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Show Page 14 - THE HERALD, Provo, Utah, Wednesday, May 22. 1985 Barlow 50th Anniversary m The children of Joel C. and Frances P. Barlow will honor their parents at a reception for their rW IVW Golden Wedding Anniversary, in the Skyroom at the Wilkinson Center, 9 p.m., Saturday. The event is open to friends and relatives. There will be a short program at 8 p.m. They request no gifts. Joel is the son of Truman and Sarah Call Barlow. He was born in Bountiful, Utah and lived in Davis County during his early life. He was married to Frances Parrish on May 27, 1935 in the Salt Lake City Temple of The Church of. Jesus Christ of Latter-da- y Saints. After their marriage they attended college in Logan where Joel graduated in 1938 and later received a Master's degree in Horticulture. Later the couple moved to Cedar City where Joel worked with the Bureau of Entomology and Plant Quarantine and the Utah Dept. of Agriculture. After moving to Provo he worked for the Utah State Extension Service as a Horticulturist until 1975. Upon retirement he went to Iran to teach Farm Management for the Resource Development Corporation. Frances is the daughter of Parley and Elizabeth Collings Parrish. She was born in Centerville, Utah. She graduated with a B.S. degree in Home Economics from the University of Utah and a Master's Degree in Child Development from Utah State University. She had further study at Oregon State University. She taught Early Childhood Education at BYU for 23 years. She retired from teaching in 1975 to accompany her husband to Iran where she again taught in the College at Reqiah, Iran. Mr. and Mrs. Guy Ferguson (Maria Weeks) Weeks, Ferguson Maria Weeks, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Donald Weeks, Pleasant Grove, married Guy Lynn Ferguson, son of Mr. and Mrs. Allan Ferguson, Provo, Friday. An open house will honor them this Friday, 9 p.m. at the Lions Sportsman Center in Pleasant Grove. The event is open to all friends and relatives. The bride graduated from Pleasant Grove High and attended UTC. She is employed as a medical secretary in Pleasant Grove. 7-- Her husband graduated from Provo High and is employed SLC as a welder ironworker. The couple will live in Orem. Neighbors can make life easier. Pooling resources help improve the quality of community life. . in I Being Neighborly Helps By LEANNE HOFFMANN Herald Staff Writer What does it take to be a good neighbor? Every day stories circulate which relate in gruesome detail the horrible things human beings do to one another. Newspapers, television, radio and magazines all contain evidence that distance and disdain help protect the individual. Yet through the same media, ; encouraging inci- dents serve as reminders that con- cern, warmth and brotherly love arestill flourishing. Being neighbor-l- y can also serve as a safety shield. In the bigger cities, neighborhood alert systems are helping to cut crime. Whether a neighborhood in-- ; eludes one floor in an apartment building or an entire tiny rural community, neighbors can do a lot for one another. Author of "Community Dreams: ideas for Enriching Neighborhood ; and Community Life," Bill Ber-- : kowitz, says that neighborhoods are a place to belong. "For many of us, neighborhoods are neutral or alien places we pass ; heart-warmin- . ' home, or apartment or yard was in order.. .then offered to do the same thing for that elderly couple down the street. Suppose we decided not through to and from work then into our little boxes. We all need privacy but most of us also need peo- ple." to wait, or even expect the government to "take care of it" and took it whatever the need upon ourselves?" Merlo believes that as one person's positive "can do" attitude spills over to the neighbor next door, to the schools and churches, then by example it will enter city hall and in time, "throughout this Sometimes, all it takes is a wave or a nice "hello," to establish a good relationship with the family across the fence. Once in a while it may take an all out effort to send the message, "I'm here." But once some sort of rapport is developed then a natural flow of friendship ensues. It's nice to know there is someone nearby. Day to day living can be enriched by sharing with neighbors. How can our neighbors help us? How can we help them? Revitalizing the spirit of unity in the homefront area can be accomplished by being aware of what needs to be done and taking active part in seeing that it's taken care great land." From simple acts like trading jobs with neighbors, taking dinner to initiatto them, visiting, etc. ing big neighborhood projects being "neighborly" takes effort. Berkowitz suggests the key is in motivating people to get involved. Small scale fairs, festivals and other types of special events build of. trust. up During a recent speech on improving neighborhoods, Harry A. Merlo, president of a large U.S. company stressed the idea that one person can make a difference in the quality of community life. "Suppose we made sure our tree, start a neighborhelp out when a Adopt a hood yearbook, neighbor needs help, pool skills and remember that being a good neighbor means being a good friend. Ann Landers Mr. and Mrs. Joel C. Barlow Joel and Frances have both been in the LDS Church and professional organizations. In addition to serving in many Church positions, Joel has been a member and officer of the Utah County Horticulture Society and a member of Epsilon Sigma Phi National Extension Society. Also an active member and president of the Provo Lions Club. Frances has also served in the various organizations of the LDS Church. She has been President of Stake Home Economics Association, rirman of Nurses Aide organization and Secretary of National Council of Family Relations. They both have been working in the Provo Temple for the past two years. They have four children: Carolyn Dunford, SLC; Bonnie Lewis, Orem; Rulon Barlow, Provo, and Jolene Thompson, Albuquerque, N.M. They have 18 grandchildren. active John C. Giles Capri LeFevre HAIR DESIGN Giles, LeFevre FOR MEN AND WOMEN- Capri LeFevre, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Harold LeFevre, Provo, will marry John C. Giles, son of Mr. and Mrs. Les Giles, Spanish Fork, Saturday, at the Edgemont South Stake House. A reception will honor the couple that evening from 6:30-- 9 p.m. at the Holiday Inn in Provo. The event is open to all friends and relatives. Bridal attendants are Julia Richmond, Kristine Laws and Carol Stout. - rWil Includes: Personal consultation, permanent wave, hair cut and style. Reg. $53.50 i 4 $31 Offer good through May 25, 1985. Best men are Rick Wright, George Giles and Lynn Giles. is attending The bride-elec- t Timpview High where she will graduate this year. The bridegroom attended Spanish Fork High. He is now employed at A&Y Building in Provo. The couple will live in Provo. Men's Haircuts Every Tuesday. $2.00 Off 900 So. State OREM 225-775- 5 Evergreen Square 'ABY FUM?U Doctor Was Not to Blame ; I Dear Ann Landers: When I was 30 years old, I decided I wanted a Child. After 2 12 years I finally became pregnant. I went to a obstetrician $nd told him I was concerned .' about having a normal child at my age. He said I had nothing to worry about. I asked him about amniocentesis and ultrasound just to "make sure." He said I didn't need it. During each visit a urine sample was taken and he listened to the heartbeat. That's all the checking that was done until I went into my seventh month, when I finally talked him into the ultrasound. I had two of the tests. When 1 asked about the results I was told everything was fine. - ; In November I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. My husband ; and I were so happy. Twelve hours later, the pediatrician told me the child was mongoloid. What an ugly word for such a beautiful baby! We were crushed and looked for someone to blame. Was anyone to blame1? Did receive the best care and treat-- ; ment? I certainly paid enough for it. With all the technology we have today, why wasn't it made availa- ble to me? ' Ann. I can't tell you how much love this baby, but it we had we ' known in the beginning, we would ' have terminated the pregnancy. Down About Down's Sign me I Dear Down: According to Dr. John Sciarra, chairman of Obstetrics and Gynecology at Northwestern University, the care you received was acceptable for a patient. A Down's Syndrome child can be born to a woman of any age, but the chances increase greatly after 35. Probably the reason your doctor did not use the amniocentesis Is because the procedure Is not without danger and he felt the risks outweighed the chances of finding ; tighly recommended ; shouldn't wear rubber in public because it is a sexual come-o- n and people will think I am a hooker who specializes in kinky sex. She said her authority for this great piece of wisdom was your column. What is this nonsense about hookers wearing rubber in public? Did you say that? Philadelphia Perplexed In You can't find hotter values! Dear Perplexed: I said no such thing. Rubber rain gear Is worn by Great bvys on all your the most stylish dressers. Your "friend" is probably green with furniture needs for that little one! envy. ALL FURNITURE, STROLLERS, CAR SEATS, HIGH CHAIRS, MATTRESSES, ETC. SEARS I- NOW ON SALE! Williamsburg ' Double CRIB ', STROLLER Save $60 An Unheard of Value! Orig. $250 1 something abnormal. Ultrasound cannot detect Down's Syndrome, K Is used to learn If there are gross abnormalities In the bone or tissue structure. So, my dear, It appears there Is no one "to blame." 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