| Show GIRLS OPPOSE IDEA o ALL FALL IN SAME CA CATEGORICAL T UNIT Law Nobody Offers Courtesy to Newcomer t J of t in Office Duty of Hostess I to Seat Guests When Place Cards Not Used 1 By BETTY BLAIR The sexes have never understood each other and probably probably ably never shall They indict each cach other in wholesale man man- iier er they misinterpret motives they they- fall faU even in agreement to disagree We wonder if after all it isn't because they are more nUke alike than either suspects rather than as different as each cach supposes that this misu misunderstanding exists Dear Mw Blair Id I'd like to express s my s stor for tor the opposite sex in answer to Mad Hatter Hatler letter After looking In vain ain for lor a fellow with higher ideals I had come to the conclusion that it if there were any such they must be In a museum Here is the way I have them summed up If H you dont don't neck youre you're a wet blanket and it if you do they soon oon become tired of f you While they're young they seek the company of the modern mIss but when they bebin begin be- be gin bin to think of marriage they want an old fashioned girl So Miss Blair we must eIther lit fit at home and twiddle our thumbs or go out md and be cheep with the rest or of the crowd There are really a few old drIs left lell girls who would rather rath rath- er cr have a quiet chat at home that than carouse around till the wee hours in a roadhouse letter Mad Hatter your gives Us is girls who twiddle our thumbs a ray or of hope I salute you ou RESPECTABLE As we suspected we are deluged with and approvals als of it Mad Hatters the letter letter that offers or of fers wholesale accusation against the modern miss as liking best to have her Romeo park her under a spreadIng spreading spread spread- ing chestnut tree or carouse with her In a roadhouse The following letters show how very wrong Mad Hatter Eatter can be Dear Miss Blair We have just read the latter from Mad Hatter Hatler lIe He sounds entirely mad to us We dont don't know how old he is are not contemplating marriage at atthe atthe the present but we think his observation Is quite wrong We are two girls girl in our middle teens and we find it very rare for fora a boy to take the attitude of Mad tad Hatter HaUer We find it as ashard J hard to find an old fashioned old boy as he does an old fashioned girL We really do appreciate the arts ads and nd can understand his attitude We think however that he couldn't have looked very lar Surely we arent aren't the only old fashioned girls in Salt Lake DEE and DUM i Everybody knows what an old fashioned girl is is but will somebody please tell us what is meant by an fashioned l bo boy The fashion in in gIrls began chang changing in when women began demanding equal ri rights with men rom From to flappers flappers- the girl who thought she he could do everything her brother did and get getaway getaway away with we it-we have had a wide va variety or of girls differing from the really really real real- ly type But what about the boys It If they they've had similar simI simi- lar changes in outlook arid and deport deport- ment weve we've been doing a Rip Van Winkle act Dear Miss Blair I read with a great deal or of In In- the letter from Mad Hat Hat- ter Until then I had really doubted doubled that men existed exsted who i I Letters Questions and re re- quests for Cor advice should be addressed ad dressed to MISS BET BETT T Y BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S lIA HAVEN VEN TELEGRAM SALT L LA A K E. E Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It is necessary that you append up- up pend the right name and ad dress but these will be held in strict confidence and will nut nIl print Questions Involving in In- advertising Information annot be answered I had eyes for the beautiful and good In hi l life fe I 1 had thought it was the boys bos who liked to waste their time on the cheap entertainment enter enter- the present generation thrives upon I have also found most mast Los boys bored to de death th when anything that bordered on Intelligent intel conversation was attempt attempt- ed cd Evidently M l H. H doesn't knoW there are other girls like m myself my- my self who haven't time to waste trying to be up to date when there are so many interesting things about which to use our gray matter maUer I hope he takes time out to realize that Miss Blair made no mistake when she saId there were plenty like us right here In Salt Sail Lake OLD FASHIONED GIRL Are you ou convinced Mad Hatter Hatler that here and there and everywhere exist flesh and blood replicas of your our dream girl It should be a real adventure how to find her TO MAKE ACQUAINTANCE Dear ML Blair There are the strangest people in th the office where I work Nobody No No- body ever introduces anybody esc When I came came In n two months ago I 1 could speak to the others or not as I wished but nobody paid any particular attention to me I soon learned it wasn't because they disliked me as as' I feared at first but just that there were so many coming and going going go- go ing aU all the time they didn't take lake the time to make introductions to the new new ones Now a new boy has come In and andI I 1 know he feels just as I did in inthe the begInning that nobody wants him there except perhaps the boss who hired him He is such sucha a nice looking boy and so well be be- bayed haved that I would like to say something to him to let him knoW we dont don't dislike him but that everybody is just more or l less s Indifferent and expects the new ones to fit into their place without with with- out any fuss or bother Do you think I 1 should or should not break the ice and say something to make him feel at home He seems to be very veny shy and I know he must think we aU all despise him the wa way we act Thank you ou WANTA HELP Remembering your own unhappy experience so well I think you ou should say somethIng very casual to the boy when the opportunity presents presents- something to let him know that he now belongs to the fraternal order of tongue tied after aHer havIng spent so many days das there with nobody no body having put himself out to be courteous Let him know it is the usual thing in the office that nobody pays any attention to anybody else except as that somebody else quite as a matter of course demands at through casual ual remarks or possibly through some ome sort of inquiry relating to business Tell him you really do sometimes talk to each other alter after the ice has once been broken DINNER ETIQUETTE Dear Miss MIs Blair When you give a dinner at which there are no place cards who assigns the places to the gu guests the host or hostess At this particular dinner party there arc to be only eight guests Thank you OU M M M. M At a small maU dinner party such as yours ours the hostess tells the guests where to sit At a party ot of 12 or more more it would be cumbersome not to have place cards |
