Show r J The e Girl Who 0 Has Had Hadj j B BY Y I Y DI DIX DX X 4 A ROMANTIC RO young un millionaires who eloped w with a dol twenty week lar chauffeur nl and who is still un forgiven and for by her herrIch herrich rich parents has hOi Just gone one to hom housekeeping housekeeping house house- e- e keeping and Is reported to have bought mo most l of her household ings InSA at the five he and ten cent store More than that the sal salesgirl who waited on her opened her eyes at the thrift and economy economy- displayed by the rich girl and declared Gee I never Ia saw raw w an anybody bod gel get as much out of ot a dollar before If Ie all are that saving poor men ought to hunt em cm up for Cor wives wi And the sa salesgirl I was right Rich nich women omen v are more moro economical than poor Ioor women as a rule and It is mone money in jl a aman's amans t mans man's pocket and happiness In Nils hi home to marry marry- the girl Irl who oho has had the cakes and ale ae of oC life lite instead of oC the theone theone one who is starved for foi them Poor men arc afraid to ask rich rich- girls t t to marry marry- them A poor man sa says san ji jito 1 I to himself that his hundred hun and fifty or ur two hundred dollars a month salary 1 ld 1 loom 1 1 Ill 11 Ik 11 li d Jt 11 loom ou unu e u iL c IIII ppe dime to a girl Irl who has been In he th habit of or living Jl at the rate of thousand a a year jear ar and that she would spend 4 1 tin tiny Income on chocolate creams and i never know where It went to There There- There There-j 1 fore ore he passes her by lIy and asks some Om girl Irl who has never had a a. second frock Crock to her back hack scarce scarcely to marry him with tho the view of or getting getting- a wife who i ito has been raised to save and do without without without with with- out things and who will be a help to toa toa toa a struggling young joung man mano A t 4 d dOf Of Ot course there are exceptions to all 1 rules and occasionally occasional the woman who has hns been used to prodigal expenditure goes on her wasteful career and keeps her poor husbands husband's nose to the grino- grino 1 1 stone all of or his life Also the poor and 1 economical girl Irl may develop Into a a. wad tight-wad wife and thereby Is Is the theman's the mans man's guess at what a woman will do i justified 1 As 5 a general thin thing thing- however exactly the reverse of this happens happen If It the 1 rich girl loves the poor man well enough to marry him there Is no sacrifice sacrifice sac sac- she Is not willing to make mako for Cor him and she Is so bent and determined determined deter deter- v mined that ho he shall get et all in the i world worl and so o afraid that she will be he a ti a handicap instead of or a help to him 1 that she Mile becomes a model of industry 1 and frugality Besides which her bus hus hu husbands husband's bands band's small salary looks so 0 very er small maJ maJIn In her hel eyes that she Is ig twice as careful of or It as he Js 18 s Furthermore having ha had a surfeit of all the things that money buys she Isn't mad about havIng having haying hav hay ing them a On Or the time other hand han to the girl who has never had a dollar of or her own her husbands husband's small salary seems an unending un unending un- un ending lending supply of wealth that will stand any strain and she puts it to the test recklessly She's been denied things that sho she wanted she's hes lacked for pretty prett clothes she's craved amusements amuse amuse- amusements amuse ments and excitement and when she gets ets a chance at them she loses her head If It I were a man and wanted a wife who was guaranteed to be domestic and whom I could coull count on for 01 a quiet fireside companion I should pick out some sonic woman who had lead had hat her fill of oC society I wouldn't select a bud In her first season and then complain that that she dragged me around to dances and parties pa after aCter a hard days day's work j I 1 should select elect the maiden who had J been out more seasons than she sho liked jJ ed I 1 to count and to whom a ball had come cometo e to looke like an aggregation of or idiots t jumping about to a tune and who wh could not even contemplate a pink tea without being nauseated I should the woman who had had so society society so- so of the woman who had to have ha It It t and thereby thereby- should I beable beable be beable able to spend my evenings In ease And if ir I T wanted a n faithful and devoted devoted de de- e- e voted wife wIre and one that I woul wouldn't nt have to keep an eye ep upon I should should- choose the girl who had been a belle who t had had many many- men pay her corn com com 1 and make love to her and who could have married a half hal a a. a dozen times if ie she had been so o minded I 1 Iam am aware vare that this view of oC the subject sub subject will not meet with the approval of or men er E Every man likes to feel that 0 he Is the tho first and onh only which ex ex- plains In part why so so runny many married women find affinities and divorce li is liso is 11 so common It is a curious phase of human character that we put little value on the things we Wl have always had and much on the things wo we have never nver i had and this is Ig what makes maks it safer to to marry marry- the girl ir who has had the fatness fatness fatness fat fat- ness of the land Instead of oC the one who wants the earth I |