Show - 4R --- - 7 ' af -- i : -- r - v thf: WA44 riMillAVOr2411Latl"MgOVII84021-141itretatildWIRALIVall"106104PAdirg- 2117 The Salt Lake Tribune Sunday June 10 1990 - - ' Get a great tan without the sun " " - higher Suggestions for optimum results include: 1 Read and follow directions Though directions are simple they must be ness to his sexual needs He compared their marriage to her wonderful chocolate cake "If you don't put on frosting" he wrote "it's still a good chocolate cake but it isn't nearly as good as it could be" I would love to hear her side of the story I'll bet it's a lot like mine To all outward appearances my husband and I have an ideal marriage but when the lights go out we may as well be on different planets He is detached remote and unreachable As for my needs he couldn't care less Instead of drying up emotionally I decided after three years of sexual starvation to avail myself of the Ann Landers nourishment I needed and I did just that Do I feel like a cheater? No I do not It was only after he cheated me out of what was rightfully mine that I decided to take this road and I must say it has been extremely rewarding — No Regrets in Merced Calif Dear Merced: The response to that column has been staggering About 80 percent of the letters came from women Take a look at what I've been getting: From Fort Lauderdale: This is for the man whose marriage lacked ' ' ::::a::: ' I - - - -- - : i1:z:- i:::5:t:::'1:':1::':-4- p - :::: - - 4 " - 24:pt- - " c - - A 7!'61--!:i:-':c-- ' - 4 - 111 - : :"4""" e::ia::r!:3?::s: iit::7NIIIN4 :-4 LIN : ': --4- -- b''''''''- -' tt A10144- u‘imPlio g Models such as Leslie Martin know advantages of products The products allow the healthy glow for self-tannin- followed exactly 2 Exfoliate the skin Using a scrub or sponge remove dead cells on the skin that might cause streaking or blotching of color 3 Moisturize the skin 4 Shower 5 To avoid lines dosnot wear clothing 6 Apply as directed using a light touch on elbows knees and ankles where color may be trapped in creases causing skin to overtan 7 Avoid getting into eyebrows andor hairline g 8 Wash hands immediately to prevent in creases and between fingers 9 Wait 30 minutes before getting dressed to avoid staining clothing 10 Expect to see results in four to five hours 11 Do not apply more than twice in one day 12 Reapply every four to five days to maintain the color 13 Read the ingredients to make sure nothing's included that might contribute to skin problems Two problem ingredients for some people are oil and PARA over-tannin- married to a man who pushed me away (a knee in the back an elbow in the ribs) after we had been married less than six months When we were with family or friends he put on a wonderful show My how he loved to parade his masculinity always talking about sex When people were around he couldn't keep his hands off me but when we got home he was ice cold The marriage lasted 14 months It was my second his third I'm now in therapy to find out why I pick such losers "frosting" Did you make an effort to add a little flavor to the relationship mister? Were you affectionate and considerate on the evenings when sex was not on your mind? My husband doesn't say "goodbye" when he leaves or "hello" when he comes home He says I'm a cold fish and he's right Until he gives me a good reason to warm up I'm going to stay the way I am From Minneapolis: Everyone - - dear readers I'm Tomorrow printing several letters from male readers who have a totally different view of this subject Don't miss it Gem of the Day: Life is uncertain Eat your dessert first Is that Ann Landers column you clipped years ago yellow with age? 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Dear Ann Landers: I've been haunted by your correspondent who wrote a critical letter to his wife on their 32nd wedding anniversary Two days later at the age of 54 she died of a heart attack The man had written his wife to complain about her unresponsive- ' - 'N g Self-tannin- ' ' '''''--'4- b self-tannin- g self-tannin- g - ' - - By Carolyn Monson Tribune Fashion Editor The summer of '89 will be remembered as the season for memorizing SPFs (sun protection factors) Every cosmetic company produced them The summer of '90 should it arrive will be the season set aside for learning how to tan without sun The same cosmetic companies that gave us SPFs from 2 to infinity in 1989 are now offering creams lotions and bronzers with andor without SPFs to give color sans sun in '90 Utah's cold overcast spring is allowing for hours of practice According to a Nordstrom spokesperson the products are selling well fear of the sun to get a jump on The reason elicits several opinions summer andor a healthy look cause There are some most we hope who fear what the sun can do premature aging and skin cancer They're likely to understand and take to heart the slogan "Ban the Tan and Hail the Pale" There are those who fear donning a swimsuit for the first time and exposflesh ing winter-whit- e Then there are those who feel they look healthier and more attractive with a little color Bain de Soleil the makers of products conducted a nationwide study of tanning habits and concluded that summer color is alive and well But the definition of a luxurious tan has changed "More than 85 percent of consumers surveyed said they prefer to have some color and most are using products to achieve that golden look" the report states "Nearly 90 percent feel that people in general are more attractive with some color with allowances made for the depth of color and the condition of the skin" Janet Carlson Freed editor of European Travel and Life Magazine said the concept of the perfect tan has been redefined both in the United States and abroad "Color is definitely still in but the deep dark tan is not" The counterfeit tan via products is seen as the logical answer to the dilemma It's not a new idea g products have been available for years Ten years ago however there were few For summer '90 the cosmetics department at Nordstrom boasts more than a dozen according to Andrea Ludlow fashion director Choose from Clinique Erno Laszlo Estee Lauder Prescriptives Lancome Chanel Clarins Borghese la prairie Visage Beaute to name a few There are as many for men Expect to pay an average price of $15 to $20 at cosmetic counters These are products marketed by cosmetic companies Add products found in grocery and drug stores that sell for less and the numbers get - " ' t : tt::reik9t : '''''' : : 5 :: s )1 It: Frl s‘y PAUL Phone: Charge 1 Cottonwood Mall- -- NEXUS 272-843- A Open Sundays WE USE AND RECOMMEND IMMO VISA - ' -- -- st PM Valley Fair Mall MITCHELL Open Sunday 11:30 SALON HAIRCARE PROOLICTS ""'" 12-- 5 0- r-- 1 Bountiful Closed Sundays 967-010- 3 PM AM-4:3- 0 295-707- 6 c 1990 JCPannay Company Inc |