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Show 10 The Salt Lake1 Tribune, V.svpa. January mm 12, 1TO Gift reinforces raveling fathers love By Dr. Lee Salk m not sne i a to you, ready love me. Dear Dr. Salk 1 have two children, aged 3 and 1'j. The director Owbon o PAdtitrtc PrycfK,kjv hew fork. Hospital Comw VMccai tor W Aymor o Pmpdr n for Parentfvod Dear Dr. Salk: I am the father of a 4 year-oland constantly d chugs to me and eric s unless i am always there within his sight. My older child was given the same kind of attention, but never showed this behavior. W hat rould account for the differences between Mrs. these two chddren- on unfortunately mu-- t Iroquent business tups way irora home. 1 a'wajs bung a tiift home fot m daughter bu! m wife feels that this is a mistake and is like bnbing her. What is vour opinionMr. K tern rig't hoa olhciwee vn u re going to find yourself i onfi mited with hiving a child every year I don t flunk 1 J. child for it In all likelihood if the child did engage in ttiumhsuc king it is more a (unction ot the parents misdeeds rather than the childs ilc'ren whose sucking gratification has been met dm mg infancy are fir less in l.iu'd to engage in thumli-suckmthan aie children whose paients thwarted their need for sue king gratific ation at that time. Vour nieces mother should be encouraged to take an understanding attitude about her daughter s discomfort in wearing braces rather than make her led guilty about them 1 TP. Dear Mr h J.: Bunging a Dear Mrs T P To i on jilt home for vout diughtcr with, your older child was an - a wa.v of telling In r that vou missed her and thought only child for one and a half it is wise for you to have about her while you were years ,md h id you! undividi ullOthc I child solely (ol this i one I highh recommend aMcnliun The ec on one has r a son obviously hod to share the J' ' M! It is very important mt and attention with the time c ss.ii y to Ini buy iaui you to ret oeme their mticvd the one older parents timing ispuisise gilts, but just time whin a child needs a childrens growing indepenshe know that yuu something dence lire fact that youi great deal of you like would Ml'tl ulal Ibis is one of the reasons child now walks and that this I do not consider till' hi simakes you somewhat urihap-p- v win I recommend that pal the 1 are (However, ting chit to then have cuts suggests you aie going to plan many paients who sjieml have or more thiee difficulty accepting dun years little oi no time with then ihiklun and give them gilts apart It is also possible that your vhild's mueasing e to ompensate foi this lei k of they die temperamentally ditfeicnt in spite of the Helping a child develop at attention ) eat h stage of growth and Dear Dr. Salk: I have been 'inula! ities in how you cai tor them watching Ins capabilities giving my little son a toy as a ear-olt merge Salk: Dr. tan lx.1 extremely Dear My bis for reward good behavior to started has son giatifying to a parent Howjust know you disagree with this in order to find this a I am happy ever, and walk though I underbut don't quite idea, 1 am aho sad that he it. about gratifying experience, it is stand why. Can vou explain is no longer an infant I it too inqiortant for you to accept B Mrs. N. your position ? e our child's grow ing mdept to hav another soon y baby Dear Mrs B N.: I think it is imtortant tor children to Mrs. 1) 0. Dear Dr. Salk: My Dear Mrs. DO: If your have parental recognition niece has to wear dental and an expression of paienlal icason for hav ng another ot for the next two y ears. because braces child is your pnde as their mam lewaid to have on infant the child comtlesne Fverytime that is behavior acceptfor it would about all the around it, her mother time, plains able to their parents By the lx- - vne to lesoive tins prob- for her critic her ies severely 1 when feel n. toki that same vour child misbehaves is destine live, or does things Suhmil a wedding that are unacceptable to you, that you should expiess your The great increase in the The $8 charge for wedding anger and annoy aiice, and lit vour dissatisfaction bo the number of weddings in our photographs is to cover refast growing area makes it production costs Because of primary punishment possible for The Tribune to the volume of photographs a reward as Taking things tends to make a child very publish only the engagement handled, The Tribune can materialistic It also tends to or wedding photograph, but assume no responsibility for pictures submitted make children equate these not both of a with love Golden wedding and birthTo assure feeling objects publication, Children who have learned to photographs for use with day announcements are equate objects with love often wedding announcements in chai ged for space used at the show their feeling of being The Tribune should be in the late of approximately $7 per unloved by demanding more office of the lifestyle Dept , inch. They should be submit Room 212, Tribune Bldg at ted to classified advertising and more toys or other objects This is, m a way, an least one week before day of department, Newspaper unconscious means ot saying the w edding ceremony Agency Corp , 143 S Main c mcie-pende- c y previous thurcibsuekitifi Is it pvjssit.le that thumhsiK king is the reason she needs braces7 Mrs NT. Dear Mrs. N T. riven if if is. I don t think it s fan for this mother to criticize hu d 1 1 g Dear Dr. Salk: My daughhave been ter and married eight y ears and have a boy. They are expecting their second child in about eight months. Apparently, from what I have learned from my daughter, there is a lot of ugliness, w ith flare-up- s and iciness, around the household. They have decided to stay together until the seeond son-ivla- w baby is born, but I think that hoy must recognize that they will eventually separate. VI hat ran be done so that the boy is not traumatized too much by this fighting and stuff? Mrs. S.J. Dear Mrs. S J : There are two thing, to ke'p ii mind One most little children feel a 3 d they have can od a tnvor'e oi si par it on p ir ticularly (Lt'Jrnp around this age 1 hey feel they caused fhmgs to happen It is impor taut, then tore, that this boy not get th feehng that he has caused his parents to tie angiy wun eac u omen or mat any possible divorce situation is something he brought about He must be conslanlly reassured that he did nut in any way conti ibutc In the unhappiness that exists in the and that should not home he underestimated. Secondly, it is extremely important for him to maintain a good rektonship with each of his parents He must continue to feed that he is important m the lives of each one of them I think that this is the way in which he can come through this without becoming emotionally dis-t- uvt nn j 2SOMX sale anuary j their little bed THE ONCE-A-YEA- R SPECIAL IS HERE NEUTROGENA SAVE OVER 30 bars of Neutiogena soap regular formula or stock-u- p unscented. 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