Show ARE YOU OR IS YOUR WIFE TO BLAME Why Vh do parents allow their girls to marry marr aa as tI Ignorant as a baby of oC all that It takes to matte make a happy comfortable and prosperous pro porous home homo and trust to luck Instead of ot teaching to give them thom In Inspiration inspiration to deal with a situation that requires tho the skill of oC a u chef che the shrewd financing of a stock broker and the ilia diplomacy of oC an ambassador Now every man hart who marries a wom went woman woman an and spends tho the balance of oC his life liCe working to support her has a right to expect a comfortable home homelIe homelie lIe He has hns a right to demand domand that elm sh shall bo be a u pleasant companion a semi sen sensible sible administrator of oC his finances and anda a good housekeeper There Thoro Is not ono of or these th e counts on which any muty UI woman of oC average overage Intelli Intelligence gence Jonce and bodily bod II health cannot make inako good If It she will and a man mm Is Just as w weak and foolish If he lets his ails wife de do default fault on her part of the marriage con contract contract tract as 1111 ho Is Ui It if ho lots his business partner throw all the Ue work on him and un absorb all wi the profits and perquisites of the firm or If It he lets his Ids slight their Jobs Nor need he be tyrannical and die dis disagreeable ls agreeable about It Ho lIo need only ani use IIse a little tact and and make mak his wife understand from the beginning of oC their honeymoon that he lie expects or er tain things of oC her as a matter of oC course Hero Horn and there a n man roan has have the tho Ill luck luel to espouse a shrew or an who w ho Is III amenable neither to kindness nor logic but for the most part brides are aio deeply In love with their husbands honestly anxious to make thom them happy happ and to plea o them thorn and It is IN a mans own fault tault If IC ho lie does doe not mold this pliant and plastic material to his hia hi owe liking It Is a mans own fault for Cor In Instance Instance stance If his wife Is not nol a n companion to him To begin with ho selected hor her horand herand and If It ho choso chose a doll whoso head was stuffed with sawdust Instead of OC brains brill 11 1 It wa Willi was his own doing If however he ho picked out a fairly intelligent woman 5 i It Ii Is la his place to develop her testes tastes In all tho the matters In ht which he ho Is In ln Interested Nor NOI Is this thle hard to do Every ger woman Is flattered by b a man talking to her hel as ilI asIf asIf If the she evas as 11 his equal awl and confiding his hopes and amI plans plates and ambitions to 10 her herIt herIl herIt It Il Is because men leave leae their thell wives so completely out of or their real Interests In life liCe that so 10 tome few women are aio com companions companIons companions to their husbands Tho rho only subject that tho average couple have in common arc their chil children hll dren and monthly bills hills Hence tho the dullness s of oC married life liCe It Il is also true truo that It Is 1 Q mans fault faull If IC his hi wife Is extravagant and understand the tho value alue of or money mone Often Orten a girl never neer has any an money lunacy mone bc be b boro fore foro oro she sho Is III married Everything she sho has had has been given Ien to Lo her and she Is absolutely Ignorant of tho rho pur purchasing purchasing chasing chasin power of at a dollar The rho first money she ever handles Is Isher Isher isher her husbands salary salar and It Is his business to teach her how to get the th most moIl out of or It H how to save and why wIn it Is wisdom for or a young couple to lay up some soma something thing for a 11 rainy day da or to be bo ready rend to take advantage of ot some opportunity that may ma como come to the man Women omen arc are nearly nearl all good financiers when they thoy have tho the chance and It Is nothing short of stupidity that makes men fall to take advantage of ot this talent that Is rusting out at their own firesides As for a woman being a good huso keeper a man has inas simply tho the right to demand that of his ling write wife und nail tho thu first time a bride sets sell her hor husband down to a meal that would be bo a menace menaco to the stomach of an ostrich he ho ought alight If he values alues his hili future health and happiness r to tu protest so 80 strongly that lint she Rhe will never noor dare daro do doIt doIt doit It again In these days of cookery books bool s there thelo is no excuse for anybody who can read not learning the lice art of ot preparing food load properly proper If she would learn to keep house properly if IC she sho enough love for her husband to make mal o her want to render some return for or all he does for her and If It she is too slothful and lazy laZ to do her hor duty dut the man Is per perfectly perfectly Justified In complaining and complaining strongly A little tact a little firmness a lit little tIe tle playing on an womans vanity which Is n a harp with a u thousand thou and strings a little appeal aLp apps l to tho the heart Its per pcr easy cas to manage mana e a rite and nd stupid In is the lie man mall who tho the wit witto witto witto to do o It a k |