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Show Man Expects j Much of Girl I Fanny SelWt.q By BETTY BLAIR People who set high standard for their choice of friend or mate should take frequent Inventory of their own character assets and liabilities to see that their personality budgets are occasionally balanced, Dear Miss Blair! : The man I have been going out with is nearly 90 years old and has gone with so many girls he Is terribly hard to please, A girl - Heart's Haven must be entertaining, be good looking, wear good clothes, know lot of top notch people and continually be telling him what a Wonderful fellow he is. I have been filling the bill now for nearly three month. I am 23 year old and have no ether likely prospect of a man in eight. I do hat to be cooped up at home In the evening after my day s work is don at the office, but I dont think I can go on much longer meeting all the require rnent of this particular guy. Faehloa Plat Heiresses' like a fashion plafe himself, but I'm getting tired of (pending all my money on clothe Just to keep up with him. In fact, can't see any future in It- Yet 11 my friends tell me he likes me better than any girl he ha ever gone with. He has told m as much himself, but I have thought it was just his line and that sooner or later I would be dropped In favor of another girl who cam . along to pique his fancy. Do you think I should continue -otng with him just for the good time when It I such an expense to m In th matter of clothes and when I feel sure ther 1 no . , future la It? "NONCOMPOS." so Ton have answered your own question in your doubt. You don't think th immediate good times worth th prlc you have to pay for them, either now or for th future Why not face th altuatioa with little more courage? Bay to yourself your-self then are just as good mice in th field as ever were trapped and look th field over. While doing so choose on whoa Interests aren't all self-centered. On who, when he marries, will do as much to help hi wife keep up appearance and realities as he doe for himself. It' a fin thing to eet standard of living that are as high as Is your ability to reach, but too many set false standards and strive at false alma. They demand an outer appearance that la not matched by an inner grace. Give th young man th lesson he deserves by finding Another mor to your liking. FOR CY-NICir Dear Miss Blair: I've simply got to write In answer an-swer to th letter In your column algned by "Cy-Nlck." I am past 0, also a bachelor, and a student ' of th psychology of drees. A man Is very unwise to criticise adversely ad-versely a woman's dress. Never tear down tyle, habit, or anything else unless you are able to build aomethlng better in Ita place. I too have studied women, algebra and cynics. Cynicism is a disease caused by an Intense yearning for aomethlng that 1 . evasive. Men Follow Fashion There are just as many men Walking th street in fin clothing cloth-ing that baa not yet been paid for, as ther are women doing th stmt thing. Th difference is that th average woman know when ah looks like a walking curiosity ahop, a man usually doe not. Neither men nor women ahould be blamed for dressing to mak themselves appear younger than la really th case. The truth is that simpl. artistie dress 1 one way to keep on young in reality as well as in imagination. Also I know a lot of men who would do well to diet Talk about . Women fooling themselves. I'll Wager an old fashioned three-cent piece that "Cy-Nlck" has been fooled by a woman. Cheer up, old boy, they aren't all fat A. A. V. B. e Tra sur th women win give a vote of thanks for this gallant bachelor who comes to their defease. de-fease. It is really better, coming from th. opposite sex than If w. tried to defend ourselves |