| Show DEFINITE GOAL i r JOR OUR Dr h Garden world known philosopher I pher r believes that girls irIs ebo should ld cul cultivate cu- cu th t the spirit of ot achievement The fol following Win is published i through the court Courtesy sy of Pictorial l Review With the tbd average cra e American girl rl her herd d definite finito purpose has ended with her di di ploma Her 1 mother other and grandmother were br up with the idea that marriage was a woman womans woman's e Inevitable goal and the girl pirl of the pat past art was not encouraged l to have an any other Ambition The tremendous increase iii in American divorces during the tho past was largely b- b duo due to th the idle aimless lives of the V wives es es especially the wives m of I Iw wealthy men Ware earning a tion bons were ht of f in in the thet girl girls girl's training and not even hinted at in in t the fashionable lIcho schools ls f Thero here ha has bAit been too great r At emphasis em cm- placed ed upon on two different ideals for the tho boy and the girl firl Everything in to tho bo boys bov's s training has pointed toward toward to ward his future He has been taught that ho he i is expected to do something I and to be bc somebody ody odya in tho the world world world-to to be bea a man of ot influence and power cr and to stand for something in In his community The boys boy's training has as been calculated to develop his independence inde his 80 self self- reliance to call out his initiative c and qualities which accomplish things Achievement along alone the lino line of definite purpose has bas been emphasized in his training The Tho most pathetic picture in in Ameri Amen American can life lif has hils been beeD that of the tho untrained helpless u dl daughter waiting around at home after her hot schooling E- E hoolin r was over for Cor some seine man to come como along alone who was will willin willing In ing to support her These helpless s am am- creatures however er are fast di disappearing The 11 new I t girl will wilt be bc much more of a prize than the old typo of DC a girl and she uno will bo be much more sou sought ht after The Tho now no girl will not not have the same samo temptation to sell herself for a a. homo home for some some one aDO to support her because because she will bo be able ablo to provide pro for herself herMI Tho The coming girl Jirl is going to be bo trained in a business busine way to fit herself for some Bomo useful o vocation which will make her independent Sho bho is not going to be bo bothe bethe the theman's clinging vine ine dres dresses dressed up up- doll don mans man's plaything of the tho past pad Sho She is going oin to b be a much bi higher er order of b be bo being bothe log ing a 8 character wort worth the name of woman The new nen girl sirl irl if it she doesn't marry is not going to lito 11 upon her father and mother She is going oin to bo ho ashamed to tobe tobe tobo be bo a further drag upon her hOT parents a adrain a adrain adrain drain upon the Camil family treasur treasury She Sho is is going Join to re regard ard it J just as aA much of a ad d disgrace CI to ban an around the tho home houie for years jears and awl do nothing while bile she is wait ing for the right man to come along llon as asit asit asit it would be he for her brother to live livo upon his family after he is perfectly capable of rn cl earning earning u his his' own living Tins This limn Ii living nr upon the parents parente after after ono ono one is is capable of earning ones one's own living is isa isa isa a great eat character It Jt is practically accepting charity when one is 19 perfectly capable of or taking taking care caro of or oneself and the tho n now w eirl girls girl's s ten of ot justice her cr superb independence and self reliance will protest 8 against her lon longer or accepting these conditions Courtesy of Pi Pictorial Review April 1014 |