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Show The opinions of Dr. Joyce Brothers are probably more widely received by the public than those of any other psychologist. Her views on a variety of subjects are syndicated nationwide in newspapers, on radio, and on TV. By Dr. Joyce Brothers especially for Family Weekly once inspired by more material considerations. tize his troubles with members of a group. Psychodramais new in psycho- them the message that free-choice logical therapy, but it is as old as marriage based on shared love is such a potentially satisfying arrangement christenings, weddings and wakes in daily life. Despite our new understanding of the psychological importance of weddings, they have come increasingly under attack as unnecessary and un- necessarily expensive “shows” which get more elaborate as divorce grows more prevalent. The revolt against weddings, and even marriage, has been much publicized. Still 90 percent of the population marries, and 90 percent of those who are divorced remarry. Eighty percent of those who marry for the first time choose a religious ceremony. And amongthese, as has been shown by research, divorces are less frequent than they are among those who elope. Sociologist David R. Mace believes that the U.S. has the world’s highest divorce rate because it “has traveled further into the 20th century.” Mar- riage casualties have been high because theinstitution has not yet found the kind of adaptability and flexibility it needs for survival. In cultures where social, parental and economic obligations are still the primary goals of marriage, the divorce rate is considerably lower. But these obligations are no longer enough to hold American marriages together. American couples want personal happiness in close, There are conditions which can Dr. Renatus Hartogs, for example, $1200 Ty ae finds the age of the couple, their long acquaintance and similar family backgrounds can all be favorable factors. 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