| Show Partiality Shown to Elder Eider Sister Elicits Righteous Indignation in Mind nd of Y Younger unger By BETTY BElTY BLAIR that come to children tax their emotions to the extent of their ability to endure as much as greater troubles tax their elders Endurance and fortitude should be taught early in life if one is to tobe tobe tobe be greater than anything that may befall him Dear Miss Blair My father and mother have I gone to California for tor a a. month and have left left me me and my ray year 17 old sister to take care of my younger brother and sister I am 15 and the other two are 9 and 6 My sister will not let me help get tho the meals but she lets me set tho the table and watch the food so it wont won't burn She also lets me do dothe dothe dothe the disagreeable things about the house that she doesn't like to do But she makes maies my aunt think she does it alL Tho The other day my aunt called and invited us to dinner I ana answered an an- a ered the telephone and my aunt said caid she wanted us to come and wanted my sister to be the guest of honor This nearly broke my heart and I could hardly keep from front crying When we arrived there thero my aunt praised my sister for keeping the two younger ones onesS S eo 50 nice and clean She didn't la say saya a a. word to me though it was I Iwho Iwho who made them t take ke a bath and ironed a clean dress and shirt shirtS for them to wear Sisters Are Opposites Opposite S My sister and I are as different as 53 we can be She is ia tem hot and everybody has to be careful what they say sosho wont won't be always alVas up in the he air Both my mother and grandmother say I have havo a very good disposition I make snake friends easily and can get along with everybody But it certainly certainly certainly hurts my feelings the way my aunt praises my sister for the way she he does the housework and never Dever says a a. word to me I do doas doas doas as much as she Is it just that they talk and act as if it I cant can't do anything HEART BROKEN If It youre you're going to let your heart be broken over these things you had bad just as well we-n sto stop trying to get along in the world altogether I know that little things hurt young people but with your good disposition disposition tion Jon you should just be ber beable able to laugh laught at t your troubles To smile and pr pretend tend not to notice poUce slights when in reality your heart feels as as' if it It its it's about to burst to smithereens ns is one ono teat test of ot being a avery avery avery very great la lady y For if U you can do this at the age of ot 15 Im I'm sure you'll ba able ablo to do so when you go through life These things seem scent big to you now but they really arent But tho the manner in which you let them affect your character and disposition dis dis- dis- dis position is a very big thing Character Test There is no finer test of ot character character character charac charac- ter than the tho way in which people behave when crises or even small mall disturbances arise in their lives I dont don't mean that you must make mako yourself ourel doormat for lor or your lour lUter or anybody else But if It you can Aunt laugh and say That funny lunny Julia for sister to get all the tho praise for lor believe it or ot not notI I am as aa much responsible for the way the house is kept and the nice clean faces and clothes of ot the children as she Is Or for fear that speech is too long make one up that is is shorter and snappier of your own one that sounds more like you Only when your aunt starts all this praise of your sister agree with her that she's right but let her know that there are two of you You must do- do this In your most charming manner however or everybody will think you are a little bit jealous Of ot course it doesn't pay to toot your oUr own horn too much or nobody nobody nobody no no- body else will t toot ot it for you Nobody Nobody No No- body is fond of at one who brags about himself his job the way he vanquishes his enemies and attracts his friends Your work and your character and the tho nice personality you ou have will speak for themselves There is nothing so contagious as asa asa asa a happy cheerful disposition Be sure suro you keep yours that way and rm Im sure aura you'll not regret it after atter your parents return home TO SHOW APPRECIATION Dear Miss Blair How can can canI I show my appreciation tion I received a lovely bouquet of at roses roes without a acard card or address from the sender Jender Thanking you S IS F. F H. H Tho rho sender lender of at flowers by no card nor intimation of ot who the donor is doesn't expect verbal or written acknowledgment of ot the gift There isn't anything you ou can do about it except to wait for a clue and then express your I elation WEDDING INVITATION Dear Miss Blair When having wedding invitations invitations invitations engraved Is it necessary to have the year as well as the day and month put on Thank youE youE youE you E B. B The Tho year Is not engraved on the wedding Invitation If you were having announcements made the year Is II engraved on these PART PERSIANS FOR GIFT Three Throe cuto cute kitt kittens ns 3 months old must find new homes The Tho mother ca cat which Is a good mouser would like to be included as the owners are leaving town Call Hy W. 1879 |
