call caU cal Hyland |
