Show THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE Sunday March 6 1949 14 You're suffering from Elinor causes buried deep in our way of living You have what every human heart in the world wants —enough food first than shelter then clothes companionAnd to ship leisure beauty find that it isn't enough is the shock that is upsetting the lives of hundreds of women like you If Paul came home badly wounded to be an invald for life you would rise to the crisis almost with buoyancy Caring for him reassuring him somehow making money somehow afloat keeping your affairs would make a new women of you Paul too if he were called to help in some calamity would pull off his coat: take command of younger workers live to the very utmost of his capacity and glory in it BOREDOM VANISHES j 14! ServingOthers-Bring- ' wff Joy s 1 By KATHLEEN NORRIll "Our marriage hai become Elinor Price "But we from Minneapolis don't want a divorce We both love our home and our adopted daughter Georgette who is 8 I dread the scandal of a divorce and the shock to our child Paul has none of the usual faults that lead to separation And I don't think I have But we've reached a point of such boredom in our 12 years of marriage that we a farce" writes ometimet can be civil hardly to each other "This eight-roo- uto will be wed to Richard L Butler aunt and uncle home of the benedict-elect- 's Kish Miss Alexandra March at the 15 suburban home was his mother's It has every convenience —w a s h e r dryer furnace lovely garden Paul works in a bank belongs to a good club is admired and popular Georgette is a little dream of beauty and goodness With help three times a week I can keep my home as neat as wax "We breakfast at 8 Paul says quietly that isn't his idea Of supper I say that if they'll 'wait I'll cook a regular meal But I will have to change my clothes etc He says that Isn't He'll go out his idea either for something Do we want to owed—and advised me to be like her I've been to a psychologist who worked it out that I'd never loved Paul really and charged me 00 for five quarter hours Real Suffering "Don't think I'm stupid or It's really serious spoiled We both want to the the busy' happy contended people we see about us We've loot the key Paul make s' pathetic 'ef forts I make feeble efforts too :He brings me home a few flowers or I say brightly at dinner 'Your favorite cake Paul' It all seems to drop flat How can I put life into my marriage? When we first were married we were very happy we aren't Isn't really unhappy now there a cure for this?" You're not stupid or spoiled go downtown? "Well" the letter runs on "either we do or we don't and either way Its a failure We get a slow waiter Georgette gets sleepy the food is expensive and poor Nobody's happy- "Do you see what I mean? No stimulation no companionship between us any niore We are still husband andwife There are no triangles But for the last year this dim monotonous sort of existence has begun to get on my nerves I've been to my clergyman who spent an hour praising hie young third wife—he bee been twire wid -- newspapers and radios stopped battle bulthose letins how our heroism faded! The cure of your case Elinor the secret of brimming soulaatisfying life is contained in those old words that made so may millions of outwardly dull obscure lives so bright with heart-ahakin- dancing light Seek and you will find But specifically in your case because I think it would be just the tonic you need I am going to recommend to you a cure that worked a miracle for me years ago Adopt a family— without their knowing It Ask your organized charities for the name of some unfortunate lonely young women with two or three babies They'll supply material aid you do the rest Go every day for five or six hours You'll Make her bed find miracles all the way along things to talk to Paul about things for which to thank God You'll find the truth hidden in the poem that says the holy supper is kept indeed in what we share with another's need Try it Those Old Words of us an live on those heights of birth war bitter universal need When the war excitement died away In England England's real When our problems began But g none I leaves half the paper touches his cheek to the back of my head Is gone Georgette gets her milk nickle and lunchbox and Then allence—slience goes go to market and look at beaver coats in windows evening frocks In windows pictures of ouccesaful movie stars no older than A: '°ggclr Feeble Efforts "That night Paul sits by his radio and reads his paper Georgette has her supper and does her homework in bed as we have to watch her chest in our cold I get dinner speak winters to Paul Ile puts his paper down answers "Sundays we talk vaguely of a picnic or a walk go to a f Styled to perfection design woods movie think we will drop in at the Wilsons decide not to come home I open the Ice box tell them what's there What does anybody want? Paul iicate dining furnish your furniture Spring Brings Promise of Wedding Plans oe44 Mart Chrystine Murphy whose betrothal to Matthew G talkie Is announced by her plumb' To be ntarriNI In June ceremony f Busy making plans for a late spring wedding is Miss Ruth TenHoeve who will become the bride of Spencer B Daniels Jr in double-rin- g rites to be Rol- emnized June 2 in Salt Lake L D S temple The bride-elea daughter of Mr and Mrs Jan TenHoeve 1828 Claybourne ave formerly of North Bergen N J has chosen Miss Ramona Syrups to attend her as maid of honor Bridesmaids will be her aister Miss June TenHoeve Miss Diann Dimick and sister of the Miss prospective bridegroom Joyce Daniel& Dwayne Daniels will serve as best man for him brother a on of Mr and Mrs Spencer B Daniels 1814 Lake at Ushers will be Bruce Lindow Harold Cropper and Raymond TenHoeve brother of the t After a honeymoon trip to California the couple plans to make a home in Salt Lake City room with of excellent Suite 9Xleee con always the speck good old consequently we past should also be able to spealkof a better future of gold style Mime Ruth Te111101V0 mill exchange nuptial arms In nedding rites to be solemnized - ' a tSlt with Spencer R In early June BABY 'PALK 4 will daughter of Mr and Mrs The S 2uattly i That - Counts 61 ''' 4 I 4 b'' '4 T 1! 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A Lewis and J Clinton Smith on of Mr and Mrs Grent E Smith both of Beaver The wedding WA solemnized Feb It at the home of the bride where the ceremony was performed by Arlo P Messinger Mine Bonnie Robinson and Miss Betty White were bridenmaidn and Howard Hutchings Wait best II) en The bride wore a pearl luster Win wedding gown with a long train Her finger-Uveil edged In lace fell from a double lace crown trimmed with pearl orange blossoms Her bouquet was red roses and gardenias the ceremony Following I wedthng luncheon honored the couple Later In the evening a wedhonored ding the reception young couple In the First-ThirL S ward The couple will make a home at Cedar City also gotten the glory he had once received 45950 L or - I Wear your family heir -- --- p 314-7t- t fiery - East Small South Temple and State It Lag la Gaits 4 Oak-for- 627-Pt- Wed 9)17idad ji 117 1111 Mrs H Boas Brown made- a delightful acquaintance with the d distinguiehed Fred Warren III her new grandson in Cal The we Long Beach bairn Is a on of Mr and Mn It V Oakford (Janet Brown) Born aome three weeks ago Mrs Brown returned Sunday Keen Queen At least ten talents hits elle the roniarhable Miss Kathryn Ann Wadaworth born Feb 21 in the Holy Cross hospital She II a daughter of Mr and Mn 1305-9tMilton E Wadaworth Ent Grandparents are Mr and Mrs L ft Bailey 3507 13th s East and the Thomas G Watts-worth- : Chrystine Murphy but diamond its owner Suite 11110 Chrystine Murphy Miss en- gagement wedding and dinner rings their original stones now reset in modern mountings or added with other stones keeping the sentiment of the orig- In Alexandra Klaich Daniels Jr of mountings medal was won Mid-Marc- h I sorting through the we' find many old In bride-elec- nuptials are being planned by Miss Alexandra Rialch daughter of Mr and Mrs Andrew John Klaich of McGill Nev and Richard L Butler nephew of Mr and Mrs Charles M Oldham 150 W Angelo ave Wedding rites will be performed March 15 at the home of the benedict-elect'- s uncle and aunt Mr and Mrs Stanley Oldham 1124 Ramona ave Attending Miss Klaich as matron of honor will be Mrs Lynn B Inkley Best man will be Mr Inkley we eration years ago returned for its gold value 32950 B41ieee its many problems the times we call the good old days No matter what the gen- lust value'tomorrowl Dinwoodey and days past ding ring of traditional this The In life styled ltingly choice See 1 melt many memories of Salt lake's past will it Here charming pieces these 4 day the up keeping owners' increased position v‘ carefully made of the most carved to detail we sent away a shipment of old gold to be melted With with 18th Century in true selected beautifully QOM The other inal Ike ipod sturdily 4 o'clock ep 7 OLD 60 1 :Ai 4! - t i i 0- :c i t - ''- tionor 401111110- -'-' v :frf---- "------"0 ' 01 - -- - - N I 1 - - -- - - ' Pf in styles that give you untold pleasure Nature has yet to create a more beautiful and last-I- n ' i ti - IMM'' r ' 0- loomi '4 - - ' ' 00o0' ' e '''' '' d'''''''''' product than the : ''' red from the gems that earth corn : !: 01 Reynoldri born to parents Mr and Mn Arthur J Reynolds 21711 King et Feb 20 in the L DS hospital Brothers Itobort James Fent and ouster Jacquelyn would campaign for him Anytime '-- A A ii ' 7 r !1if !AVM -r 1"01 I CLVgtkk SA "lux Aix kb trrt - - |