Show WOMAN HAS SYMPATHY THY FOR THOSE INVOLVED IN ETERNAL TRIANGLE Girls pid's Father Raises Opposition Without P Previous evious VI Warning Warn Warn- arn- arn ing ins Girl in Early Teens W Wants ns to Be Bc Better S Self lf l v vp p 1 By BETTY BLAIR BLAIR but It Is pretty hard for him S1 A Ii man may fool the world to fool a woman who really loves and studies him hini every day and and night of his life ne whether he Is actually with her in per per- lion eon or not Dear Miss Blair I have been very cry much interested interested inter inter- ested in three letters s that have havet t I appeared recently in your col col- col I imagine that more than hm one wife wife was interested 10 in inthe I- I I the letter of VI VII I M l IB I Amo a young girl L r I HI il who had had an afI affair af- af I- I I fair with a married I il M man three years I I previously and was hard to toI I trying so 50 I forget him in the I that came II reply II from The Man jn in inthe inthe the Case and in inI wife I the letter written by the the who thought she re recognized case as her husbands husband's a af When I first read the letter from the girl I thought it was my husband to whom she re re re- re But the letter coming as asit asit asit it did from the man in the case case disproved my theory In a way I I feel sorry for all us wives and then again it is the husbands for lor whom my ray sympathy goes out Ina Ina In Ina a way 1 I feel sorry for the poor deluded girls who vho have the mis mistaken nis- nis taken idea that a man man wants to tobe tobe I be torn from his wife wile his children children chi chil chil- chil dren and his own hearthside to set et up housekeeping with them Why cant can't they understand that our husbands want only one thing from them plenty of loving loving lov lov- ing and cuddling and that they dont don't even ven want to pay for that Its It's a queer world Miss Blair My husbands husband's many affairs have brought me rae to exactly the state of mind you told 1 Wife Wic she would come to So much that my ray husband loved in me has been routed out by the 1 unhappy experiences I have u passed through Yet we still cling together and try to find happiness and companionship Has Bas Sixth Sense I 1 can read him like a book It ItIs j Is like a sixth sense with me to tobe tobe be able to detect exactly when he he has another aff affair ir coming on his face Even lEven ven the muscles of show it He is in such misery for lor fear 1 I will find it out after alter his many promises to me that there will never b be another that even let him know I 1 know any more mor Neither do I bother to try y to out who the girl is It Jt just lust doesn doesn and I know that she will soon have h her grief in trying to forget him he be no lODger cares about I her ber hum Ho I think Ill I'll end this letter Jetter and go to a movie My f husband is staying late at his office tonight o mi on important busi- busi i 1 ness Poor man I 7 MONA GAMY The world is yours and all that's 1 In it Mona Gamy Any woman who can build herself hersell a philosophy of Cf life that admits a set of circumstances circumstances circum circum- stances as az devastating as yours has been and emerges through it with her right hand band still on the rudder just 1St cant can't nt be beaten by anything that may come along Your sense cense of humor has most as as- been one thing that has saved Aved your reason that has bas driven you out of a self centered world into one of almost unbelievable tolerance and understanding of other peoples people's points of view that brings you to tous us Snow now to toi I make us grieve for lor you et smile with yet you Women unable to do as you have done clone under similar circumstances will call caU you a fool for holding on onto onto onto to a man who has repeatedly violated Iii hits vows vows' to you Y Your U Ui knowledge of the fact that the violation of his himself is a far more serious thing and that when sudden and acute rep repentance tance c comes mes he need of someone to help him cl climb mb back to some semblance of self respect is important I 1 hope you found a good movie that really h helped you to for for- get ct the immediate pres present nt I FATHER INVITES hUM HIM OUT j Dear Miss Blair I L ll love ve a girl who lives in another another an an- other oilier town I have haves been over there to to see her lier several times I I love her very much and ancL she I to like me mer too The other I day when I was there we had a aI i I nice conversation her parents i I were there in jn the parlor with us t I r her father was very nice then until about an hour later when he came back from r m his walk and andI I said laid to me You can go now and you dont don't need to come back any more So I left leff the house at once without saying anything I called her up the next day and asked her what was the tr trouble uble She told me she didn't know know- and arid now I haven't seen or heard from her since Would it U be wise for me rue to go over there and speak to her father personally or just let the matter drop I still love her Please advise me me what to do PUZZLED Well 1 if you ou are in love Jove with the theirl Rid feirl irl I should think you would want Letters questions n a n d requests requests requests re re- re- re quests for advice should be addressed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S lIA HAVEN VEN TELEGRAM SALT L LA LAKE A K E. E Write legibly upon only one side of ot the paper It is necessary that you append ap ape pend the right name and address ad dress but these will tie be held in strict confidence and will not appear in print Questions inI involving in in- advertising Information information information I tion cannot be answered to know just what was in her fathers father's mind When hen he invited you out of his house But the house is his and md he may riot let you OU in to ask the reason for his unexpected opposition You could at least go to his house and ask for an audience If the father ather invites you in go in and talk with him Tell him you OU love his daughter and ask him what his objections objections ob ob- ob- ob j to you are If H he doesn't ask you in ask him out And in your our very best manner try to have an understanding If Ii he still will not listen to reason and andare you are arc sure you love the girl and she loves you and you are arc both olage of ol age read the story of young oung Lochinvar Lochin Lochin- var who came out of the west and long for the good old days when men were men and horses were steeds and maidens were willing DISSATISFIED Dear Miss Blair I I am so dissatisfied with myself myself my my- self I 1 dont don't know what to do I know I have a bad disposition yet when my family talks about it ft it makes me want to be meaner than ever I am not pretty and andI I dont don't like to be made to do things around the house house wash wash washing ing dishes and dusting especially espe espe- and daily and my brothers tease me My mother tells me I will get geta a scowl in m my forehead and an ugly mouth if it I dont don't stop pouting pouting pouting pout pout- ing so much and being so angry about everything I know she is 15 right and I really want to be pretty and nice but everything is so hard If I should say anything anything anything any any- thing pleasant or nice my brothers broth broth- ers would mock me and my mother would look surprised and say Well Vell its it's about time you were coming to Ui your senses o or I something like that and its it's easier to just go on being like I am When I am with other people I dont don't feel teel this way They like me and say nice things about my naturally curly hair and make me feel good but m my family never does docs Please tell me what to do I nm am 13 years old Do you think I should leave home CURLY No Curly dont don't leave home though I wish there were somebody in the home to say something nice niceto to you OU once in a while so you would want to be your really best self But you can be anyway by trying harder You dont don't want to grow up to have a droopy mouth and a bad disposition or you may make another home unhappy some day You arc are old enough to join the Girl Scouts Why dont don't yo you do so That wonderful organization does so much to bring out the best that is in girls and I really think you need a little outside help right now to be bethe bethe bethe the kind of girl you really are and that you must show your family and the world you are You must roust just not notice the things your family say to hurt you and try harder to do the work that helps to make things move m more re swiftly at home borne and also to tomake tomake tomake make them more pleasant |