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Show BE The Salt Lake Tribune Friday, February 18, 198:1 wStCi Landers: Leave that house fast Dear Ann Landers: 1 have a problem that is driving me crazy. Suicide looks better every day. I am a girl r,,, frQin a large family. Most of the kjds are out of the house. I wish I was, but I can't break loose. Its my father. He no longer loves my mother and has timed to me for Consolation. I tried my best to obmfort him and succeeded all too $ell. I didnt realize what was happening and now I feel trapped. My mother has known about this lousy situation from the beginning and she hates me. I dont blame her. But she holds me responsible for evnever a word of critierything cism against my father. This cannot be termed child abuse because noth-ih- g sexual happened until I was 21, is not a child. ?nd a To complicate matters, I have fret a young guy I am crazy about ind he is very much in love with me. i have told my father he must stop depending on me and that 1 want to ijiake a life for myself. He cries, sobs and begs me to break up with this person insisting that my first loyalty is to him and maintaining he cannot live without me. He says if I dont choose him over the other man sdon, he never wants to see me again. I am torn and miserable. I love my father very much, but I cannot giye up my sweetheart. Please show me the way out of this horrible mess. Gilda In N.C. 'Dear Gilda: Get out of that house a'tonce, even if it means moving into a broom closet over a bowling alley. It, your father writes you out of his life, youll survive. ,You need counseling to help you ttirough this traumatic time. Look in Mental the phone book under Health, or your physician may be able to suggest a good psychologist. I cannot Impress on you strongly enough the importance of packing your bags and getting out immediately. No farewells. Just leave a note and go! Dear Ann Landers: During the holidays, I had two large dinners in my home. I have a relative who lives alone. (Ill call him Uncle Tim.) After both dinners, he went into my kitchen, found plastic bags and took home all the leftovers. He didn't leave enough to pul in a muuse trap. The man is far from a pauper. Meanwhile, 1 was counting on those leftovers for another meal for our family. g How do we cure this of short excluding tightwad, Still Fuming In February him? g&b IPOZ&liiHHJ "Please dont take the leftovers this year. They are tomorrows supper. I don't want to cook him penny-pinchin- flat-ou- n-nu- t, Hew Baldwin again. - Piano Save $800.00 Whatif right? Plonmng a wedding? What's wrong? Ann Lnnders' completely new The Brides Guide will relieve your anxiety. To receivo a copy, send a dollar, stomped enveplus a long, lope (17 cents postage) lo Ann Landers, P.O. III. Box 11995, Chicago, mil. Dear Feb: Watch the vulture. The minute he heads for the kitchen say, No guests allowed in here, Unc. If he slips by your watchful eye, tell Presidents Day Sale! 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Waikiki Hotel Sat: 9 AM to 1 PM 467-270- 1 Center plans cabaret I Reservations are being taken for Centers Park City tjie Kimball Art Cabaret 83 (or the Silver Queen $trikes Again) Friday and Saturday. event is a major fund-raisjr the center. ;tA social hour at 7 p.m. precedes er cabaret at 8 p.m. ('The production is based on the the ich past of Park City mining town turned ski resort. The book, Diggings and Doings in Park City," Uy Raye Ringholz, provides the background for the show. Wanda Belli is the producer. Ed Perez is choreographer. Both are ffom Coronodo, Calif. Park City residents will act and dance in numbers e miners, women fpatjuring of T 'questionable repute. Tommy-knockerChinese laborers and a sjvihdler or two. old-tim- s, iGinny Pinder is general phpirhian. $12.50 for members Reserva-iiohs.ar- e for Kimball the at taken being Art Center. .'.Tickets are 3ahd $15 75TH BIRTHDAY CLAIR ORROCK J.and of J. Clair wife. Orrock The children LaVeen, are pleased to announce an Open House in honor of his 75th Birthday, with love to him and tribute to his 75 years which we have ail benefited by in many ways- We would be pleased for family and friends fo call at the home of Beverly Tadehara (daughter), between the hours of 12 noon and 3 p.m. at 926 Greenwood Drive, Sandy, Utah, on Saturday, February 19, 1983. AL and HARRIETTE SMITH 70ftl ANNIVERSARY The Smith children and grandchildren of Herrietle ,nd will honor them at e dinner at Andy's 70th wedding anniversary. Smoroesboard on their Diamond and setting GOLDEN WEDDING EVAN & MILDRED JOHNSON Evan & Mildred Johnson witl be honored Open House for their 50th Arvtiversary at Mam, Manti, 19. 1983. 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