| Show It C 1 HEARTS HAVEN VEN 4 J r Pc I Conducted by BETTY BLAIR I J I ratters Letters Questions and requests for tor advice should be addressed j 4 to MISS Bf BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN RAVEN TELEGRAM SALT k t. t LAKE Write legibly upon only one side Eldo 0 ol ot the paper It is 15 necessary that you append the right name and address addre but these will wUl be bo held in strict confidence and will not appear in print Questions involving advertising Information cannot be an- an Letters requiring personal persona reply must be accompanied by stamped d self addressed envelopes Ed THE HE COUNTRY GULLS GIEL'S PROBLEM I Dear Miss Blair Ive I've been goIng coin oln out with a fellow for tor about three months and I learned to think q quite a bit of him then all allf of f a sudden ludden without any warning he stopped topped I dont don't know what Is the matter I cant can't think of anything I have said or done to hurt him or give him an any reason reason to stop so suddenly I ce certainly think that Is small of a fellow to just stop coming to see se-e a girl without saying a thing You dont don't know whether youve you've hurt hud the poor little delicate things thing's feeling or whether he just decided he doesn't like another you ou or whether there Is woman in the story or or what the ding dine dong Do you think it would be all right for tor me inc to have ve a party and nd invite him and antI perhaps during durin the evening at t the opportune time ask uk him hint what Is the matter or do you OU think he be would think I e cared red and that's one thin thing I wouldn't let him think under any circumstances es I live in the country and I dont don't get d many chances to meet different fellows If you go to a dance danco stag sur then you arc are marked as that kind of ofa ofa ofa a girl and then you never do meet the decent kind of fellows Isn't there a 5 way I can meet med more fellows Im I'm Imick lick ick of Just sitting home twiddling jay my thumbs waiting for tor the right one one If there is to be such a thing In my life Please dont don't think me some nit nit- U that they just turned Joo loose e but Im I'm about ready to do some quick moving one way or another There must be something radically wrong with me some place and nd I cant can't find It I must have it U all right yeah right yeah the wrong kind Perhaps you could tell teU me some books to read by which I X could develop my personality my sense of humor and otherwise I surely need to develop something evidently Any advice you could give me would surely be appreciated Thank you for listening to my silly troubles DOWN IN THE TIlE MOUTH Yours is the problem a of a good many girls who live in the country and who make few ew contacts with young people through church auxiliaries social clubs or or business organizations Yet it seems there sho should ld be a way to 10 meet the problem provided that transportation to a central place o of meeting is possible Most certainly one who sits at home twiddling her thumbs can expect slight returns There must be man many nice boys in your community as there are in every suburban district The thing to do dois dois is 15 to get common interests awakened to which those Thom of like tastes may It takes a leader lder to get something something some some- thing of this kind started Since you have so o much leisure on your hands why couldn't this leader be you There arc are doubtless many boys and girls In your community who are prepared for work for whom there is no work In this disuse a of your abilities you could soon soom lose Jose your cunning Why not organize a club of t the tc e young business and hold regular meelin meetings s in n which you have regularly assigned programs that keep you in touch with what is going on In the business world and nd in the world of historical and cultural events Such a club would form a nucleus for Cor or many good times and would pro pro- vide the social contacts you now lack There is more to life by way of recreation than just dancing A group such uch as the one you and others might form orm would soon find many outlets for or the play you need Outdoor activIties could claim much of your during the summer and autumn months Winter sports are no noless noless less ess interesting When you develop interests in your our life fe young men will not leave you to o wonder what you have done that they hey should treat you so shabbily These added interests will also de de- elop your personality to the point that when a vacancy occurs occurs you will willbe wille be e the one asked to fill it You must have ave faith in yourself without conceit you ou must present an appearance that thatis is s attractive your speech h must be refined as well as IS your manner Read Cultivating Personality by Wa Walsh h and nd How to u Develop Personality by Dr Sadie dle Meyers S WIENIE ROAST BOAST Dear car Miss 1155 Blair A crowd of us ha have hae e planned on ongoing going for a wienie roast in the hills We e want to have lave something very good to cat besides the wienies Will Ill you please suggest what to take ake Also which do you y think will willbe wille be e the better drink coffee or cocoa Thank bank you ou OLGA Salads sandwiches or in case of the ic wieners fat crusty rolls and I little cakes are arc always alwa's acceptable in inthe inthe the IB picnic basket Dill pickles with the ic rolls in which the are placed laced potato chips ripe tomatoes fresh fruit are never never left uneaten specially especially if have to climb hills to get ct your our appetite for the picnic meal Here is a recipe for neapolitan salad that tat is especially good on picnics Three cups shredded cabbage 3 table table- spoons chopped pimentos 12 2 tea tea- spoon oon salt mIt 14 4 teaspoon paprika 12 2 cup ip diced celery 2 2 cups diced pine pine- apple 3 2 cup thick salad dressing Chill hill all ingredients in bottle before taking on the trip You must consult the ic tas tastes of at the guests regarding the le choice of a beverage S TO PRESERVE EGGS Dear ear Miss 1 Blair A constant reader render for your column would be pleased If you yon would pub pub- lish sh directions for for- preparing the lolu lion on of water sodium glass for preserving pre serving eggs etC's for winter use This Isa is isa a subject that will vilI fit your column columnas columns as s eats are very cry near mv mu mj hearts heart's desire HEAD OF FA Your question fits nicely into our column olumn Head of Family and we weare weare were are re glad to be able to tell you to use 1 pint of water sodium glass-sodium to silicate 9 pints of boiled water that has las been cooled It is very important that hat the water be cold before adding addingto to o the water glass FOR FORMAL I S REGRETS I IDear Dear Miss Blair Pl Please ase Inform me how regrets should be bo sent lent for a wedding recep recep- tion on the invitation to which has hu been engraved ed In the third person Thank you ou ilK IL L. L Le LeThe The correct form of regrets is js written on note paper properly lined and nd spaced as it would be if it engraved and nd written in the third person perso This is s the form Mrs Katie Lamb regrets that she is unable to accept Mr and Mrs Browns Brown's invitation to the wedding reception eption of their daughter on ori Monday twenty-eighth twenty of May at eight QUOTATION Dear Miss 1 Blair Can you tell me who wrote the fol owing lowing lines The function of youth youths is Isto s to be young in fact and the tune tune- lion Ion of is b to be age ae young youn In spirit Thank you ou SEVENTY Lord son Day was the author of your quotation We hope it is possible for all Seventy twos Seventy twos to heed it NOTE TO ALDA Dear Dur Miss l Blair Kindly send a stamped self self-ad dressed envelope for our circular Removal Remo of Superfluous Hair |
