Show CAPEL ON MARRIAGE Sound Advice Given to the Youth of Both Sexes St Josephs Hall on Tenth street was crowded last evening on the occasion of the lecture of Monsignor Capel on the subject of tt Marriage and Divorce Many of the clergy occupied the stage I Monsignor Capel at once plunged into the spirit of his subject and in his usual I I concise argumentative and pleasing man1 I ner stated his ideas i and doctrines first on j the subject of marriage He sharply criticised the general neglect of parents I in raising and caring for their children and strongly impressed upon parents i j what their duties were towards their offspring off-spring They had not children given them by God to run at large and learn all sorts of wickedness and worthlessness i but to be cared for and brought up to become j be-come fit young men and women to marry and make worthy husbands and wives He would give the same counsel and advice j ad-vice to the youth of both sexes that they I should receive from their parents and guardians He would rather have a girl enter society with proper manners than beauty Beauty is a fading thing What the girl will be at seventeen she will not be at fifty in face and form If you i I young man can have beauty and manners too all right but you want more than beauty You want a girl who can show obedience to parents modesty and cleanliness i clean-liness of mind and person Thats the i treasure for a young husband To the girl he would say that theres i too much seaside novel in the spirit of their lives a longing for some impossible hero It is not poetical to cook potatoes but life is made up of realities and if their ideal is what he should be he must stand the test of trials Ask his friends I and companions about him what they I think of him and be guided to some extent ex-tent by what they say Dont cheat yourself he is to be your lord and master j I although you will be his companion i > For goodness sake dont take a dude said Monsignor Capel with energy but marry a manno matter how rough his hands may be get a man not a worthless i fop A woman should look up to her j i husband as a model Dont try to reform f a drunkard or debauchee But you must have proper religion to guide you both Try and marry those of the same culture age and religion j all is not a bed of roses Keep your temper and make home agreeable and your bus i band will not go to the club for reltef and amusement Its a cruel thing that < parents dont teach these things Young people should know all this before marriage mar-riage Instruction is needed and it is the I parents duty to give it Dont marry I until your character is fully formed U |