Show D Divo Divorcee Would W uld Warn Wa rn Hubby's Ex-Hubby's H Ex-H u s Fiancee Of Rocks That Wre Wrecked ked Matrimony Matrimony- Ship By BETTY BLAIR BLAm BLAmA A safe guide in our relations with other people is to assume that they have as much intelligence as we think we have if not a agrain agrain agrain grain more It may save us the embarrassment of ia later er learning I we had much less than they or than we thought we had I IDear Dear Miss Blair t Two years ago I divorced my husband I w was ls madly In love with him when I married him but the ecstasy soon faded and we wo both knew we were not for each other My husband was a man who want wanted dali all th the love loye and attention h ho want wanted d to Co have a fond mothers mother's care and the flattering attentions of ot a wife who could keep herself beautiful for tor him to look at as aswell aswell well as be useful And usefulness in his mind meant that I sh should uld be a minute man ready to jump when the whip cracked Since I was reared as a kind of family pet myself that combination combination combination tion didn't work vork at all an But now to come to the problem that is bothering me at present In spite of f all aU that has happened I h have ve never really feany ceased caring for my husband or feeling a sort of a twinge whenever 1 I se se him out with other women women Sees Failure We meet on the most pleasant of ot terms He is now engaged to tobe tobo tobo bo be married again and Im I'm e sure his second marriage isn't going t to bo any more moro o of a success than mar mar- with me was The girl he le heIs heIs leIs Is going to marry Is ornamental without being at all us useful tul and andIni Im I'm sure she wont won't jump when ho he cracks racks the whip any more than I Idid Idid Idid did or as much I have had it In mind two or three times to tell ten her what would what would bo be expected of her but have re refrained reframed re- re fral framed cd from doing so for fear she would think thin X I 1 was was' was wa just just- pla play lar playing laring ing dog in the ma manger ger And Im I'm I sure I couldn't tell ten him that I he was making a mistake ke- ke keas as as s I wouldn't for the world the world have him think I was jealous Yet I cant can't bear to think of him of-him him going blindly blind blind- ly into this second marriage without without without with with- out turning a hand to let him see see where ho he is heading I feel sure sure that yo you can help me to see sec this this' thing straight so should appreciate ate any help you can give DIVORCEE Perhaps af after er all an tho the only kind ot of f woman who can truly make your husband x-husband happy happ is one who ho combines com corn bines the wifely and motherly qualities qualities ties and has the stick to as s an added quality to see the game through to the end And Its It's quite possible th that t no one except your our former ormer husband has been able poble to detect these qualities in the woman he is about to marry now Second Mistake l I cant can't conceive of ot a man turning rIght around round and making the same I mistake twice He hoped to find I something in you that wasn't there 1 as as' you as-you you did In him But he ho loved you you- none nono the less for lor a a. certain I he did find and wants that hat certain something duplicated in n the other woman plus the other qualities you didn't have and weren't willing willingto to develop lop There arc are women who just adore moving at the th crack of ot the whip their who never develop initiative of own own and who require that sort of direction to c complete their lives And since your former husband has asked this woman to marry him it t is only reasonable to suspect he hems has ms done so in the light of a former for lor- mer experience No you youcan can go to neither of them to tell either cither anything you may have other up your sleeve about the Love ove has revealed them to each other A p perfect marriage isn't ready made f fa far u- u them any ani more than thant It t Is ls for anybody else They themselves themselves themselves them them- selves must bear and forbear tomake tomake to tomake make their marriage ge approximate perfection And Arid you must not be bethe bethe the he one to drop the fly l in the ointment ointment ointment ment of their experiment Order Order- your own life so that your our Interests are definitely placed else else- where TO V WALK VALK ALK CORRECTLY X De Dear r Miss is Blair My doctor has has- told me I must walk a certain distance every day Now I know there Is a correct correct correct cor cor- cor- cor posture and swing to ass assume mc to get the most out of walking and I wish you Would tell me what It is Th Thanks a mUll million on JUNE When When walking lift the chest throw back the hips flatten the tummy stretch the tho body high Let arms swing naturally and comfortably comfortably comfortably comfort comfort- ably at the sides Never bend at atthe atthe atthe the knees Dont Don't walk with jerky steps that's bad for the nervous system or spinal column Breathe deeply Walk VaJk fast enough to bring moisture to the skin akin surface Nothing Nothing Noth Noth- ing like Jilee a dally daily tramp to keep the figure fit and bring roses to the cheeks There Is a dont I should remind you of too and that Is ls dont don't swing awing the hips when walking I |