Show CHILD SHOULD SHOULD BE BE ENCOURAGED TO DO OO THINGS FOR ITSEL By n l MYRTLE TLE lE l MEYER R ELDR EmR EmROn One On can hardly conc conceive lVe 0 of child who at some time or ariot during the second year yeat did not ot mand Hand to have a a. part in those act c ties ies in which heretofore h he have nave played only a a. passive r Children grow tired of being fi they grow restless when b dressed and as u a result ma make e I 1 miserable for the or parent parent or mand to be allowed t to do for tor the th selves It is at the moment when urge shows its head that p of these ceremonies should be bode bede gated jated to the child But how howe bowed badly sadly the child may want to he he very very quickly tires N NHe He cant can't succeed as ho wishes succeed succeed and and so 80 his his' failures Irrl Buttons wont won't slip sUp nH into nto buttonholes His mo mouth th el eltHe elu 3 the spoon After some effort child becomes cross It is at t point that a placid mother ca can canin s in and offer otter gracious help and the ceremony mony with colors lying flying Children differ in their inte inter intern in n such activities There are are c dren aren who prefer dressing the selves to running outdoors to o p pU pUWhy Why should a mother fo force ce the Ui theto to finish some other activity practice they get develops its ita o ci speed I. I In this case cas we are ta talking taking king of young child who is b just learning dress dress' and finds the game fasci ing not tag not the older child who dawdling over the dressing he knows knows' very well how to d dos do 4 avoiding some other activity burn imm beyond it 4 But while the child is it is discouraging to be saddle with the whole le responsibility So Son I times the child cant can't hurry hurry- hurry lo hoy ever he might wish to n he grows so infuriated at his hi ii ability to master his obstinate g ga ments that he is 3 frustrated b by A Aown own emotion i iSo r So long as as' actual lack of or or fury at his failures failures Is Is pi venting a child chUd from dressing hI bin self the mother should not demand derau it of ot him The who mother that her 4 year begged to site sli in his shoes shoes so so that he would wouldn have to lace them them and and who bitter minutes trying to get in in his clothes was admitting that U thi OW task was too difficult for her chil Age and the increased which comes with it will tend make such tasks simpler simpler simpler-mu while so long as they seem moui mou and unbearable a little bej from Crom the parent will encourage tf t child to make further good tn ten te efforts along these lines u |