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Show Ihe Girls. Y our Secret B Cat oh r. A Bote,. L ailed Tress It teiuatior.ul .NEW YORK bam liars. Wen. en A c hi,... ,.l n ft do their masculinity, so they revert to lying," says Dr. Robert L. Wolk, of a r w book, The Right to Lie", it's more socially acceptable lor women to lir; at times it's evn polite." W'olk said in an interview that women are prone to falsity to one another, but at the same time less likely to one another. They tend to lie to their peers more be are pvtnc'l-qgts- t Says so. ;The good doctor, utio hapman. sjvs tart pens to be filing falsehoods is a universe trait but women tel! mots than men. iWomen hae fewer wavs tC assert their lenummty than place on physical beautv. he said, often makes them bund to the lies they use to tool themselves and other women. Theres the weight Le tor example; A heusewde, who has been on a crash diet for a week, has lost eight pounds. She says to ber neighbor, Tve lost 12 pounds. Does it show ? The neighbor replies, is that all: You must have lost at he said. They they're playing the same game, but it keeps the relationship honest. Vi oik maintains a private practice iu New York and is a to consulting psychologist New York City courts. His book, written with Arthur A PsyHenley, is subtitled chological Guide to the Uses of Deceit in Everyday Life.' The importance that women tition know lies, least 13. It's what 'she wants to iie.tr, ard she realty belreves Style Math said that as nine begins to take its loll on a Wolk woman's looks she may re-o- it lo a tvpe of physical ljmg This may include wearing pads whete she's lacking, having her teeth capped or undergoing some type of plastic surgeiy, such as a face lift. It's all a lie. Wolk said. Discards 36-26-3- 6 Shes Inferior Syndrome Sun-Tim- said Dolly by the board, Reed Wageman. Today the American great figure is long and slender and usually about the eight inches between waist, bust and hips." Mrs. Wageman, who is We-- t Coast editor of a woman's magazine, was recently i:, town to talk about her book The Make Yourself Over Plan. When I graduated from college, I weighed 16 pounds more than I do now, but I w a s nt cons idered overweight, said Mrs. Wageman. I was just a big girt. First Book 146-pag-e Mrs. Wageman started her first book over a year ago because it was a subject she had been interested in all her life. You study my book like a course," said Mrs. Wageman. The first week is the longest chapter in the book. It deals with skin and nail care and starts you right off with J 'i 1 . saying I'm actually someone Dm really not," By Judy Kanjer e Writer Chicago CHICAGO The concept of the figure has changed dramatically over the past 23 years. The old business of has sort of gone being A, 7 1970 Isnt Really Out. Guys Have Known ll All Along cause that's wheie tne compe- be-he- Sail Ivhkf Tribune, Sundsj, August J, The weaker sex syndrome also influences female lying habits, Wok said. In most western cultures women are made to feel inferior. As a result they are likely to be less thoughtful about the risks involved in lying. They are also eager to support one anothers lies to counter this unronscious feeling of inferiority. He said that tiie liberated woman, who regards herself more or less equal to men, is not as active a liar as the woman who depends on men for her economic and social existence. However, the feminist still has an old set of values that at times conflict with her new ones, Wolk said. To deal ryith the conflict she lies to herself and others. She may really want a man to open the door or pay for a meal, out instead she says, without much conviction, 'Were equal and must pay our own way. Or she mdy lie to herself or physically by doing what's considered fenii- - and try to be more of a man than woman." Walk said that quite a aie at Uullv calculated and at tunes even tin e ho-td- e. Since women do not generally make the leap ot faith as quickly as men do, the calculated he must be carefully weighed and prejudged before ir is launched against another woman. (anuing Human This is no problem for the woman who is characterized as tunning: she lies easily and well. She is the woman who tan return a dress to the store and convince the saleslady that she never wore it at all; who can put down a perennial borrower vuth a cutting Im all out of sugar, dear. 1 guess vou bon owed it all. " Wolk said that hostilities winch are used to put down other women, grow out of jealousy, spite and pettiness. These lies, he said, may include malicious gossip about part. She sas, we d love to come over, but IXm is bru some woik home, and lie aiwavs wants tne to help a hei and, without bothering to evaluate ber he, holds up the handbag piouulv Uh. how and exeaims lovely." Carol happens to le the pei feet friend and the petted liar. Irene, a divorFlattery cee w ho c ant find a new husband. tells her fnend He walked out on me last night." Libbv replies. "You v eie too good to him. You de- Cal of t epic-se- serve better. Protection ot pi hie jes" to two of the three uuestions means a lie has been sotted. Wolk emphasized that lies discussed in his book should not be confused with criminal lies, or the untruths told by the pathological liar. him." Wolk advises a woman who suspects that sl.e is being con-- t routed tv another woman's he to ask three questions about the susjiect is it her habit to l.e, even harmlessly? Does the suspect i'e concern something sl.e values highly? lias the susMed he to do with her to'.e as a Mountain Cabin Nw Milh-cen- t, whose husband never wants to go out, is invited to a liv Cabin plw Vj trig h ton $3,91.00. atn-tlun- g al" or 467-990- 4 acre abava for toftlt. 27R-768- 3 lie said that an emphatic another woman or her husband and children. But. according to Wolk, most women deal in spontaneous constructive little white n lies, lie has placed falsehood at its constructive best in these categories ; woman-to-woma- The polite lie Alice, w ho happens to have the fashion sense of a dinosaur, buvs her good friend, Ca.ol, an unstjl-ls- h handbag. Immediately, Jala aar fabalaao Taar fa tba CANADIAN ROCKIES and Pacific Northwest Aug. 13 to 27 13 Thrilling Days $343,85 each (Twio or Dwbl) CONTINENTAL TRAILWAYS TOURS 77 Wait Sa. Taaiplt PN. 321 IUI exercise. As a woman progi esses to the second week, she is introduced to more exercises and makeup techniques; the third week to spot exercises, eye makeup hints and diets; the fourth week to isometric exercises, the importance of color and menus; the fifth week to figure analysis, jogging, foundation garments, appro-privabeachwear for her particular figure type and more diet menus, and the sixth week to fashion and hairdo ideas. The final segment of the book ! te Simplicity with an elegant look describes this pattern, llelga designed it for fall collection. Easy to Make is devoted to low-calor- recipes. Heres Versatile Dress By Violet Weber Every woman has at least one dress that seems just right for almost every occasion and ofkn wishes she had the same dress in a dozen colors. You can do just that with todays, pattern. y el- ' 18, through send $1.50 in cash, check or money order (no stamps) to Couture Patterns, The Salt Lake Tribune, Bo 2710, G.P.O., New York, N.Y. 10001. Add la cents for first-clapostage, if desired. Print plainly your name, address, ZIP code, pattern number and size. Ples.se allow at least 11 days for delivery. midi-lengt- ss length, equally handsome, so the woman can judge for herself the length most becoming to her height and figure. llelga. noted across the r n. ht Simplicity itself to make but with the egant look that makes it a perfect dress to wear for business, to luncheons and teas and in a dressier fabric for early evening functions. Designed by Helga for her fall collection, the dress is at its most attractive in the new h for which instructions are included. We have photographed it in the shorter d simcountry for a medium-weigsuggests plicity, wool or flannel for this first fall dress but also sees it jn a double knit for travel and crepe with perhaps a four-pla rhinestone for a dinner dress. To perpetuate its usefulness make it sleeveless in a crisp cotton for the resort season and on into spring and summer. To order llelga (out are sizes 8 Pattern No, Ff CENTE k high-style- . VALLEY Urge Parly I recommend that the last day of the plan you have a coming-ou- t party for said Mrs. Wage-mayourself, She feels she has a new conMy diet cept to dieting. menus are geared for the single woman and for young married women with children, who usually want to have one meal a day with someone, I set said Mrs. Wageman. aside calories during the day and let them splurge on dinner. she's adamant However, about accompanying diet with an exercise program in order to tone the muscles. You should be nice enough to yourself to spend at least 30 minutes a day on exercise," said Mrs. Wageman. Lerm to eat in proper proshe said. Once portions. you're down to where you want to be. start eating less than you used to because you have a smaller body mass. Lustrous double knit acetate top end skirt for the workaday you or top and pants for the weekend you. 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