Show AGAINST HER WILL GIRL PERSISTS IN FALLING IN INLOVE INLOVE LOVE WITH EMPLOYER i By BETTY BLAIR I A good stiff course course in mental hygiene is something every adolescent adolescent adolescent ado ado- needs It is as necess necessary ry to learn to control the emotions as as the limbs Imagine the predicament we would be in if wh when n we sent cent the to the legs to carry us forward they persisted in ini i going backward Yet some people have no nomore more control than this over their over their emotions Dear Miss Blair I am coming to you in n desperation despera tion Lion to get you you to to help me It seems I am fated to go through life falling in love with someone who simply doesn't know that I exist Two years ago when I was 18 and after sev several ral minor infatuations i t ons I fell so hard I thought nothing would ever help me to re- re cover over The man was my ray office olce Employer He looked at me and andi i smiled every morning he was 7 courteous and thoughtful but after after atter af at- ter I had been there three months I j he told me he hired me because I 4 appealed to him as an emotionally stable young woman that other girls he had had fell in love with him and that as he was In love with his wife he couldn't stand them around Of Ot course this was was fair warning warn warn- In ing to me not to fall all in love with him but instead of checking me It t seemed to open the gates of love loveto loveto to me and did I tumble through- through all the way I imagined I could see in him that tha he loved me inc too i. i I but that his loyalty to his wife Z kept hept know him from letting me nie So ISO I decided after I had worked for him a little over to let him know v how I feltl felti Made Him Angry I never saw a man so angry Of course I lost my job too He didn't tir fire mc me I just quit I could no no more have gone back pack to work in that office olce than I could have flown It was terrible and I thou thought ht I would never get over it but I did and now I am in love again with my new boss and oh Miss Blair its it's simply terrible to work for a man you love Jove who looks right through you as if It you weren't there at all I know I have no right to love him He isn't married but hes he's going to be I dont don't know how I Ican Ican can go on working fo for him after hes he's married and I know all aU hope is dead I dont don't know why I have to fall faU in love with men who wouldn't shake a stick at me even If H they were free to do so When I was younger I was always crazy about the boys who wouldn't even even look ook at me Please tell me inc what lo to 0 do and give me some hope that life life wont won't always be like this HEARTBREAK f I cant can't promise a fu future ure for you your r any different from your past unless unless un- un fless less you take yourself in hand talk s 's to yourself like a Dutch uncle and promise to keep your love interests steered in a direction that will attract attract at at- tract eligible's instead of men who are re already attached In the first place you need to acquire ac ac- ac- ac quire a sense of humor to hide your seriousness behind a mask of larity Keep that mask on for the times when you have to face yourself yourself yourself your your- self alone as well as when you are with others Once you learn to I laugh ugh at yourself yourself your- your 1 self Instead of feeling so sorry for fort t 3 yourself over your yearnings for forbidden fruit the yearnings will field of their find a legitimate own What are your activities outside your our office work Are you meeting young oung people and trying and trying to get a thrill out of life with its thousand and one Interests Or do you goto go goto to work worle and then go home to dream over your day at the office If It so that's the first situation to be cor cor- Find out all the places where the young people g go whom you could coul enjoy and go there too Dont Don't go I With Avith the Idea of making them fall faU iri love with you but to forget yourself yourself your- your o self and to d do something nice for them that will give them an Interest In lit you Join business girls' girls clubs church hurch clubs o of young oung people athletic athletic athletic ath ath- letic groups A vivid life will bring you ou many marly friends and once you have learned the value of genuine friendships you will become more discriminating about your own love life and the direction it should take Too few v friends leads one to make too much of f the little chance offered offered of of- for love WHICH SHALL JIA HAVE E HONOR r Dear Miss Blair t I. I I am soon to be married and my fian fiance e wants me to sele select t his sister aLster sister sis sis- aLs- aLs ter as my maid of honor but 1 I hardly know her ler and want to ask my oldest and best friend to be maid of honor He says BaYS it will look as if I did not ot approve of his sister if It I do no not ask her to fill this important position on my wedding day I dont don't agree with him on this and andl wish you yot would settle the matter for us Thank you WONDERING Your fiance is wrong in this mat mat- ter er Your oldest and best friend is entitled to be asked to be maid of honor lonor You may ask the bridegrooms bridegroom's bridegrooms bridegroom's bride- bride grooms groom's sister to be one of your I. I brid bridesmaids but certainly you need not ot ask her to fill the position your long known friend is entitled to fill Your choice will have nothing to do with your approving or disapproving I ing ng g of your fiances fiance's sister PART PERSIAN KITTENS Three part Persian kittens need good homes Call Hy M 2854 or see seelem them lem at East Seventh South street reel |