| Show MAN WHO KNOWS ALL ALL' 1 TYPES OF WOMEN IS ISi i i io I Ii i VOLUBLE IN DEFENSE tS P c Marriages ag Arc Are All Motivated by Desire for Another An- An f J other Man Avers Response to o orr r rr i Brides Bride's 5 Toast F r I By BETTY BE TY BLAIR r i j Women have a w way y of losing their equilibrium when they thEr discover over their purity was not app appreciated wrote wrote a very Wise sage sage And what more conclusive evidence can can be had to the woman herself that her purity is not appreciated than lies in the fact that her motives s are mistrusted D Dear ar Miss Blair I ain fain would respond to Instincts Instincts In somewhat cacophonous lament and tell the boy th though ugh In I believe he e means n la I XII f well yet not to toI tobe I fl be silly He styles himself himsel not nor an anI f I old fashioned boy bay II but a new lash I 11 I observer i ru in the vagaries I f of mademoiselle I anc and madame's 1 m manner of dress r I I would inquire i of or I n ii s t in c t where he has been all the j ears that he doesn't know that one cant can't an any more tell a girls girl's or a womans woman's morals from the clothes she wears or wears or doesn't wear the amount of or smoking or drinking she does and the way she Ehe cuddles up to toone toone one ose when she dances than he can cantell cantell tell teU what kind of a a horse it is bYthe by bythe bythe the color of its eyes the size of Its feet or the amount of grassit grass grassit it cats and the corner of the field it haunts I further would warn Instinct not to be dumb and make the grave error of thinking that he hec c can ciu ii in iti the thc least depend on women's women's wom wo wo- wo- wo m mens men's s 's manner maimer of or dressing Or or in undressing in public to constitute constitute tute a vade Trade mecum of the fair sex's morals Nowadays this is the h height ht of ot ignorance in any man Inan STILL WATERS DEEP Let us simply simpI go back to an anold anold old old adage Still waters rund run d deep p.- p. And this doesn't mean that ever every girl or even one out of a thousand who dreS dresses s modestly conducts herself berse quietly charmingly charmingly charm charm- demurely is in the east immoral AU All I know about it is the only time I ever got my face slapped was vasy asby by a little girl who attended a dance almost nude half intoxicated intoxIcated intoxicated who danced daringly laughed loudly loudly loudly-in in 9 m fact fac had a whale of a time time while the most successful conquest I ever made in my life was with a very very ery cry modest maiden clad up to the ears cars in the v very ry height of modesty mod danced esty quiet as a mouse very properly refused to be held tightly very choicy with whom she danced drank not at all and all and had hadey ey eyes s like the l Certainly women love loe lo e to be admired ad ad- mired mired mired-it it is a part of their life an an important part But show me mea meI I a man who doesn't smile all allover over himself when a women compliments compliments ments m him especially on his good looks personality dancing physical physical cal eal prowess and other attractive masculine attributes even though perhaps deep down in itt his heart he knows knowS' she he doesn't mean it it wy may perhaps be striving for some rome material gain through him or trying to o hurt burt some other woman woman woman wo wo- man by weaning him away from h her r only to give him bim the air after the damage Is done Men are just like women Some can an control their p passions under any ny circumstances some cannot some are angels some are hell hen hellcats hellcats cats eats some some are good some are bad But all of 01 them both sexes are never entirely good never entirely l- l y bad You must take ow Letters questions and requests requests requests re re- re- re quests quest for lor advice should be addressed to MISS l BETTY BETT BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S lIA HAVEN VEN TELEGRAM I SA SALT L T LA LAKE K E CITY Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It H Is necessary that yon you ap ap- append append pend the right richt name and address ad dress but bot these will be held in strict confidence and will not appear In print Questions In In- voIcing advertising ad Information tion cannot be answered I them as you jou ou find them them take take them or leave them ih m love them th m mor or hate them For For- Formy my part I find tolerance by placing myself in the others other's s shoes shoes hoes and comparing their alleged alleged al al- al sins to mine their good deeds to to o min mine The result is I Isee see they are all just as lS good and some a lot better than myself I find that all aU persons especially espe espe- daily women if it they are sports in the best s sense nse of that word are arc ver very good to know and live and associate with no matter what their sins are Sportsmanship Sportsman Sportsman- ship That's all I ask of ot any any- bod body We are arc all weak Wh Why throw stones I suggest Instinct spend a afew afew afew few days on the beach if he would learn to control his hi in instincts in instincts or in a nudist colony BEAU It never means half so much for fora a woman to defend her own sex asfor as asfor asfor for a man to do it A woman could ra rave rae e on forever about the purity of her ler motives and most people would jut just think she was making a big noise But let a man take up up the cudgels in her behalf behal and the world listens And the principle works both joth ways ways It takes a womans woman's praise and understanding to let the world know v just how gallant how sportsmanlike sportsmanlike sports sports- manlike men can be And have you jou ou ever noticed the dark brown bro taste left in everybody's mouth when one sex tears the other down Thanks Beau Peste for forthe forthe the he defense POSTSCRIPT Dear Miss Blair Blah My comment on the second marriage problem is very brief and like a postscript but ut it sums up my ideas on the whole question question ques ques- tion From observation I believe most divorces would not be entered entered entered en en- into if iC the participants did not have their kites hitched to another another another an an- other star And its it's wrong That Thatis is where there are other obligations obligations to be betaken taken care of instead in instead in in- stead of evaded I think most men who walk out where there are children a are c cowards They should be P punished instead of petted as they are in our courts today toda- P PS S. S Your postscript will call forth more refrain I 1 comment PS myself from comment lest some of 01 the husbands hus husbands bands bands' of second wives take it inadvertently mad mad- in into their heads that I am aiming my remarks at them TOAST TO BRIDE BRIDES Dear Miss 1 Blair S When a Po toast is being proposed to the bride during durin the wedding supper is the bride supposed to stand Thank you I LP P. P Neither the bride nor the groom stand during the time the toast is being given if it is offered to 10 both at the same time The groom rises at atthe atthe atthe the end of ot the toast to acknowledge it If the toasts are offered to each separately the bride rises while it is being offered to the groom and the I groom oom rises while it is being offered to the bride |
