Show SPOUSE STRIKES BACK BrACK BrACKIN IN DECEPTIVE MANNER FOR WIFE'S INFIDELITY A Cocktail Party What Is the Connected With It Will Vill Someone on the Outside Please Inform Letter Ending h 1 i i By BETTY BLAIR It If is a mistake to form conclusions regarding human b behavior havior from a single Instance Sometimes as many as a thousand cases are examined on one problem before a definite definite deli deli- nite nile statement is handed out as being authentic Dear Miss Blair I 1 have always wanted to tell someone my mr particular story yet yetI el 1 I have kept It to myself as there was no one to whom to tell It Now however that I am living Jiving In Salt Lake CH City and have hav discovered dis dis- covered that one may open her heart to you rou without fear tear of beIn being be be- In ing found out I am m going to tell all It will take many nany pages so o if you oU publish it you must mast cut it as you think best When I 1 was v was first married I did not love my husband I married him because my parents urged me to It t was wasa a goo good match matth from a financial standpoint There had been a boy whom I had loved a great deal but he had married another another an an- lD- lD other girl Cirl and so I thought I 1 might as well marry this other man as anybody else ele He was 13 years older elder than I and expected me mc to live his life liCe give up all my young oun friends to accept his and see his point of view entirely I wanted to be a good wife and so tried to do all this but I was hot ver very successful Or at 11 least he was always criticising me Then one day dar I met the boy I had once loved Circumstances were such that we were thrown together in the same same crowd and had a long talk with each other He told me he had never stopped loving me that he was very unhappy unhappy un un- happy in his married life me and begged me to let him see me oc oc- I listened to him and we did meet once in a while From Front those meetings came the Inevitable closer claser steps For a period period pe pe- pe- pe nod of over a year ear I was untrue to my husband My better nat nat nature na na- na- na t ture re tried to assert itself but I Idid Idid Idid did love this boy so much and did not love my husband enough I respected him F Finally nally my husbands husband's husbands husband's hus hWi- bands band's suspicions were aroused and he hired a detective have me rae watched Worst Fears Prove Proe True When his worst fears proved to tobe tobe tobe be true he ne threatened to kill the theman theman theman man but gave him just so many hours to get out of town He called me every vile name a man could think of I felt so terribly guilty that for years I looked upon myself as a worm and accepted the insolent kindness my husband gave Ia me as my right rightful ul due When m my babies came carne he neglected neg neg- me and left me to manage as best I could with my mother and a maid When I was well weIl again he gave up his hotel residence residence resi red dence deuce and C came home to live After ten years of this sort of life I finally discovered through a package and a note in my husbands husband's husbands husband's hus bus bands band's coat which I was sending to the cleaner that h he had been living with another woman and probably women for torah all I knew ever since he had found out my unfaithfulness to him Here he had been throwing it up to me inc all these years about ny say lover and making life me a perfect hell for me and for ten years he had been unfaithful to me and glorifying in the fact as a sort of revenge I took the letter and the package pack pack- age and laid them on his desk He merely looked up at me mc and gave a horrid laugh I turned away without a single word but from that d day y on he no longer treated me with c contempt gone on n living as man and wife wiCe in name though I am very sure he keeps this oth other r woman or women We have littie little little lit lit- tle tie to say to each other when clone though when in company as we often are arc we seem to be bethe bethe bethe the polite perennial lovers I I am telling this story just to show those women who have hav been writing about unfaithful husbands husbands hus bands the difference in treatment between a woman who is unfaithful unfaith unfaith- ful and a man A man will wm treat a woman as if she were something too low for tor his notice when she sidesteps but a woman on the contrary thinks she just has to grin and bear it no matter how bad things become Another thing is that a woman really suffers in her own mind for her mistakes ea while most men seem to glory In theirs Thank you Miss Blair for letting me rue confide in you as it really feels as if ii a burden burden burden bur bur- den has been lifted from my shoulders to write what has been on my mind all these years WRONG AND WRONGED or 4 We think a conclusion based wholly on your OUt own case as lC to the forgiving qualities in men and women is no not entirely justified We have known of cases where the woman made a I mistake and the husband was wholly magnanimous We think in your own case your husband took a er very unjust anta ad-anta advantage e of you ou but tha that your our reaction was psychologically psychological rl right L If you had ranted and roared at him for his his' deception during all those years he would doubtless have turned on you and shouted that tha t you got cot ex cx Letters questions and requests re re- quests for advice should hould be addressed to MISS BETTY DETTY BLAIR BLAIn HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT L LAKE A K E. E Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It is necessary that you ou append append append ap ap- ap- ap pend the right name and address address ad ad- dress but these will vill be held in strict confidence and will not appear in print Questions inI involving involving in in- advertising information information tion lion cannot be answered I what you deserved Your own I silence Hence was the one thing that made him im turn the hot irons of sis is upon himself and from it came caine a truer estimate of ot ou you Thanks for your our story stor- W v. and W. W V. V It may set many a husband and wife to thinking COCKTAIL PARTY Dear Miss Miss' Blair I am invited to a cocktail party and I have never been to one Will you please tell me what I Iam Iam Iam am supposed to do while there Is there a certain time that one must stay or do you you just stay as long longas as others are there Thank you ou INITIATE Sh Wait Walt until I run and ask somebody to give me the lowdown Heres Here's the cit city editor now who says you go carl early take a pail drink drinkall drinkall drinkall all you OU can while there and what you ou cant can't drink you take home in a bucket Sounds all wrong but Oh wait heres here's somebody else ele who vho says you'll be stopped if you take a bucket Better take flasks and seclude them until you ou leave Still sounds wrong Somebody said something about t down until you ou rolled Under under uner un- un der er the table Well its it's up to you whether or not you go to this cocktail party Will Vill somebody who knows something different dif dif- ferent from this about it please Inform Inform In- In form orm us TO CLOSE A LETTER Dear Miss Blair I am always puzzled as to how I should close the letters I write to my boy friend who h has gone away for the summer Sometimes Sometimes Sometimes Some Some- times I say With love but I dont don't feel right to put it this way as we are arc only very good friends and do not talk to each elch other about love Please tell me what to write Thank you NANCY You may write Affectionately at athe atthe atthe the he close of the letter or Sincerely Sincere ly y your friend or Always your friend With love however is a common form to close a letter be be- tureen tween friends who know each other intimately and does docs not mean in any sense of the word a declaration of love MALTESE 1 KITTENS Friends wanting wanting- two vo Maltese l kittens kittens kit- kit tens ens please call Wasatch or call callor for tor or them at 54 South State street They hey are askin asking for 10 good rood ad homes |