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Show PHtinrtrig ynmqrvij 8A DESERET NEWS, Thursday, October 5, 1969 Winners Sometimes Lose Tmmnrryou AND YOUR HOME TmnrmrinnnnrmTmrm By HENRIETTE lir,--- , .V hh ''( j w ' Site was telling about a situation with a married daughter in which she had taken an adamant and, to my mind, unnecessarily arbitrary stand. Yes, she had won her point, but Im afraid she lost the battli. There are bound to be repercussions to come. JUr ; A I'.w r : tt. Af-ir- S3$5 iAM -- fill He couldnt Sjj2ai ' r otherwise compatible sisters in their late 20s are not completely out of touch. Each said flatly that she wouldnt write until the other Holding out fo victory for every pet wish or theory is fine, if you think it's worth it to you. But to win too many minor skirmishes may lead o losing some major battles. Headboard Firm or Extra Firm MATTRESS CITY Cottonwood tairs 278-523- 7 E3S8B "She won every point, the other woman told a friend after they got home. But she lost the chance of my going with her next time, although she has already approached so she she also failed to true that she was left out. didnt Two did. Obviously, neither win unless one loses. A LOSER HIS COMMENT a generation. It can and by middle life become obsessive. start early, Two widows in their late 50s took a vacation together. One had to give in throughout the trip, because the other was so definite about what she would or would not do. final defeat. "v-- the I won out over the top brass, he told me. I really scored. He did, for six months. Then they put a man over him who would make the changes they felt necessary. In my own circle I have seen instances where failure to give in on some issue has meant A woman wouldnt go to a grandchilds graduation unless her son came personally to get her. Im his mother, and he should, she said. &f t .j? With plywood, fabric you - A NEW YORK (WNS) woman ended a long letter to me with the So you can see I comment, won my point. s-- rpS I always stick to my a man once bragged. guns, No one makes me change my He stuck to his guns mind. when his company wanted him to institute new procedures that in no way inconvenienced him or threatened his job. KISH Gararantee Mattress Box Spring Frame 15-Ye- ar : v.TKV ''3SrSr KING SPECIAL come, me. Its true that give in, but its go. The temptation to issue ultimatums isnt confined only to v can redecorate your bedroom. Fine Decor Idea follows thp same curves as the valance above it. Matching fabric and wallpaper will simplify the construction, but the new glues make it possible to use fabric as if it were paper on ceiling, valance and Bv BARBARA BARNES Hows this for a bedroom In a bower? The trick is the use of plywood and jigsaw. Notice that the headboard of the bed la. 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