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Show Friday, November HILLTOP TIMES Page 18 19, 1982 - n mi -- because they have been drinking; or the supervisor .who allows poor performance to go unmentioned because the employee might have a problem that the supervisor is afraid to deal with. non-blamin- g. al non-judgment- ing the harmful and natural conseThe "enabler" thinks that if he or quences of his. or her behavior. she makes things easier, for the It also occurs when the significant substance abuser they will change. person withholds reality from the This in fact increases the feelings of substance abuser by screening out im- guilt of the substance abuser and the portant feedback that person needs to addictive behavior also increases. break the denial system. "Enablers" can become so involved If reality is withheld, the substance the progression of the disease that in abuser does not realize how his or her behavior is affecting the job, loved they in fact becomeof the same emomuch " ones and friends. . abuser. as substance the tional pain For example, the wife who calls in The "enabler" can experience the to work saying her husband is ill, same degenerative life style as the ' when in fact he is still drunk from the abuser. The Social Actions Office can provide information on enabling behaviors of families, professionals, supervisors and other areas of interest. Call Ext. 63407 or 63516 if you are concerned about how you might be enabling someone else's substance abuse. . ng . (gyro ) The best gift a friend, loved one or supervisor can give a substance ' abuser is honest, caring feedback that and is The abuser needs to feel the full pain, distress or pressure of his or her behavior. Emotional pain helps to break the denial system. By enabling the substance abuser, the significant other only adds to progression of the disease and can be doing himself or herself emotional damage. night before. Or the supervisor who allows his employees to come in late By Catherine Orton Social Actions Office "Enabling" in terms of substance abuse, has a negative meaning. Basically, it occurs when a significant individual in the abuser's life prevents the abuser from experienc- no em ; Helpful tofts J V PLww )h I l POSTAL EMPLOYEES PER PA K PERIOD ft SUPER MOBILE HOME $22,000 Own fenced lot, 2 bedrooms, 1 1A bath, many, many ex1 2022. R-- 1 536 2 tras, near Hill AFB. Pete, IJIAIIj HAITDLERS BEHEITT PIiAIT! ir semi-privat- , ir ir ir ' Maximum benefit of $ 725 per year , for individuals - $ 1 ,450 per year for families. 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