Show fi Queries addressed ea to this department should e to Kathleen KII Department S Salt lt Lak T Telegram Salt Lake City Utah Queries are ar limIted to on question each written on only one aide of thi per gaper with full name and of writer appended also name or Initials t t. t be e u used d for Identification In cOlumn All namu and addresses are Mid 15 13 strictest confidence Do not write In pencil Do not tec ask for private t reply For r special phone n Wasatch between tt U and 12 Wh When n necessary phon for th the th location of any commodity I. I tM do department Dear M Miss in Kaye Kae You are so good so 50 will wilt you please answer my one pitiful question question ques ques- tion It seems that my husband and I Iare Iare Iare are growing farther and fa farther ther apart every day His attention goes to other women Ive I've tried to be a II good wife wire but I think hes he's getting tired of me i Ive I've written several stories and photoplays and a friend told me my husband expects me to keep him That very night he told me that I would have to get work He is I. so cross and mean and says such mean things that I am surely getting dis dis- gusted Miss Kayo Kaye what would you do In my case Would you go to work or what Wishing you lots of love and success success success suc suc- cess through life lie I am BROKENHEARTED Salt Lake How many married couples t there tere ere are who would trap the elusive bluebird of ot happiness in the net of ot unity unit I And how pathetically few tew of that great number are aro both willing will ivill- ing and strong enough to pin down downto to the fundamentals of ot readjustment readjustment readjust readjust- ment un until 11 success is the award awald a I And when we o that the happiness of ot two bound in wedlock Is s but another name for unity unity- their misery another name for separation sep cep- then then Us to weep Likely it is true of or your situation Brokenhearted as ns of ot the legions of or other such that such that originally it was mere trifles trifles not not big differences differ differ- that that opened the way to this I now discordant condition that ex ex- Usually BIG problems arc are met adjustment is made and harmony harmony har bar mony reestablished But conduct that is js perpetually continuously and consistently offensive and unfair un un- un- un fair that fair that Is directed against one of ot the parties to tho the marriage contract contract contract con con- tract as a dally daily occurrence a part of ot the general home bome life lite Is beyond Human endurance and If It there thero ls Is no way 3 absolutely no way tp weed It but out and put love and harmony back jack tin on the throne and there them IS an art avenue of or escape that truly IS an tin escape then it shOuld be taken No good can be accomplished by ly bya iya a 3 man and a a. woman who cannot I endure each other and who live in I armed hostility continuing the tho marriage mar mar- marI I i relation and if It there Is iJ op opportunity up- up I to sever such a tl tie without without without with with- out injury to any concerned then I It is better to do so in a 3 clean businesslike Va way and each find new growth and usefulness unhampered by torturing I mental strain In separate walks wants or of life But once the tho marriage vows are made they the should De ne held sacred and every effort made to preserve them thern One then cannot think of ot the tho Individual need but th the joint need of or both or all conc concerned in marriage one ono can ask nothing Inthe in inthe the tho name of self but ALL in the name namo of ot the home and the union So Bo until the last bIst hope has Dean exhausted ex ex- hausted hausted until until every resource has been tried to the tho utmost one cannot cannot cannot can can- not honorably turn to dissolution as asa asa asa a solution to the tho problem and then only when a a. plan fair to all can be conceived ed and employed Have you tried the magic of love when constantly added to by more I and moro more love lo regardless of ot the tho acceptance acceptance ac ac- ac- ac I ot first Have you ou studied ways and means of ot provInS' provInS proving proving ing InS yourself human teachable sincere sincere sincere sin sin- cere earnest and tolerant Have you ou kept on keeping on when all seemed Jo lost t Are you convinced In your own mind and heart Brokenhearted Brokenhearted Brokenhearted Bro Bro- that YOU cannot RECLAIM RECLAIM RE RE- CLAIM CLAU I the husband and have him himbe bo be the man you thought him to be when you let him lead you ou to tho the altar If It there Is any possibility of or that dear then you could find no no better mission it if thero there Isn't and theres there's nothing to prevent it and anti andI antiI I take it there isn't since you speak of ot no children then have au ah amIcable amicable amicable ami amI- cable settlement and seek seele peace and happiness out of or the unlivable atmosphere you describe But nut DO DONOT DONOT DONOT NOT quarrel and Indulge in strife WHILE YOU DO REMAIN E IAIN Either go or find a a. way to adjust so that there may be bo peace arid and amiable r re ro lations Iff If In the the- natures of ot you OU and the tho husband thero there Is no chemical affinity at- at finity then unfair to you o both to remain as handicaps to each other UNLESS to release yourselves your your- our sel selves seles es would Involve ol a greater lem CISo So little lIlUe woman IL KNOW OW the truth of ot your individual problem problem lem as no other human may know it then separate the tho Important from the unimportant and make mako the decision logical And meantime do what you OU do CHEERFULLY Few men can re resist resist resist re- re a happ happy woman woman woman-tor for long Miss MilS Kaye Kay May I drop in and say hello I once more M Miss In Kayo Kao So much has been said of late lato and so 10 many questions have been sent in to your department for you to try to give advice and to solve the cause marriages- marriages of o so 60 o many unhappy please Mitt Miss Kaye give me space for fora a word or two on that subject Parents mutt must know that they were created spiritually in Gods God's Imago image and likeness and were given in in marriage marriage marriage mar mar- I in the beginning of that cr creation crea- crea a. a tion and were commanded to multiply multiply mul mul- mul- mul and raise children for the grace Drace and glory of God and it was wat uld What God h h th joined together let no man put asunder If thore there are re any spiritual advisers ut us let them come forward and among amono try to set lOt the people right In fn such tuch important and solemn solem matters matte If parents would stay away from picture shows throw throwaway way away their novels novell take up the Bible Dible and study tudy the tha spiritual side tide of life and look more to the importance of home life we would make a step In the tho right direction toward freeing the world from Its entanglements and misun misun- d ng LIEN DEN Salt Lake Praises rall S b be Ml Mister t r lien Den Had your final paragraph Included ed n. n word ord ot of warning also lo to those thole unthinking mothers who frivol fri awa away so ao man many hours ot of the day o er the bridge tables Id I'd have let It stand alone alone with with only my added S SAu Amen j jAs As Au it If is please l let t me nd am you to jit that extent wont nt you ou I of Truth and then them place lac I here alongside alon-aldo You xou 1 0 cd ed that she may p possibly draw upon your our supply Thank you ou Please call can again Dear Miss Kaye Would you please pleas be kind enough to tell me if there Is Ia Isa a place to train to be a cashier Or is that just picked up Or does it go with bookkeeping Thanking you and wishing you oodles of happiness I am DOUBT Price Cashiering can be had at our lo local local local lo- lo cal West Side High school but not separately It comes in the Ahe course I entitled Of Office rico Practise w which leh Isit is I Ithe Wi it the commercial department Also it Is to be had in some some business colleges colleges colleges col col- col- col leges in connection with the general general general gen gen- eral clerical courses but In no school is It treated as a separate course You are welcome Doubt and I thank you M Ma Petite Cherie Kathleen I do hope my letter will wiil not reach tho waste basket until it h has s been taken under consideration I have been a reader of The Telegram Telegram Telegram Tele Tele- gram for quite a number of years and of course courS I read the Heart Heart- and Ill I'll say that you are wonderful ul But there have been some articles and queries which dont don't need quite so much attention as has been given to them and the articles to which I refer are on the subject of the Doughboy Here Heres Here's my my que question tion Miss Mis Kayer I have a book completed and Im I'm under the impression that I can put it on the screen Will you kindly give me the address of Mrs Wallie Reid As ever PRIVATE EX-PRIVATE Salt Lake Ah shall wo we flatter c 0 ourselves You know what is said said most most too tritely tritely tritely-or of great minds dont don't you Well Veil Just a few tew days ago I arrived at the very same conclusion as you that that too much a attention has al already already al- al ready been given the soldier leni results lell results n not t warranting it So PrIvate ex-PrIvate for that reason Im I'm omitting your long treatise on the subject Sorry you did not respond sooner so I might have havo given give your letter a place Hope you CAN have ha your our story screened Address Mrs Irs Wallace Walla co Reid In care care of ot the tho Powers studio Hollywood Cal Dear Miss Kaye It is impossible to tell you what you mean to ue us all for it has all been said before and so much better better better bet bet- ter expressed thai tha I could express it But after all the greatest reward reward reward re re- re- re ward lies in the KNOWLEDGE that you are a source of comfort and help to those around you and surely happiness and love pervade the atmosphere of the Good Sa Sa- Sa- Sa maritan f For a long time I J have been wanting wanting want- want ing ng to take up stag stage dancing step dancing and all the tho freak embellishments embellishments embellishments embellish embellish- ments that accompany it Tho The fact that I am rather old to start puts no damper on my feelings for I Iam Iam Iam am determined to learn Could you tell me of the best lo local local local lo- lo I cal teachers for this sort of dancing dancing dane dane- ing and how I can can get in touch with them Gobs of love and good will Thank you SONNY Salt Lake Just the sweet approval In your heart would bo be sufficient to gladden gladden gladden glad glad- den Sonny could not me you ou express cx- cx press It at all But ut you DO express express ex ex- press it and It-and and nit nil so beautifully I thank you and hope you may don your roseate goggles often Most all the dancing academies sad and d dancing teachers ar are i going in in M t for r all sorts of ot steps now now Sonny f a ana aid d to choose among them in the way you ask would be quit im im- im- im possible Which is best best or or would be best for you would you depend upon which would make with you arrangements that best suit tour Jour our individual plan So I suggest that section of or you ou turn to the yellow your phone book and there under Dancing find and call the various studios schools etc and decide for tor yourself after arter a bit of ot Investigation Dear Madam Can you you Iou tell me if a song of general general general gen gen- eral circulation based on Bringing Bringing Bring ing Up Father has ever been written written written writ writ- ten Yours truly E. E G. G G L. L Salt Lake la e. e There Is such a song but it I Inot te Iii not carried in the tho local shops The title Is Never Bring Up Father Till They Close Down Dinty Moores Call Wasatch about It Also In iii the musical comedy Bringing Up Father is a song number entitled Stand Up and Sing for Your Father which might Interest you in this discus discus- sion Dear Miss Kayet Kayer My husband and I would like to adopt a Q child We want We-want want one be between between between be- be tween the age ago of one month andone andone and andone one year We are able ablo to give the a good home and education so if you could refer me to a aHome aHome aHome Home or private party I would bevery bevery be bevery very grateful Thanking you in advance I am VERY ANXIOUS Salt Lake I f Tho The Orphans' Orphans Home Home and Day Nursery Hy makes a special study of the placing of or homeless children and I would suggest that you call that number and make an appointment to discuss your whole situation In detail There are not so many opportunities to to adopt babies here here- whiCh here her which bespeaks a a. good local condition condition but but If Itin Jn In the waitIng waitIng waiting wait- wait Ing line Une at the Orphans' Orphans Home and anti Day Nursery I believe belie you'd Oud get the best possible service You are aro very welcome De Dear r Miss Kaye Kae Yc ir words of encouragement t to others have often been a help and of your sincerity and willingness wil wil- you are a regular sunbeam My troubles have been too numerous numer numer- ous and too many and I am trying so hard to fo hold out butt but some day Miss Kaye if I just feel like I do doso doso doso cannot get so often that often that I just through Im I'm going to call you up upI and come como to you and get my share of your yur wonderful understanding I an and help What I J need just now is is this My physician advises a warmer climate On account of so many people going going go go- I go-I ing to C California Californi there is is much I talk of the tho high cost of living there so so do you know of a place where things might be just a little more reasonable so that I could take my two children along and feel eel that it Would not be beyond my means If you can suggest a place thanks if not thanks anyway JUST M ME Salt Lake Ah why go all the way to California Call Cali fornia omia for tor so something we wo have of ot our very ery own right here at home Why down In our own little Dixie is climate that would almost put sunny sunny sunny sun sun- sun sun- ny California to shame Ever in investigate investigate in- in It Write to Parry Br Brothers Broth Broth- th- th ers era Cedar City Utan and anti le let them tell teU you you abo about t St. St Gedrge Ge George Its rge its first dabs class hotel where rates are not high where ro the climate is warm and sunny and snow almost un un- un- un known I l' think you'll be bo Impressed with the Information you jou garner take u iA the matter maUer I find courage and fortitude and determination in between your our lines Hoes little and I Imo strength will not f fall ll y you you that that u-that that you WILL VILL WILLbo bo ho equal t to o your problems But Dut even so so I shou should d like much to have you phone to phoneme me to have havo you come com In for a lUtle chat e t. t through which we might laugh weep and even re rebe rebel rebel re- re be bel if It we wished to our hearts' hearts content and tind have it It t. t never matter it all be because a se wed we'd understand and register never t a a thing thing pro pro or con but forget it when the tho tension was relieved and anji go So forth with a a. a now new desire to battle and win So when the spirit prompts promPt h hesitate s t t l' l not ot a minute but Jingle m my ray phone and come along up Always Always' theres there's a alot alot alot lot more sunshine stored awa away than any person suspects but sometimes its it's most awfully hard to find it ft all alone by yourself without anybody to help you so come in and to together to- to gether well we'll make th the search for you Welcome De Dear r Miss Kaye D Do You know now of anyone who wants a a |