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Show Page HERALD, Provo, Utah, Wednesday, September 2, 18-- THE 1981 Ann Landers Republican Women's Confab Her Figure Attracts Rude Remarks overweight as it is." I hope you will print this letter for all people who don't realize it is impolite to comment on how much (or nttTe) others eat. I hope you will print this letter so my relatives will see themselves and shut A Light Eater In Lexington potatoes, buttered sweet corn, biscuits, up. Dear Light Eater: Here's your letter ham and gravy ad infinitum. for ail people who don't realize it is I'm 23 years old, in good health and have a nice figure on the slim side. I impolite to comment on how much (or have never made it a point to gorge little) others eat. In the case of your relatives, it could myself at reunions, banquets or buffets with a little envy thrown in. simply because the food is free. I'm not be guilt a heavy eater, but I am not suffering Remember the good Lord gave you two ears go remarks like those can from anorexia nervosa either. jo in Whenever I'm around my family I one and out the other. hear critcal remarks about how little I Dear Ann Landers: As an educator eat how thin I am and how I must trying to follow Ann Landers' advice, I starve to keep my figure. Am I wrong have tried to be mother, father nutrito consider such remarks rude? I would tion expert, religious leader, psynever dare say, "Why, Aunt Maude! chologist, friend, listener and educator Why are you eating so much? You're of manners, etiquette and personal Dear Ann Landers: Yesterday I went to another family reunion and saw the usual pack of overweight relatives stuffing their faces. I put three of four Hems on my plate, while all around The aunts, uncles and cousins were piling on the fried chicken, mashed hygiene. With 25 children and a day packed with state minimum ecucational standards I find myself falling short of your ideal. I have a great deal of difficulty understanding why parents complain about the education their children are receiving, yet they are unwilling to support their schools by voting tor an operating levy. and or eat. Last year our teachers went out on strike and received a 2.9 percent raise ($300). while the cost of living increased by over 14 percent. It is a sad state of affairs when professionals have to "hit the street" for a raise. Do you realize how many teachers need to moonlight? What does this do to their effectiveness in the classroom? Up To Here I realue that everyone is feeling the Dear Up to Here: Lawmakers at financial pinch and the burden of school every level are constantly inflicting on the new taxes funding should not lay solely sales taxes, inccme taxes, public. utility taxes, gas taxes, etc. Yet public It has become a financial impos- schools are largely dependent on sibility for some competent teachers to property taxes subject to referendum remain in this profession and for others and vulnerable to veto by citizens fed to enter it. In the state of Ohio the up with taxes beyond their control. minimum salary for begjnning Schools will remain the scapegoat until teachers is $10,100. Teachers realize we elect politicians with i!.e ingenuity they are not going to be independently and courage to change an archaic wealthy, but we also like to own houses system. six-ho- ur - Set in Denver WASHINGTON. DC-Je- Nielson, an Provo, has been chosen to represent the Utah Federation of Republican Women as its Junior Page at the National Federation of Republican Women's 21st Biennial Convention in Denver, Sept. She is the daughter of Mrs. Howard Nielson who will also be attending the Denver conference. The NFRW Convention will be the 17-1- Weddings P Fehlberg Whetten LuAnn Rosana Fehlberg, David L. Whetten, son of Mr. and Mrs. H. Leon Moccasin, Whetten, ry jC :jp wedding breakfast followed the wedding. A garden reception will honor the couple this evening from 7 to 9 p.m. at the Lamar Mortensen home, 179 N. 600 W., Orem. Elise West will be the matron of honor. Sisters of the bride, Cory, Julie, Katherine and Kristin A Boschetti, bridesmaids. Prenuptial parties were given by Elise West and Yvonna Mortensen; and by Sheila Van Ausdal, Merlene Sabin and Eloise Sabin. MR. AND MRS. DAVID L. WHETTEN The bride graduated from Orem High School and LDS Seminary. She attended BYU majoring in piano performance. She was a piano soloist with the Utah Valley Single ... Holiday Advertising Deadlines 'vaT WANT AD DEADLINES Gwin H f Ads Ads Ads Sherrie Hensen, Rachel Fullmer, Maralee Fullmer, Julie Bahr and Kim Bahr. Rachel and Lisa Bahr will be flower girls. Bert Bendere will be the best man with Martin Fehlberg, will be GARY DAVID SCHROEDER LUANN FULLMER Birkedahl ushering. Special guests will be tion major and served an the bride's grandmother, Symphony. The bride-eleis a form John F. Kennedy The bridegroom LDS mission in the Dolly Smith; and gran- graduate of Springville High School and LDS graduated from Antelope Louisiana, Baton Rouge dmother of the High School, LDS Seminary. He served an Union High School in Mission. Marian "Seminary and Utah LDS mission to Australia bridegroom, Arizona. He attended The couple will live in Fernley. Technical College where and graduated from UTC. BYU as a music composi Mesa, Ariz. Prenuptial parties she received a degree in He is employed in Salt were given by Diana nursing. She is employed Lake City. File Boschetti, Jessi Branden- at Mountain View The couple will live in burg and Eleanor Hospital in Payson. and by Kim Bahr. Her fiance graduated Springville. ct Second Wife Can Be First With Husband. . By SUSAN DIETZ Dear Susan: Perhaps the young woman in trouble because of her husband's child support payments could work out an arrangement whereby she would work and match the amount he gives to them in a joint account. The two of them would agree to live only from that account. The overage could be put into her own personal account to be spent on her education, or personal needs that do not come under the definition of "joint." Such a policy would be changed later as the relationship develops and of course he does not have to work for child support for the rest of his life, because such payments end with the majority of the children or completion of their higher education. Separation of funds by use might set limits on the man and spur him to successful earnings so that all could benefit he would feel successful, the second wife would feel useful and successful, and the children would feel supported and cared for. Otherwise the man is on a downhill path to a second divorce and everyone r. . connected with him will lose whereas he could be helped to make an uphill but fruitful path. Everyone connected with him would win. Elisabeth F.G., Detroit, Mich. Dear Elisabeth: The idea sounds workable. But only by intelligent people who are willing to bend and share the load. The second wife is in a unique position of being a helpmate first and foremost. Above everything else, she must be able to understand and accept her husband's financial obligations. She is &ble to feel involved and useful to a high degree, a dimension that can add to the solidity of her relationship with her husband. Second wives can come in to Ads to Ads to ads to Ads to Ads (Rosana Fehlberh) Gib-bin- to start SUNDAY, 6th, will be accepted until Friday 4th at 9 a.m. to start MONDAY - 7th - will be accepted until Friday 4th at 11 a m. to start TUESDAY Sth will be accepted until Saturday - 5th - at 10 a.m. DISPLAY David and O It's time tc stock up with good things to eat and all the things you'll need for camping, boating and outdoor fun of all kinds. Shop your favorite Central Utah stores and remember our Bar-"sto- Ariz., in a ceremony performed today in the Salt e-' Lake LDS Templ- mm ATV7 HOLIDAY IS NEXT WEEKEND Fullmer, daughter of Col, and Mrs. Lester M. Bahr, La Vegas, Nev., will wed Gary David Schroeder, son of Mr. and Mrs. David Schroeder, Calif., on Fridav in the Salt Lake LDS Temple. A luncheon at the home of the bride's uncle and aunt, Mr. and Mrs. Leon Bjarnson, will follow. A reception at 840 S. 400 E., Springville, will honor the couple that evening. An open house in Barstow will be on Sept. 11. Bridal attendants will be Jill Sanderson, Diana daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Vernon Fehlberg, Orem, became the bride of well-know- LMAJU Fullmer, Schroeder Vows - i largest national gathering of Republicans in 1981 with about 2,000 delegates, GOP leaders and elected officials attending. President Ronald Reagan will address a special afternoon session and Vice President George Bush will be the keynote speaker at the Friday evening banquet. "We are meeting to plan campaign strategy for the 1982 elections. A special emphasis at the convention will be placed on recruiting and training n women candidates. Several Senator political figures including Nancy Kassebaum of Kansas, Congres-swoma- n Marjorie Holt of Maryland and Carol Hallett, minority leader of the California Assembly will be giving us the benefit of their experiences," stated Betty Rendel, NFRW President. run in run S COMMERCIAL TV MONDAY will be - 7th will be MONDAY run TUESDAY run WEDNESDAY run THURSDAY CLASSIFIED accepted until Wednesday - 2nd at 12 noon accepted until Thursday 3rd at 12 noon 8th will be accepted until Thursday 3rd at 4 p.m. - 9th will be accepted until Friday - 4th - at 12 noon 10th will be accepted until Friday 4th at 4 p.m. -- OUR BUSINESS OFFICE WILL BE CLOSED ON MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 7th FOR LABOR DAY s; ABWA Woman of Year Named American Business Women's Association manager of Agency held its annual summer meeting at the home of fcyivia tarter, with a potluck dinner served in the garden to 130 she has held for 12 years. for the Utah Liquor She is married to Leon Control Commission, Christmas, and they are Spanish Fork, a position parents of three children. 1555 North 200 West, Provo Phone 0 for additional deadline information 373-505- 21 members. 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